I don't want to be equal to a man,, I want to be AS IMPORTANT As a man while being a WOMAN


I think doing for others is not a sign of thinking they are weak, its a sign of appreciation,, I cook for my grown son, he certainly isn't weak,, but I appreciate him,,, I would go to the store for my father, who wasn't a weak man, but I appreciated him

chivalry , like most things, is a matter of perspective,, but I consider it one way for men to show APPRECIATION of women,,,,

or we can call it being a gentleman, if chivalry is not correct terminology

but its nice to be appreciated,, whatever its called when it manifests in others,,

Chivalry is men treating women like they are weak and inferior, I thought we all wanted to be equals?

This is a complete miss-understanding of chivalry. Chivalry recognizes that women have certain strengths and men have certain strengths and making one compliment the other by one leveling the playing field when it is unequal due the strengths of one gender.

How is protecting widows, children and elders a bad thing?

So women lack the strength to open their door or pay for their share, put on a coat, scoot in their chair, or plan a date so men need to compliment it? What weaknesses do men have that women compliment, I'm having a hard time thinking of one as I have never needed a women I've only ever preferred there company.

Protecting widows, children and elders isn't a bad thing, it just has nothing to do with a man spoiling a women who is perfectly capable of taking care of herself because he wants her to like him.

The Qur'an is very clear and precise on women's value, how they should submit and how the man disciplines the unruly ones.

The Qur'an is very clear and precise on women's value, how they should submit and how the man disciplines the unruly ones.