any relationship seekers on here just wondering ??

I have not seen much here at all, most visits are by people with no picture of themselves or from other countries. The few that are not like these are young men looking for sex

yep am happy am not the only one that see this ...

I can honestly say, I have not been approached, for sex, by any lady on this site.
Now, does that answer your question?
SMIRK

I have been approached by "supposed" young, beautiful women who fall into the following categories:
Buy me a house.
Buy me a car.
Buy me a motor cycle or scooter
I need money for rent and or food.
Send me money and I will come to you. I counter her request with, I will come get you. That totally ends
the conversation.
Finally, the one that really surprised me was, "I need money to help pay for my daughter's college
education.

I, being more than a few years older then them, aka older than their grandfather, they must believe I am desperate and dumber than a sack full of rocks.

As we all know, all the men in the US are so very very wealthy, with so much money we will gladly give it away without any expectations.

To these ladies, I respond, "I was born at night but not, last night."

I also know, if a beautiful woman knocks on the side of my boat, she want directions to somewhere ELSE.

I can second that opinion. I haven't actually been approached by any of the scammers here YET ... I am hope I am not ever approached by such. Not all guys here are "young guys looking for sex". There are "old guys looking for sex" too.

But, seriously, some of us are for real. Just like some of the ladies are for real. Does that mean these "real" people are right for one-another? Not necessarily, but there are real people out there ... or at least in my fantasy world version of this site, there are ... Who knows. Maybe it's not just a fantasy ... Only time will tell.

i am looking for a active relationship i am not looking for money and i am not looking for a one night stand and i am not looking for just a sex buddy from a woman that is a swinger i want the real deal with a woman that is trust worthy to many woman now days are scam artists on line if you are not for real and u just want to try to send me to a off shore sex site so u get paid on my account then dont hit me up i am a song writer singer rapper dancer and a loving honest man

Yes, Absolutely! I'd be happy just to find a decent friend on here. I'm just tired of getting lured offline to scammers....

this simply isn't true. I find intellectual conversation just as stimulating as sex . in fact its a prerequisite for sex in my book. but yes the vast majority of men are pigs and pigs eat anything and are never satisfied one fine meal.. instead they choose to get as much garbage as possible..

You know something, it's even a bit insulting to have to ask the very question whether all guys are here simply for sex. If I had my choice, I would meet an attractive woman every bit as silly, funny, and with an equal child-like zest for adventure and going out - just to have a good time (which is NOT code for having sex). Why should it be so hard to meet others who happen to like Racquetball or kayaking, and be able to pick up the phone and say "hey, why not join me for sushi (again, NOT code for sex)? If you think it's hard for women, imagine how hard it is for a guy who has to walk a tight-rope between being a complete angel possibly risking that his date not think he's into her, verses that guy who simply tries to hold her hand or give a single first date kiss goodnight, and risks the girl whigging out and thinking he's some perv... just because he attempts to convey the least amount of interest and attraction?

Tell you what girls, let's reverse the roles and let YOU be the one to initiate contact throughout the courtship process. I'll assume very few if any will put their hand up for the role.

I'm either contacted by fake profiles or hookers. I'd welcome the opportunity to pay for everything.

Coming from a guy, and take no offense in this, it comes down to two things. 1. How you present yourself and 2. Odds.
Again, I've never seen your profile so I'm speaking generally. I run into quite a few profiles on various sites and the honest truth is some of the girls look like I can say a few lines and throw a few dollars at them and get them in bed. These are often the women who have a bunch of bikini or "sexy" pictures and mention that they always down to have "fun". Sometimes even the username give it away.

On the other side, it's all about the odds. When you're REALLY trying to win the lotto, you don't buy a single ticket, you buy multiple tickets. The same thing applies here. Throw a cheesey pick-up line at 15 people 3 may take the bait, as time goes 2 may stop responding for one reason or another and the last may agree to meet up.

So with those 2 things in mind, that's why those guys do what they do. It's just the way these dating sites go. The best thing you can do is ensure your profile doesn't promote this and when you are approached, simply delete the message. Don't even give it the time of day to reply. Also keep in mind that because most of these guys are likely using a message template you're still likely going to get these advances, it's just how it goes.
As a guy, I get messages from time to time about watching "a girl" on webcam, visiting a gentlemen's club, or registering for a webcam site. It's just the nature of the beast. Weed all that crap out and look for your diamond in the rough. Whether you know it or not, there are guys out there doing the same as you - truly looking for something real.

I wanted to thank a couple of guys for their honest responses on here, but when I went to check out their profiles, they were deactivated! I can only hope they were real people and maybe actually found what they were looking for here - wouldn't that be nice?

I think anywhere you go on or offline, there are people wanting all sorts of things and it is just about sifting and sorting until you get someone that matches more or less what you want. Good luck to anyone reading this - I hope this site does connect people. Am new to it, so will wait and see! :)

Also your the first person to post on this post since March. Try the forums if your intrested in real people and funny posts, especially the political ones! So tell'em Rob sent you! And Welcome to Mingle.

Thanks Rob. Yes, I realised it was an older topic, once I came across the deactivations and looked more at the dates! I was exploring the topics and this was the first one I found some decent honest comments on.

I am not too interested in getting involved in the forums, as want to meet someone / some people in person who are local to me for meet ups, rather than ongoing online communications and discussion - as great as they can be, but thanks for pointing out to me where they good ones are - maybe it will be useful for someone else reading this.

Thanks again for taking the time to reply - all the best!

Yes me

hey whats up any girls from leesburg present?

Well I'm a 30 year old guy and I'm not looking for sex...... No! go away

I know a rather old post. But frankly the forum is better than the online choices. I am sure the woman are asking for money, etc. But the men are just as bad. Outside of 2 everyone that has approached has some lame game and want sex. IT takes maybe 5 comments and they are there. Can't carry a serious conversation for more than a few messages. Now all are not that way I am sure. Some are probably serious I just haven't had contact with more than 2 that meet that quality. And all women are not looking for money or a ticket to wherever. I like where I am and will not leave. I make my own money and don't need nor want anyone elses. Truth be know I am the minority of females who get the pleasure of paying alimony to a man. So you divorced men I know just how you feel. EXACTLY! For me the line is entertaining. Nothing like having a good laugh on a bad day.

hey just read your post.. im new to this too...where do you live