This thread makes me think of teh show Who the bleep did I marry. In one episode this woman married a politician and everything seem to be fine. Then she found out he was cheating on her with other men. I think he was running for a state level office when he, with his wife by his side kind of, broke the news that he had cheated on his wife with men and that he was gay and he was no longer running for office. the best thing about that episode was the expression on her face while he is making that announcement. You can find it on netflix if you want to see it.

I guess it's obvious you didn't know he was a cross dresser when you started dating him. Regardless I also expect you didn't enter into this relationship as an open one. So the fact remains he cheated and you should probably leave him. I don't think staying in that relationship is going to work out for you.

What do you do when you find out that the MAN you have been dating for the past 6 months, is dating other Men as a Woman?