Topic: Are older men interested in older women???
oldsage's photo
Thu 08/14/14 04:07 AM


:smile: I am a woman in my early fities. Have been divorced for 14 years. I am ready to get back into the dating scene, and wondering if older men truly interested in meeting older women or are they only looking for young trophy gorlfriends/ wives?


The majority of older men are looking for younger women - that is why Viagra was invented - so they could keep having sex after mother nature had played her part. Most older men cannot sustain an erection past 60 or don't require sex as often. Women after menopause go into another phase of their sexuality - no longer driven by the procreation gene, they want sex for different reasons. Men don't get this and turn to Viagra and younger women. Older women have become invisible. That's what we get for trying to fool Mother Nature. JOAN


Exceptions to every rule.

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Fri 08/15/14 09:05 PM
Older man or woman are more interested in wormth, true love and kind love able person - not always a hot body !

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Fri 08/15/14 09:06 PM
Older man or woman are more interested in wormth, true love and kind love able person - not always a hot body !

Rubicat's photo
Tue 08/19/14 09:59 AM
The nice part about being older is we are more relaxed.I dont feel I have to compete and if I dont find a man who makes me happy well I am quite happy on my own

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Sun 08/24/14 06:05 PM
dont feel bad. i am 51 and been single for 6 years now and i cant get a woman to look at me once, never mind twice. odd when i was married all kinds of women wanted to go out with me. but now that im single, HA!! not a one in sight.

tounge63's photo
Tue 09/02/14 07:12 AM
sweetheart my self i ratter date a olderwoman im not in to the little girls

Husker5347's photo
Wed 09/03/14 06:36 AM

The nice part about being older is we are more relaxed.I dont feel I have to compete and if I dont find a man who makes me happy well I am quite happy on my own

Now isn't that the truth. Not a lot great about getting older but that is definitely one of them.

elle_rose's photo
Thu 09/18/14 12:52 AM
older men for me is attractive.....

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Thu 09/18/14 08:43 PM
Younger men are more attractive to me. Guys my own age are just tooo old in thought and body.

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Fri 09/19/14 05:52 AM
For me, it's all about companionship. As a senior, most of us have already been married and raised a family, and for one reason or another we now find ourselves single again. Living a comfortable, happy life is great, but lacking someone to share it with is rough. There's always something missing. Finding the right mate at this age can be difficult though, especially for someone as active as I am. I know how I want to spend the rest of my life. Hopefully Mingle2 will be able to help me find the right lady to grow old with.

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Fri 09/19/14 06:05 AM
Edited by adventureman64 on Fri 09/19/14 06:16 AM
This is not the thread I posted on. What happened ? Guess I screwed up already. Please see 'What men over 50 are looking for.' Thanks.

p2154622's photo
Sat 09/20/14 07:55 AM
We all have that vision of who we would like to be with. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. For me, age is not important. Slim build and a brain. Being very active physically active is important. Having a country mindset and liking horses also important. Similar live experiences needs to be there.

dannycg's photo
Sat 09/20/14 04:52 PM
Everyone needs somebody!


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dlarryk18295's photo
Fri 09/26/14 12:47 PM
Hello, I'm 57 and would love to find a woman closer to my age. I'm one of the few exceptions to the rule, apparently! It's very difficult meeting someone and hoping for compatibility between the two parties. Exclusivity is another thing I'm hoping to find in Ms. Right! I guess if I never find anyone again, I'm still going to be happy and just turn my attention away from the dating scene. Have a great day.

graywolf55's photo
Sat 09/27/14 05:39 AM
frustrated drool Who are you calling (OLD)? Were classics, Been there,done that types!! We can profile, out shine, and cruse with the best!! Like a vintage Car or a good aged bottle of Brandy!! Smooooooooooth,Sleeeeeeeek, Heavenly!! Just blow out the carboratots,tune her up and then stand back- the race is on with style!!! Blows your drawers off every time , and staying power to last a lifetime! "Get Old on your time i'm still rolling on!!"tongue2 Both Barrels BLASTING!!! (Can you keep up?)tongue2 winking :angel:

s8dy's photo
Sat 09/27/14 08:02 AM
Edited by s8dy on Sat 09/27/14 08:16 AM
After looking through hundreds of pics of men between the ages of 59 and 70 I have noticed that Most pictures portray individuals of at least 10years older than their declared age. What is it with the scraggly beards, mustaches and long hair? I'm inclined to think "..are you kidding? Or what kind of life have you lived? And do I want to live that life too? Why are you hiding behind all that hair? If the guy is on his Harley, with his dog, sport car, a prized fish, children or grand babies and beater shirt; face it he is not going to be into you. You are now a part of his collection. Another thing. Profession: Retired . This tells you nothing about the guy, only that he cannot afford you for a wife or long term relationship. Profession should be more specific and require an industry too. Like retired:Farmer, preacher, scientist so as to relate to a possible prospective. Just wondering,little things

