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| Topic: hw d u stay away frm sum1 you love? | |
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Why would you want to forget your best memories? Just because its over or even if it ended badly you can still remember the good times. If you were to forget, you'd also lose all those lessons you learned through the course of the relationship. If that happened you could end up making the same mistakes all over again with the next guy you meet. Life is nothing but a series of moments. People rarely remember the mundane things over time, but they remember the good and bad moments that stick with you. Which memories you choose to dwell on is your choice. If its fun or feels good then keep it up, if hurts or sucks then learn from it. FIVE STAR advice here^. |
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I think that love has no moral ground, so in that one must follow one's heart, no matter what you might think from a far, to be in the situation is much different. You can't make everyone in life happy but you can yourself
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Edited by
psychoalma
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Tue 01/07/14 11:13 AM
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Awe wisdom, i love and respect it
Talking bout PacificStar48 |
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love is a feeling that is next to none ...if you are able to forget someone you claim you loved, then it was never love It is one chemical away from insane, no joke |
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I can relate. I just ended a relation ship for the fifth time with a guy I met on this website back in March. I genuinely love this man but his living situation isn't ideal and I would have to move two hours away from my young adult son. I think about this guy all the time and love him very much but keep falling away because of what I've mentioned above. All I can say is that you should cast your hook back into the pond because there are lots of fish not just that one. Keep busy and try to focus on others, maybe some casual datingfor a while until you can get past this guy.
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Delete phone #, facebook, email, twitter and instagram accounts!
Erase all photos and messages! then... start No contact of this person. Eventually, you'll find yourself forgetting him/ her |
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I think people make their love lives way to complicated.
You didn't buy your love at a dealership, and it doesn't come with a life time limited warranty. Ownership of someones love is only as strong as you wanting the best for them and taking the best they have to offered you. Anything outside of that is us making our own rules that could fail at any time. I think a lot of people might set themselves up for love failure and when they get what they built, their surprised at the outcome. |
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Try to remember of all of the bad memories that brought you to this point. Not really what I would call the best advice. Just tends to lead to anger, bitterness and resentment that can colour your thinking about the entire opposite sex. Maybe not the best advice. But sometimes you put people up on a pedestal because your blinded by love. Taking a look back (because hind sight is always 20/20) and seeing the truth. might help you realize you're better off and help you move on. I agree/ Chances are people are going to affected by what happens in relationships anyway....we pretty much can't avoid that. Anger usually fades pretty quickly (at least for me) but it helped in those moments where I was tempted to contact my ex boyfriend to remember some of his stunts. (and he was a world class "gymnast"). |
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hw d u frget the 1 person who gave u da best memories? Embrace the memories, those and willpower will help you move on and find an even better relationship!! 
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You know all of that are great ways of dealing with things, although I think the only thing that truthfully helped me when I lost who I thought I loved and thought loved me was time... And in that time I realized just how badly that person made me, tried to make me who I'm not, and now that the TIME has passed, I realized that, and that I'm happier than I have been in a long long time!!!! Just keep your head up keep on smiling and remember who you were before you ever met each other!!!! Worked for me anyways!!!! Good luck!!!
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