I agree and a person would be a moron if they didn't ask questions about the others. There are lots of crazies, users, criminals, and abusers out there. We all need to be very cautious in this day and age.

Agree!! But to add to this a little more! We are all here for one reason or another,ie; date,talk,debate and yes mingle as the site is named. Whatever the reason you are here (and should be stated in your information in your introductions) don't forget there are people here on mingle with some feelings left. Have consideration for them and respect for yourself! There are a lot of nice people here on mingle and my friends show me this ! Who knows with the area mingle covers in the world you someday may actually meet in person for maby that (forever friend?) Everyone Have a good Weekend!!

Relations come and go. When you love and the love changes, hold that feeling, if you throw love away ,many things go with it... Just hold that feeling, that perception, that expanded internal space.....good luck

Relations come and go. When you love and the love changes, hold that feeling, if you throw love away ,many things go with it... Just hold that feeling, that perception, that expanded internal space.....good luck

Seems to be a 2 way street, on one sight I joined recently the majority of the women thought so much of themselves were only interested in me men younger than selves. Wouldn't even consider someone of same age.
Personally I'd prefer my partner to know the same songs, usually means they are on the same page as you. I'll date a younger woman id the gap is not too ridiculous but lets face at my time of life i just don't have the energy for a 30 year old and when such - and younger - get in touch I know it's not by body they are desirous off.
So yes men like older women, I went on a date with a woman 4 years older than me recently, bit of a stunner and very sexy. Unfortunately she didn't feel same about me.

MY "COMMON SENSE" tells me to find "FRIENDS" first, learn about them, as a "FRIEND". Then if you want to get closer, TALK with your "FRIEND" & see what their thoughts are. If they are not of the same mind, you still have a "FRIEND". All this "relationship" first & "FRINDS" later; is like "putting the cart in front of the horse". NOT the best way to go some where.

Very wise words from a person that has been here longer than i have!! My first time on here i was bombarded with Women local and from different countries, it was astronomical?? To possibly find a "forever friend" then be a Friend First!! Times have changed for us "older people" but youth still lies in our Hearts! We just need to be careful here!! Join the forums there are some good Hearts there!! "SOME"

Two very wise men!!!!!

I am 61 yrs old and find most women my age still stuck on the possessive thing, single minded and singly determined to find a monogamous and monotonous relationship. What I suggest is they focus on loving the moment they are in and stop worrying about the rest of your life. It will take care of itself. Especially if you have the kind of friend you will find standing with you in the man you have unconditionally loved and supported. Don't label it, no conditions, no rules no boundary's, just devotion and appreciation that there is love present to be had and shared! As I tell everyone, 'Love Me While I'm Here'!

i am looking for woman post menopause.

all you ladies message me

and i will tell you why.

Oh yes they are.Older women are more settled and less needy ,and more experienced and spoil their man more.I prefer older women or women my age.

Maybe these ladies just want a nice guy to settle down with rather than playing games by dating guy after guy. Being monogamous means less chance of catching some sexual disease which is wise. Perhaps these ladies want a real man who is not afraid to commit rather than a immature man who wants to date like he is a 19 year old kid. Needless to say; thank you for reminding me hodw lucky I am to have stopped dating as I truly am not missing a damn thing.

The dating world is going to miss out on a beautiful goodhearted (((((Lady!!)))))

You are kind but its just as well after reading what this guy wrote. Very sad world we live in.

I don't know even now why i joined a dating site, especially now since what happened last May with this injury. I've been in some of the forums and have got to know (the both sides) of navygirl in reading these topics and your comments also! I feel as a man I still can give in a relationship and that's the only thing keeping me from Deleting all of me on here, crawling inside of a shell and ((allowing no one in)) Give up!! I've seen bitter people go through life putting the same bitterness towards everyone around them, then die a lonely existence! With all i've seen you still,are a Beautiful person inside and out and deserve a good relationship and are willing to give the same as you are given!! You have been through Hell and more,the same as i have in life "in general" relations and otherwise!! Some more so than me, That's why i sent you a friends request (to be here for you) and all my other Friends as well!! We may disagree sometimes but i expect nothing less!! I do (from the Heart) wish you the best and you deserve the best!!! (Will) You have so much to give and need the receiving part as i do!!

I do have much to give which is why I have devoted all my time to community work. I have been through hell and honestly have no wish to repeat this. Life is too short and I want to be happy; not stressed out. I like my freedom; hate the drama attached to relationships; the control, or the accountability to someone. My community work gives me a sense of belonging, being appreciated, a sense of accomplishment; and people accept me just the way I am. As for being lonely; I am never truly alone as I have supportive friends, family, and now even co-workers who are always there for me. I found once I stopped dating; I was much happier; more rested, less stressed, and enjoying life. I don't believe that being in a relationship is the right thing for me. The forums here have been educational in the fact that a relationship would do more damage to me and not let me grow as a person. I have a very analytical mind and I see no reason to subject myself to being in a relationship as it would only restrict me from new experiences that I feel are better explored on my own. I do think very highly of you and I do hope you find what you are looking for.

Personally I feel the same but leaving all options open. I see others around me spasing out on (what should be) for them not thinking of others around them! Sad situation! But beep in my mind (i'm comfortable),being Military you have the answer! (Survival Mode!)

You got it; its all about survival. Yeah; way I figure it; I am fortunate to have what I have in life. I have learned to appreciate what I do have and not what I don't have. When it gets closer to Christmas; you will see post after post of people whining about being alone for Christmas. I don't feel for them at all as my worries are those who have no jobs, no food, and even worse in this -40 below weather that we have; have no shelter. On top of it; they are alone as well. My thoughts are with those people; not the ones on here that have a roof over their head, a full stomach, employment, and a nice warm bed to sleep in.

Anyone can be popular surrounded by millions of others and still be so alone "it kills them"!
((((((((Ghostwolf))))))))