Hi JSH,

First of all sorry that I haven't kept up with mail. It's been a very busy time for me. Bonny has done a wonderful job keeping in touch. (thank you hun).

Guys,

Are you being nice to the women of JSH? It always bugs me when guys think it is ok to play with the heads of my friends. It's not cool, and it's not charming. Why hurt someone? You know it is no big deal if it doesn't work out, but it is a big deal when someone is played. These ladies are our sisters, and you need to treat them with honor and respect so please do so. Everyone Guy, or Gal deserves to be honored. If you don't at least have that going for you, than why are you on JSH at all.

I'm not the player police, but please treat our sisters with respect.

JSH ladies,

If you've been burnt up here try not to give up. There are good guys out there, it's just that it is so easy to be a dating site player. Always remember, you deserve the best, and nothing shy of that.

Don't you just feel like hanging a sign up saying "PLAYERS NOT WANTED"?

Guys,

Take off your player face, and "treat her right"

peace and love, from Bonny and me

So sweet and nice to see your words again.I always look forward to that from you both.Hugs to you both.

wow i agree with that mg good point

Thanks so much for posting that. I appreciate it. I know I have been played so many times and I am tired of it. When someone nice actually comes along you get scared because you dont want to be used or hurt again. But again I thank you for standing up for all the ladies on here and guys too!

Thanks mg for posting this....good topic

Nobody appreciates being played whether male or female. You're dealing with emotions of the heart that are fragile (unless your a heartless non-caring individual that doesn't give a damn about anybody but yourself).

I myself have been played numerous times. After awhile you just become numb to the whole "relationship" idea and I often question whether I would know the real thing when and if the "right" one does come along. I haven't given up on it completly....just being a whole lot more cautious and picky.

Very valid points Michael.......except that players can be both male or female. The last couple of weeks I noticed something on here that is just as bad.........the meanness that is going on.........people getting banned, deactivating all because it seems like everyone is in a mood to fight, call names, and take out their unhappiness on others.

No matter where you go, be it online or offline, you will see Players and Miserable people who just want to see others unhappy. So I guess its up to each of us to choose whether we will leave them ruin a place where friendships are made, and love can be found.

I've been played by the best of them, and the Miserable ones have tried their best to make me unhappy. I refuse to leave them take control of my life, by participating anymore in their games.

So players and miserable ones beware the Ladies and Gentlemen of JSH will come together, we will continue to have fun, share laughter, support each other, and build strong friendships.

thanks Michael, it is not easy these days to try and develope a relationship let alone be played. Trust is a key issue and I am trying to trust until further indication that it is not there.

I totally agree here and since I am new I just wanted to say to everyone that at first I thought there would never be anything come out of this jsh site, well maybe some online friends and that would have been ok with me...we all need friends...but to find someone so compatible with me...well I never thought it would be possible. Will have to keep everyone updated...first date today! As nervous as a teen on her first date...what do i wear, what do I say...palms sweating already, LOL
I have a hard time trusting people, trying real hard to give it a shot...just dont want to get hurt. any and all advice will be appreciated

Thanks MG that was nice...

Right on! Well said and I wish everyone the best in finding that special someone or friends.

Very wise words Michal. But I think it is good to point out that it can work both ways as well.


((((((((((Michal)))))))))))

I hope you are doing well.

Wow Michael..too bad my ex's didn't see this before they decided to play me

I agree whole-heartedly. It disgusts me seeing men act like such scum toward women.

Myself, I like women too much to treat them bad

Yup. Be friendly with your friends whether they are male or female. I have some good women friends. Some are married; Some have boyfriends and some are single. It gives one a real nice feeling to feel the respect and dignity that friends can give you.

Michael, good to see you! Bonny has been keeping me updated on things, as well as periodically harrassing me by resurrecting the Appreciation Thread from time to time, so I don't feel totally out of the loop on you guys!

Anyway, to address this particular topic, I think if you ask any of my friends, they will tell you that I am ALWAYS very nice to the ladies here.

Unfortunately, that strategy DOES NOT WORK, so from now on, I will simply be throwing tangerines at them.

air traffic control has raised the tangerine alert level to "orange"

OK, then, I will throw oranges, it's all fruit and it's all healthy, unless it hits you in the eye or something.

Wear safety glasses!

A message from the American Association for Safe Eyewear Awareness (AASEA)

maritime asks: are any of these naval oranges? please advise...

I cant stop playing with these things!!!

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I think they're staring at me!