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Topic: hw d u stay away frm sum1 you love?
NnanaKinah's photo
Mon 12/30/13 10:56 PM
hw d u frget the 1 person who gave u da best memories?

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Mon 12/30/13 11:02 PM
By praying for that person's happiness. Only when you can do this can you experience something called agape love. Agape love is a divine love that makes romantic love pale in comparison to it. It is the highest form of love in the universe.

groundzer007's photo
Mon 12/30/13 11:31 PM
Staying away isn't the same thing at all as forgetting them. I don't think you ever forget someone special

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Mon 12/30/13 11:57 PM
Edited by Hotwell on Tue 12/31/13 12:11 AM
Try to remember of all of the bad memories that brought you to this point.

Rustamraja2013's photo
Mon 12/30/13 11:58 PM
just married him

sunit1991's photo
Tue 12/31/13 12:04 AM
hey waiting for u at inbox nina

Sleezyelliot's photo
Tue 12/31/13 12:06 AM
Fist talk to him in person and tell him how much he means to you. You need to have a good will power to forget this person.I would say to marry him..

NnanaKinah's photo
Thu 01/02/14 10:49 PM
thnk u all 4 the advice...bt marriage is totally outa question..there's so mch hatred in their heart towards me

indignus's photo
Fri 01/03/14 10:04 AM
Edited by indignus on Fri 01/03/14 10:05 AM
Why would you want to forget your best memories? Just because its over or even if it ended badly you can still remember the good times.

If you were to forget, you'd also lose all those lessons you learned through the course of the relationship. If that happened you could end up making the same mistakes all over again with the next guy you meet.

Life is nothing but a series of moments. People rarely remember the mundane things over time, but they remember the good and bad moments that stick with you. Which memories you choose to dwell on is your choice.

If its fun or feels good then keep it up, if hurts or sucks then learn from it.

NnanaKinah's photo
Fri 01/03/14 10:13 AM
wow indignus,dats a load full of facts..problem thinkin abwt dat certain person hurts so mch..i jst cnt deal wth it

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Fri 01/03/14 12:17 PM
u don't need to forget.... n make sure dat dey don't forget u too.. :P ;)

TawtStrat's photo
Fri 01/03/14 12:49 PM

Try to remember of all of the bad memories that brought you to this point.


Not really what I would call the best advice. Just tends to lead to anger, bitterness and resentment that can colour your thinking about the entire opposite sex.

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Fri 01/03/14 01:07 PM


Try to remember of all of the bad memories that brought you to this point.


Not really what I would call the best advice. Just tends to lead to anger, bitterness and resentment that can colour your thinking about the entire opposite sex.


Maybe not the best advice. But sometimes you put people up on a pedestal because your blinded by love. Taking a look back (because hind sight is always 20/20) and seeing the truth. might help you realize you're better off and help you move on.

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Fri 01/03/14 02:18 PM

Why would you want to forget your best memories? Just because its over or even if it ended badly you can still remember the good times.

If you were to forget, you'd also lose all those lessons you learned through the course of the relationship. If that happened you could end up making the same mistakes all over again with the next guy you meet.

Life is nothing but a series of moments. People rarely remember the mundane things over time, but they remember the good and bad moments that stick with you. Which memories you choose to dwell on is your choice.

If its fun or feels good then keep it up, if hurts or sucks then learn from it.


Very well said.

NnanaKinah's photo
Fri 01/03/14 02:59 PM
Edited by NnanaKinah on Fri 01/03/14 03:01 PM
makin
sure dat i dnt get forgotten...#too late..problem is dat evrytym i try 2
thnk of da bad memories,i cnt fnd ones that reli motivates me..nd moving
on is vry hard wen i think of hw that person ended up being a memory
also

jlbanning87's photo
Sat 01/04/14 03:41 AM
totally cut her out my life.i cant b friends with a girl if i love them and they dont c it like that. yeah it hurts and you wonder how it ended and even ask yourself what u did r didnt do r say right r too little r too much affection

NnanaKinah's photo
Sat 01/04/14 02:09 PM
bt das it reli hve 2 include u being totally ignorant of da ada person's existance?

NnanaKinah's photo
Sat 01/04/14 11:19 PM
hmm,thnk u 4 da advice evrybdy

blueyes711's photo
Mon 01/06/14 11:52 PM
Just take it one day at a time.everything happens for a reason and what will be will be.

mcsouls's photo
Tue 01/07/14 02:49 AM
love is a feeling that is next to none ...if you are able to forget someone you claim you loved, then it was never love

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