I want options... I,m 28yrs time to pick and go to the altar.
There is no way to have your way in these cases... either you go safe,
or sorry.
I have been dating less then a month... and she deserves for me to be
more patient, but we are casually dating, not committed to each other. I
like her, and will continue to see her, but I will see other women until
we reach a more advanced stage... I Knew yall would take sides...!

I think as long as you are both ok with casual dating and it is open and
you both have a good line of communication so no one will get hurt then
I say go out on other dates and have fun and safe sex lol :O)~~

Noo your wrong Ontario first of all you did not post the complete
situation. If you truely want an honest answer than you must state all
the facts in the process. And if this new girl knows that the
relantionship is casual and no ties than yes go date who you want too.
All I'm saying is make sure you are honest with all that is involved and
they understand you are planning to date others if the occasion arises
that is not taking sides or being judgemental. Just being honest.

Wow lets just take a look~ See how much more the positive posts recieve
then the ones that were negitive? Isnt it nice!!

TXSGAL you got my vote on your answer's. I will think first of you when
I have an issue,lol? And you to Shag? They are telling you right,
ontario. You girls rock-on,lol.

Ontario, if there is no commitment, I say go for it because with out
commitment.......well, I understand!!

Damn i missed the argument>> WILL

Thank you im4u for I enjoy reading your answers to post as well lol

Will no arguing here.

Ontario were did ya go?

Back from my workout... read the posts...! I don,t want to have a
discussion with her about casual dating...!

AAAAHHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA, ONT, this is me laughing. C'mon people,
a few dates and he owes her, WHAT????? Ont, thats why it's called
dating. Hell, even most jobs have a 30 day probation period. lol. Good
luck and things will just happen the way their suppose to, we all know
thats a fact, we just try to fight it. lol. Take care, good luck.

okayyyyyyyy.......

Thanks Chuckee...! What Morena...?

Here's a question.

Why is it when people talk about religion, everything's fine. But talk
about politics and there's a world war?

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First of all Ontario, you're probably a pretty cool guy BUT, if you're
dating a girl and you like her, why in the HELL would you date other
women? I can't handle ONE let alone more than ONE!! In my opinion,
Ontario, I think you are wrong to date more than the one. If she likes
you and you like her and are casually dating, CASUALLY which means
you're getting to know each other!! If you're out dating other women
and you're gettting to know each other, I believe you aren't putting on
a very good impression to her and she might think so too. If you are
casually dating, give it a chance. MY GOD, just because you aren't in
the sack on the first date, doesn't mean that's a bad thing. Take is
SLOW Ontario, get to know her. If you don't like what you see in the
future, then you know she's not for you and THEN you can date other
women. Give it a chance dude. I'm not taking sides, I'm just trying to
help and give you some things to look at, that's all. Not being
disrespectful to you in ANY way, shape or form. We cool? I hope so.
That's all I need is for someone to hate me on this site because, I
REALLY like the people here and don't want to piss anyone off.

Sounds to me like Ontario is standing on a banana peel !

maybe because he doesn't have those kinds of feelings for her(yet) and
there ain't no need to be with them exclusively if it's not serious.

" Eruption "

" Ain't Talkin''Bout Love "

Just " Runnin' With The Devil "

with a relationship,one must be friends first,then move to th next
step,Dates,and more Dates,if you two still can talk,
then try for more intamate time,maybe some(dare I say th word?)
SEX,and THEN,if you still get along,explore each others likes,
dis-likes,and so forth,with any luck you might get more...
(heres that word again)SEX...we are only human,we all need it from time
to time,even th "Frigid",need sex if they can admit it or not,they still
need it.But one must FEEL th bond between each other for it to work
out...If you don't feel it,move on.
Of corse this is only one "pervs" opinion...but without th sex part,you
are just friends,free to come and go,to "DATE" as
you see fit.good luck with it "O",,,hope these "perverted man"
thoughts help you,but marrige must be a 50/50 deal,that should be for
you AND her,not just for one,and if you get into a two,
or three girl deal,man you are playing with true fire!
remember,"Hell hath no fury,like Woman scorned" take it from me
How well I know,an'we'll just leave it there for now...lol...
to all th "Virgins" out there,thanx for nothing! :)~