Just curious..

It all depends on how you feel about him and your heart hun.

One thing I would like to point out it is all wasted time until you do meet. Till then it is just words on a screen. The real truth is until you do meet and look into their eyes it could all be a lie.

Just be safe and smart when do meet. Public place, drive yourself, have a exit plan, someone who knows when you are to be home and fallow your gut. If it dont feel right act on that feeling.

My .02

well hmm... i cant explain the situation on here as good but i mean we talk everyday not a day goes by where we dont text write letters over mail or talk i mean everything even switched cell phone carriers... this is a test of time for me really

Ron's right too hun, out in public first....

well ya it wil be at the airport if not i will hop my ass right back on that plain if not i now other people in chicago i have friends out there as well!!

Wow Iron I wish I had that all in place but I don't.As far as waiting listen to your heart.I'm making one of the biggest decisions of my life and going to meet some one in 7 days,and yes I'm still a little scared but if I don't go I'll never no.And it's only been less then a month,yes I did say less then a month.But he got my attention from the start.I would of never thought this would happen.Just hear making friends and then he appeared ad have not taken my mind off him sense.So just listen to your heart

23 years, 14 months, 9 days, and 4 hours.

And make sure we are included in the countdown, every excruciating minute, please..

(and I am joking, we others have no life, so can live vicariously through everyone else)

<------HAS NO LIFE!!!

6.9 months 49 minutes 12 seconds......

you may begin now!!!

Well im heading off to chicago in november and then he will be coming up with me so i wont ride alone and then holidays i will be down there as well this is the most expensive date ever but well worth it, My heart says this is right and the feeling is mutual on his behalf as well this is isnt me just going down therefor a thrill but because i want to meet the person who has made me laugh cry even give me butterflys even if hes 2000 miles away, some might say this is crazy but will never know if i dont follow my heart.

ya well tell him to pull his pants up!!!

We have to take the chance but we have to be smart about it. We must put measures in place to protect our emotion and our physical selves. Take it form the voice of experience and just remember that relationships take time and that time must be spent with that before any decisions can ever be made. In short don’t get to emotionally attached until the time is right. That time can only happen after you meet and spend time with that person. ACTIONS ALWAYS SPEAK LOUDER THAN ANY WORDS EVER CAN.

Some have told me I'm crazy and some have said go for it.It all boils down to me and what I feel,and when I start thinking your all in trouble.Good luck to you

Ron......you had some not great outcomes....you and I know that....and you are right, absolutely.

good advice.

No expectations....

yes!!!! and you need to spend alot of quaLITY time with that person!!!! Get to know him for a long time before getting into anything like marriage.....

1-800-Gypsyknows

well thank u everybody this is really helpfull

Well, I say right away, I used to wait, I felt the same as you do, and we would talk for hours and hours felt like we have known each other "forever"....so then we meet after weeks and bam!!!!!!!! either the apperance was way off, they were married, or just wanted sex! dont fall for the phone crap, i agree actions are louder then words!

Taking that number with me Gypsy on my trip,just in case.

very true ugh god what would i doif he was married, i know i'll tell him im a man hahahahaha ok im really not but u get the pic