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Topic: sex between friends
navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Sun 01/19/14 08:21 AM
I see my friends as extended family. The guys are like my brothers so sex would not be an option with these guys.

Pramod11070 Joined Tue 01/14/14 Posts: 3	Sun 01/19/14 09:31 AM
Friendship is pure relation.. One who come in difficulty thats the name in friend..if there sexual relation came in friendship there r no meaning of it.

red6mist Joined Sat 08/31/13 Posts: 948	Sun 01/19/14 03:19 PM
That's the kind of friendship I want. A friend that is always there for you, even when you're feeling horny.

paintecards01 Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 4725	Sun 01/19/14 03:21 PM
That's the kind of friendship I want. A friend that is always there for you, even when you're feeling horny. That's when they tell you to either go find another woman or take care of it yourself. Once you cross that line, you're no longer "just friends."

red6mist Joined Sat 08/31/13 Posts: 948	Sun 01/19/14 04:30 PM
Paintedcards. I don't see what all the fuss is about. You don't need to be in love to have sex. What is love anyway? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w34vnz_LEX4

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33274	Sun 01/19/14 04:54 PM
Paintedcards. I don't see what all the fuss is about. You don't need to be in love to have sex. What is love anyway? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w34vnz_LEX4 You also don't need to be friends to have sex, all you need for that is chemistry. If you have sex with a friend, it tends to make things rather awkward, it changes the friendship, can ruin it. Different story if you become friends with someone you have sex with. Then sex was part of the equation from the start.

Candiapples Joined Thu 07/18/13 Posts: 1941	Sun 01/19/14 05:04 PM Edited by Candiapples on Sun 01/19/14 05:04 PM
If I wanna have sex with my friend then I will and its nobodys Bzzzwax

izzyphoto1977 Joined Thu 06/06/13 Posts: 5016	Sun 01/19/14 05:07 PM
Paintedcards. I don't see what all the fuss is about. You don't need to be in love to have sex. What is love anyway? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w34vnz_LEX4 My answer to you video. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hQEgsNl7CWQ SEX: EPIC FAIL

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33274	Sun 01/19/14 05:13 PM
Paintedcards. I don't see what all the fuss is about. You don't need to be in love to have sex. What is love anyway? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w34vnz_LEX4 My answer to you video. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hQEgsNl7CWQ SEX: EPIC FAIL He can have his way with her whenever he wants, she won't even notice. Very convenient (for him)

paintecards01 Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 4725	Sun 01/19/14 05:13 PM
Paintedcards. I don't see what all the fuss is about. You don't need to be in love to have sex. What is love anyway? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w34vnz_LEX4 I never said you had to be in love to have sex. I said you shouldn't **** your friends. Once you do that, you're no longer just friends. Even if you try to go back to your previous relationship, one person always has new feelings for the other.

izzyphoto1977 Joined Thu 06/06/13 Posts: 5016	Sun 01/19/14 05:16 PM
Paintedcards. I don't see what all the fuss is about. You don't need to be in love to have sex. What is love anyway? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w34vnz_LEX4 I never said you had to be in love to have sex. I said you shouldn't **** your friends. Once you do that, you're no longer just friends. Even if you try to go back to your previous relationship, one person always has new feelings for the other. What if it's just cyber sex or phone sex? lol

paintecards01 Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 4725	Sun 01/19/14 05:18 PM
Paintedcards. I don't see what all the fuss is about. You don't need to be in love to have sex. What is love anyway? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w34vnz_LEX4 I never said you had to be in love to have sex. I said you shouldn't ** your friends. Once you do that, you're no longer just friends. Even if you try to go back to your previous relationship, one person always has new feelings for the other. What if it's just cyber sex or phone sex? lol Still changes the dynamics; I can't tell you "Oh Izzy baby, ** me harder, yeah yeah...oooooo right there" and then try to be friendly and casual the next day on the boards, now can I?????

izzyphoto1977 Joined Thu 06/06/13 Posts: 5016	Sun 01/19/14 05:21 PM
Paintedcards. I don't see what all the fuss is about. You don't need to be in love to have sex. What is love anyway? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w34vnz_LEX4 I never said you had to be in love to have sex. I said you shouldn't ** your friends. Once you do that, you're no longer just friends. Even if you try to go back to your previous relationship, one person always has new feelings for the other. What if it's just cyber sex or phone sex? lol Still changes the dynamics; I can't tell you "Oh Izzy baby, ** me harder, yeah yeah...oooooo right there" and then try to be friendly and casual the next day on the boards, now can I????? I don't know. I tell you tomorrow. lol

