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uche9aa
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Did your marriage start with "will you marry me" or with "i've missed my period"?.I notice most marriages these days are triggered by the fact that the bride is pregnant,hence the need to plan for urgent wedding.Most people frown at such practice,what are your views?
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My son had already been alive for two years before I married my ex. I didn't want our marriage to be solely about having our son. Didn't last anyway. I worked to much and she went and found attention else where two weeks after we got hitched.
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My son had already been alive for two years before I married my ex. I didn't want our marriage to be solely about having our son. Didn't last anyway. I worked to much and she went and found attention else where two weeks after we got hitched.
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No you misunderstood what I wrote. I didn't want to get married for the reason of having a kid. Thats why we waited. I did however learn that working to support everything wasn't worth missing out on family time. And to be quite frank it was a blessing in disguise. I was young foolish and learned the hard way how foolish I was. They say "the road to hell is paved in good intentions" for a reason.
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No you misunderstood what I wrote. I didn't want to get married for the reason of having a kid. Thats why we waited. I did however learn that working to support everything wasn't worth missing out on family time. And to be quite frank it was a blessing in disguise. I was young foolish and learned the hard way how foolish I was. They say "the road to hell is paved in good intentions" for a reason. |
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Did your marriage start with "will you marry me" or with "i've missed my period"?. 
Mine was " will you marry me ? " even though we had, 2 kids already! I feel, my kids I will ALWAYS love... my kids father.. eh, not so much 
WEll, I was wrong about that, Even though he and I aren't married anymore.... HE's still my buddy and I love him completely, just not romantically. |
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Mine was will you marry me...lasted 27 yrs. we took it for granted, lost respect for one another, he now has a new life....me, just a lot of heartache
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Did your marriage start with "will you marry me" or with "i've missed my period"?.
Mine was " will you marry me ? " even though we had, 2 kids already! I feel, my kids I will ALWAYS love... my kids father.. eh, not so much
WEll, I was wrong about that, Even though he and I aren't married anymore.... HE's still my buddy and I love him completely, just not romantically. |
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Mine was will you marry me...lasted 27 yrs. we took it for granted, lost respect for one another, he now has a new life....me, just a lot of heartache |
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Mine was will you marry me...lasted 27 yrs. we took it for granted, lost respect for one another, he now has a new life....me, just a lot of heartache |
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Edited by
cha7385
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Wed 12/11/13 05:43 AM
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I've missed my period but it didnt lead us to marriage. never did we think that marriage is the answer... after 6 six years of being in a relationship i just heard or found out that he got married to some girl who just missed her period.
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Did your marriage start with "will you marry me" or with "i've missed my period"?.
Mine was " will you marry me ? " even though we had, 2 kids already! I feel, my kids I will ALWAYS love... my kids father.. eh, not so much
WEll, I was wrong about that, Even though he and I aren't married anymore.... HE's still my buddy and I love him completely, just not romantically. and I do Love him, When/ If he gets married again... I hope his new woman will allow me to show my suport at their wedding! |
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Did your marriage start with "will you marry me" or with "i've missed my period"?.
Mine was " will you marry me ? " even though we had, 2 kids already! I feel, my kids I will ALWAYS love... my kids father.. eh, not so much
WEll, I was wrong about that, Even though he and I aren't married anymore.... HE's still my buddy and I love him completely, just not romantically. ever sat down and thought about how much Misery and Heartache that has caused? For the Couple,and Children? |
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It doesn't matter which way it started as long as you love each other.
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If a marriage is totally dead in the water, best thing to do is to end it and everybody concerned can have a life again without the misery and depressing atmosphere, that enduring it causes!
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Stay on the topic and not direct posts at others
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Did your marriage start with "will you marry me" or with "i've missed my period"?.I notice most marriages these days are triggered by the fact that the bride is pregnant,hence the need to plan for urgent wedding.Most people frown at such practice,what are your views? both my children were conceived well after I Married their fathers,, ,my son a full five years after and my daughter a full two years after I try not to judge... people in love and commitment can conceive at any time, whether before or after an actual wedding ceremony of course if there doesn't seem evidence of love connection before the marriage and there is a pregnancy,, it becomes suspicious |
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The reason for the injunction that a Marriage should stay together stems from Feudalism,where most of the time the reasons for Marriage were economic,and Estates were laid together the Dissolution of which many times would cause Feuds between different Tribes or outright War!
At other Times Marriage was done to stop a Feud,and Divorce would have started it again! |
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The reason for the injunction that a Marriage should stay together stems from Feudalism,where most of the time the reasons for Marriage were economic,and Estates were laid together the Dissolution of which many times would cause Feuds between different Tribes or outright War! At other Times Marriage was done to stop a Feud,and Divorce would have started it again! |
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It doesn't matter which way it started as long as you love each other. |
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