Topic: How important are looks in any relationship?
Imaani's photo
Fri 12/06/13 02:14 AM
I personally believe it is vital to have some spark that one would be attracted to, but believe this is not the only factor that should determine a relationship. Looks fade away, charisma and personality continue to stay with you. May be mutual understanding between a couple is more important than a pretty face, sexy body etc?? Please feel free to give your opinions, I would like to hear from others..

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Fri 12/06/13 02:18 AM
I like good looking guys who have great personalities. Believe it or not, they do exist. You don't have to settle for people who are one or the other. Contrary to what people seem to believe...

Imaani's photo
Fri 12/06/13 02:28 AM
Edited by Imaani on Fri 12/06/13 02:29 AM
Hmm thanks for the interesting and positive reply. However good looks are open to interpretation- 'beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder'??

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Fri 12/06/13 02:32 AM
Edited by paintecards01 on Fri 12/06/13 02:41 AM
Yes, but my point is that I can find someone that I consider attractive and who has a good personality, it doesn't have to be an either/or situation.

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Fri 12/06/13 02:53 AM
Yes, looks are not too important but a pleasant personality always helps.

cha7385's photo
Fri 12/06/13 04:28 AM
we have different views on attractiveness. generally speaking, we are in a relationship because we are attracted to our partner.However Their personality or characteristic has a huge impact on how we look at them on the outside.

Shy_Emo_chick's photo
Fri 12/06/13 04:33 AM

I like good looking guys who have great personalities. Believe it or not, they do exist. You don't have to settle for people who are one or the other. Contrary to what people seem to believe...


What she said :)

I can take it or leave it.

Looks won't determine how we get along.

teebee79's photo
Fri 12/06/13 04:55 AM
Edited by teebee79 on Fri 12/06/13 04:56 AM
As I get older, I find that a great personality is much more attractive to me.

Which makes it easier to not respond to messages of guys who say
" Hey" or " What up" Regardless of how nice looking they are.

I will always respond to someone who may not be " handsome" but he has a great sense of humor and shining personality.