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33274	Sun 01/19/14 05:21 PM
Paintedcards. I don't see what all the fuss is about. You don't need to be in love to have sex. What is love anyway? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w34vnz_LEX4 I never said you had to be in love to have sex. I said you shouldn't **** your friends. Once you do that, you're no longer just friends. Even if you try to go back to your previous relationship, one person always has new feelings for the other. Exactly. Almost went there with my best mate when I was in Oz. Lord knows how we ended up there to begin with. At some point we looked at each other and both felt like "Are we really going to do this and prolly ruin our friendship?" and decided against it. Our friendship was way too valuable. We put our clothes back on, never talked about it after that, but were mates till I had to leave Oz.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33274	Sun 01/19/14 05:23 PM
Paintedcards. I don't see what all the fuss is about. You don't need to be in love to have sex. What is love anyway? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w34vnz_LEX4 I never said you had to be in love to have sex. I said you shouldn't ** your friends. Once you do that, you're no longer just friends. Even if you try to go back to your previous relationship, one person always has new feelings for the other. What if it's just cyber sex or phone sex? lol Still changes the dynamics; I can't tell you "Oh Izzy baby, ** me harder, yeah yeah...oooooo right there" and then try to be friendly and casual the next day on the boards, now can I????? I don't know. I tell you tomorrow. lol

paintecards01 Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 4725	Sun 01/19/14 05:24 PM
Paintedcards. I don't see what all the fuss is about. You don't need to be in love to have sex. What is love anyway? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w34vnz_LEX4 I never said you had to be in love to have sex. I said you shouldn't ** your friends. Once you do that, you're no longer just friends. Even if you try to go back to your previous relationship, one person always has new feelings for the other. What if it's just cyber sex or phone sex? lol Still changes the dynamics; I can't tell you "Oh Izzy baby, ** me harder, yeah yeah...oooooo right there" and then try to be friendly and casual the next day on the boards, now can I????? I don't know. I tell you tomorrow. lol

paintecards01 Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 4725	Sun 01/19/14 05:25 PM
Paintedcards. I don't see what all the fuss is about. You don't need to be in love to have sex. What is love anyway? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w34vnz_LEX4 I never said you had to be in love to have sex. I said you shouldn't **** your friends. Once you do that, you're no longer just friends. Even if you try to go back to your previous relationship, one person always has new feelings for the other. Exactly. Almost went there with my best mate when I was in Oz. Lord knows how we ended up there to begin with. At some point we looked at each other and both felt like "Are we really going to do this and prolly ruin our friendship?" and decided against it. Our friendship was way too valuable. We put our clothes back on, never talked about it after that, but were mates till I had to leave Oz. It's good you were able to be friends again, not sure I could have done that.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33274	Sun 01/19/14 05:59 PM
Paintedcards. I don't see what all the fuss is about. You don't need to be in love to have sex. What is love anyway? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w34vnz_LEX4 I never said you had to be in love to have sex. I said you shouldn't **** your friends. Once you do that, you're no longer just friends. Even if you try to go back to your previous relationship, one person always has new feelings for the other. Exactly. Almost went there with my best mate when I was in Oz. Lord knows how we ended up there to begin with. At some point we looked at each other and both felt like "Are we really going to do this and prolly ruin our friendship?" and decided against it. Our friendship was way too valuable. We put our clothes back on, never talked about it after that, but were mates till I had to leave Oz. It's good you were able to be friends again, not sure I could have done that. Yeah, must say it was a good experience in an odd way. We both put in the effort to be friends again, wasn't all that difficult. We did love each other, but not that way, haha. I sometimes have these weird, but intense friendships with men. Still got a couple of those in the UK :)

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sun 01/19/14 06:10 PM
If I call her my girlfriend is it alright for us to use each other then? n o seriously whatever consenting adults consent to .... the issues arise when full disclosure does not occur on the part of either one or both and I think it's silly to try to pretend that you are not going to develop "feelings"

markc48 Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 5536	Mon 01/20/14 08:15 PM
If I wanna have sex with my friend then I will and its nobodys Bzzzwax I support this 100% and so do my friends