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kissablekiss Joined Mon 03/08/10 Posts: 8528	Thu 01/02/14 03:12 PM
Why are older women who date younger men called Cougars,but older men with younger women are called dirty old men ?

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45395	Thu 01/02/14 03:33 PM
Mmmm it may have something to do with, who asks whom out. In both cases, it can be the guy. I fell for a younger guy in spite of his age. Men seem to go for the young because of their age.

Taylormotm Joined Thu 01/02/14 Posts: 5	Thu 01/02/14 03:50 PM
At 42, I'm looking for an older woman. They are more experienced, mature, clever, funny, witty, together, strong. God I love older women.....

dcastelmissy Joined Thu 08/01/13 Posts: 39633	Thu 01/02/14 03:53 PM
I'm of the opinion that if older men want to date younger girls, so be it; also, if older women want to date younger men, so be it. Ultimately each person will need to live with either the pleasure or consequences of their choices, so it's really no one else's business but THEIRS! JMHO

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Thu 01/02/14 04:04 PM
Why are older women who date younger men called Cougars,but older men with younger women are called dirty old men ? I think the whole cougar thing got started as a kind of payback to men who were leaving relationships and marriages with women their own age to pursue younger women for superficial reasons that stroked their ego...Meaning arm candy, virility, etc ...When well known celebs like Cher, Madonna, and Demi started getting press for snagging hot, younger men the term Cougar was coined and stuck... The expression "Dirty Old Men" was probably started by ugly old women who lost their guys to young beautiful hotties when they stopped taking care of themselves....

lionsbrew Joined Tue 08/22/06 Posts: 14232	Thu 01/02/14 04:26 PM
I usually have a four year rule myself. Recently though I have been getting a lot of attention from women in their early to mid twenties. One in particular has been coming on to me pretty strongly. I have to admit its making me second guess my own thoughts. Does that make me a dirty old man? Granted I am in only nearing my mid thirties but still. I don't think its a name to be ashamed of. Some may say I have a dirty mind I prefer to think I just have a sexy imagination.

willing2 Joined Sun 06/08/08 Posts: 20221	Thu 01/02/14 04:35 PM
The older gal has it over on the older dude. She says, simple math. 18 goes into 80 more than 80 goes into 18.

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Thu 01/02/14 04:38 PM
The older gal has it over on the older dude. She says, simple math. 18 goes into 80 more than 80 goes into 18. hahaha!

lionsbrew Joined Tue 08/22/06 Posts: 14232	Thu 01/02/14 04:48 PM
The older gal has it over on the older dude. She says, simple math. 18 goes into 80 more than 80 goes into 18. I think math doesn't apply since at the age most guys are so inexperienced they are like two pump chumps.

willing2 Joined Sun 06/08/08 Posts: 20221	Thu 01/02/14 05:01 PM
Two pump chump. Ain't heard that one in a while.

kissablekiss Joined Mon 03/08/10 Posts: 8528	Thu 01/02/14 05:12 PM
The older gal has it over on the older dude. She says, simple math. 18 goes into 80 more than 80 goes into 18. I think math doesn't apply since at the age most guys are so inexperienced they are like two pump chumps. lol I see why younger girls go for you ....so young yourself .

lionsbrew Joined Tue 08/22/06 Posts: 14232	Thu 01/02/14 05:16 PM
The older gal has it over on the older dude. She says, simple math. 18 goes into 80 more than 80 goes into 18. I think math doesn't apply since at the age most guys are so inexperienced they are like two pump chumps. lol I see why younger girls go for you ....so young yourself . I like to think Im old enough to know better and young enough to still do it anyway.

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48947	Thu 01/02/14 08:35 PM
Why are older women who date younger men called Cougars,but older men with younger women are called dirty old men ? It's called a sexual double-standard, something that some women in the USA practice.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Thu 01/02/14 09:40 PM
At 42, I'm looking for an older woman. They are more experienced, mature, clever, funny, witty, together, strong. God I love older women..... I love people whose personalities appeal to me and are nice

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Thu 01/02/14 09:42 PM
Why are older women who date younger men called Cougars,but older men with younger women are called dirty old men ? Hey K Who the **** knows? There are unfair things hurled at both genders. It's not fair, it's a double standard, but at least it's a double standard that's in my favor for a change...lol dat's me story and Ima stickin' to it :)

Aquadave Joined Sun 12/01/13 Posts: 89	Thu 01/02/14 09:53 PM
I know this from experience. I'm a dirty old man and I know many cougars. Cougars date young guy just for sex. They have no clue on how to connect or have fun on a date. dirty old men on the other hand 1st and foremost want to have fun. Sure the cougar takes her toy out but it's to show what she's taking home. Dirty old men take the girls out, lots of times it's 1-4 girls on a date for a good time, no sex is implied. He's not proving anything to anybody, just having a good time with hottie girls. I'm 53 in the last 10yrs I've dated 5 women over 30, 1 lasted a yr the others were a couple weeks. I've dated LOTS of girls under 30 mostly 18-25. I still talk to most of them. I spent New Years with a girl just turned 26. I've known her for about 10yrs. You know what they ask me out!!!! the sex would make porn stars blush. So many guys have said they are jealous of me and ask how I do it. I say "I'm just out for fun" The girls know they are always safe with me. NO means NO and let me call some of my friends over means Woo Hoo. Next time you're out look at the cougar They got issues look at the dirty old man with the girl (not the creeps looking at girls) look hard you'll see they both are genuinely laughing and having a good time. The reason I'm here I want to find a woman my age range

mg1959 Joined Thu 04/05/07 Posts: 7872	Thu 01/02/14 10:14 PM
I date no one under 90 pounds.

Jeanniebean Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 40028	Thu 01/02/14 10:25 PM
A cougar is a women with money who wants a young sexy man for arm candy and sex. She makes it worth his while. A dirty old man can be either rich or not. He has little respect for women of any age. Not all older sexy women are cougars and not all older men are dirty old men.

TawtStrat Joined Fri 11/16/12 Posts: 3581	Fri 01/03/14 07:26 AM
Why are older women who date younger men called Cougars,but older men with younger women are called dirty old men ? "cougar" is mostly an American thing and it's a fairly recent coinage I think. Over here the female equivalent of a "dirty old man" is an "old slapper". It's basically a term of abuse. I guess that "cougar" is the female equivalent of what they called "wolfs", or "alley cats" in the old movies, although that didn't seem to be so much about age and more about just not being ready to settle down yet.

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Fri 01/03/14 07:50 AM
Why are older women who date younger men called Cougars,but older men with younger women are called dirty old men ? more about just not being ready to settle down yet. Or,,,,,,, about having settled down for a number of years and deciding it wasn't their cup of Twinings....