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Sat 09/27/14 08:24 AM
Edited by Criollo99 on Sat 09/27/14 08:58 AM
After looking through hundreds of pics of men between the ages of 59 and 70 I have noticed that Most pictures portray individuals of at least 10years older than their declared age. What is it with the scraggly beards, mustaches and long hair? I'm inclined to think "..are you kidding? Or what kind of life have you lived? And do I want to live that life too? Why are you hiding behind all that hair? If the guy is on his Harley, with his dog, sport car, a prized fish, children or grand babies and beater shirt; face it he is not going to be into you. You are now a part of his collection. Another thing. Profession: Retired . This tells you nothing about the guy, only that he cannot afford you for a wife or long term relationship. Profession should be more specific and require an industry too. Like retired:Farmer, preacher, scientist so as to relate to a possible prospective. Just wondering,little things


This is one reason y we don't go for "older" women. The 20 questions, judgmental behavior, simply "mental", and financial statements "requirements" lol Older women cannot seemed to simply relax and enjoy the moments without complaining... more power 2u!

Still, not relaxed... that's my point! Thanks for making my point for me!

Nevermind the divorce at least twice... lol

oldsage's photo
Sat 09/27/14 08:46 AM

After looking through hundreds of pics of men between the ages of 59 and 70 I have noticed that Most pictures portray individuals of at least 10years older than their declared age. What is it with the scraggly beards, mustaches and long hair? I'm inclined to think "..are you kidding? Or what kind of life have you lived? And do I want to live that life too? Why are you hiding behind all that hair? If the guy is on his Harley, with his dog, sport car, a prized fish, children or grand babies and beater shirt; face it he is not going to be into you. You are now a part of his collection. Another thing. Profession: Retired . This tells you nothing about the guy, only that he cannot afford you for a wife or long term relationship. Profession should be more specific and require an industry too. Like retired:Farmer, preacher, scientist so as to relate to a possible prospective. Just wondering,little things


This is one reason y we don't go for "older" women. The 20 questions, judgmental behavior, simply "mental", and financial statements "requirements" lol Older women cannot seemed to simply relax and enjoy the moments without complaining... more power 2u!


Different strokes/ Different folks. Men & Women need to do the same thing. FRIENDSHIP: Is where everything starts. MANNERS REQUIRED. Decent pictures help. Age isn't just a number, attitude can help over come SOME age differences. Now you have MY OPINION.

s8dy's photo
Sat 09/27/14 08:53 AM
In my defense. Think about it, all we have are Pictures and descriptives to make a judgeMent to respond to or not. Age and maturity does not equal Judge-MENtal. By the way Kids today have more than 20 questions and requests.

graywolf55's photo
Sat 09/27/14 10:59 AM


After looking through hundreds of pics of men between the ages of 59 and 70 I have noticed that Most pictures portray individuals of at least 10years older than their declared age. What is it with the scraggly beards, mustaches and long hair? I'm inclined to think "..are you kidding? Or what kind of life have you lived? And do I want to live that life too? Why are you hiding behind all that hair? If the guy is on his Harley, with his dog, sport car, a prized fish, children or grand babies and beater shirt; face it he is not going to be into you. You are now a part of his collection. Another thing. Profession: Retired . This tells you nothing about the guy, only that he cannot afford you for a wife or long term relationship. Profession should be more specific and require an industry too. Like retired:Farmer, preacher, scientist so as to relate to a possible prospective. Just wondering,little things


This is one reason y we don't go for "older" women. The 20 questions, judgmental behavior, simply "mental", and financial statements "requirements" lol Older women cannot seemed to simply relax and enjoy the moments without complaining... more power 2u!


Different strokes/ Different folks. Men & Women need to do the same thing. FRIENDSHIP: Is where everything starts. MANNERS REQUIRED. Decent pictures help. Age isn't just a number, attitude can help over come SOME age differences. Now you have MY OPINION.

Since when does a man in his 50s have need to support a Wife? We have already supported a woman, raised children,bought homes, put groceries on the table, paid utilities,etc.etc. In our 50s now its compatibility not affordability!! If you are compatible with then (why do i need to know if i can afford you? Maby everyone needs to put a stamped pricetag on our butts or profile? Afford a Female "i don't think so" there's too many out here now (men and women) paying that price for NOTHING IN RETURN!! just a bunch of Drama!! Afford Hell No!! And as far as long hair,beards? Personally i'm tirde of impressing anyone that "won't even take the time to get to know me? Does a 3 piece suit make the man? If so your choice i'm no beggar! No pauper not even President! But it suits the Hell out of me!!