Topic: unemployment
SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Wed 11/27/13 11:15 AM


Doesn't matter to me. Actually I think it's a good thing because the best place for a woman is at home, where they can cook and clean and look after the children.


WTF...seriouslynoway When Women take over the world, I will remember this and make you Group House Husband ... it will be your job to get all of the tampons, and Midol for the whole house!:angry:

Well, both ideas kinda appeal. Can't we just combine them?
It's healthier for kids if a parent is home with them and yes, have him buy tampons, great idea! I'm quite fussy about them and as he prolly won't know the first thing about tampons, he will have to ask in the shop.
I don't need Midol (had to look that one up).

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Wed 11/27/13 11:17 AM


Did Romeo ask Juliet if she had a job?






Weren't they rich? Or am I getting my Shakespearean tragedies mixed up? what

LOL, I'm not sure either. I know someone died in the end

no photo
Wed 11/27/13 11:17 AM


MONEY........The prrrrrfect lover !

{No offense}
flowerforyou


hi, Kik.. no offense taken! My money is the perrrrfect lover

I buy myself a little something pretty, whenever I'm a good girl!


flowerforyou
YOU GO GIRL !
And you are entitled to that as well

no photo
Wed 11/27/13 11:19 AM



Doesn't matter to me. Actually I think it's a good thing because the best place for a woman is at home, where they can cook and clean and look after the children.


WTF...seriouslynoway When Women take over the world, I will remember this and make you Group House Husband ... it will be your job to get all of the tampons, and Midol for the whole house!:angry:

Well, both ideas kinda appeal. Can't we just combine them?
It's healthier for kids if a parent is home with them and yes, have him buy tampons, great idea! I'm quite fussy about them and as he prolly won't know the first thing about tampons, he will have to ask in the shop.
I don't need Midol (had to look that one up).


:laughing:

surprised

kissablekiss's photo
Wed 11/27/13 11:29 AM

Doesn't matter to me. Actually I think it's a good thing because the best place for a woman is at home, where they can cook and clean and look after the children.
grab steak knife .

no photo
Wed 11/27/13 11:30 AM
Edited by SDSCFof2 on Wed 11/27/13 11:50 AM

Would You Date An Unemployed Man/woman? approx 75 Percent Of Women Would Not
-let me hear what you guys think .

it depends. is there something worng with her? is she lazy? is she capable of working? if she is not working is she doing something with her time or sitting on the sofa eating bon bons and wathing springer all day?

ridewytepony's photo
Wed 11/27/13 11:47 AM
Edited by ridewytepony on Wed 11/27/13 11:50 AM
To me it depends on different stages of life
and the woman in my case.
Moneies has never been a concern as to
the woman having any.
It comes down to that person having a 'purpose'
So if we were raising kids or she has an
active fulfilling life she most likely
will remain happier with you.
A kept woman in the western hemispheres these
days doesn't work. She can't live her life
through you.

So she needs to have a life not a job (that's the key to a viable relationship)
I hold a double standard for men unless he's
in continuous studies or it makes more sense for
him to be the home parent as that is a full time
job.

teebee79's photo
Wed 11/27/13 11:54 AM
@ Kissables Right! the sharpest one, I say!

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Wed 11/27/13 12:34 PM


Would You Date An Unemployed Man/woman? approx 75 Percent Of Women Would Not
-let me hear what you guys think .

it depends. is there something worng with her? is she lazy? is she capable of working? if she is not working is she doing something with her time or sitting on the sofa eating bon bons and wathing springer all day?

That would be Peggy Bundy. What's wrong with that? She was pretty da-rned sexy for a woman who sat on her @ss all day eating bonbons!

no photo
Wed 11/27/13 12:42 PM



Would You Date An Unemployed Man/woman? approx 75 Percent Of Women Would Not
-let me hear what you guys think .

it depends. is there something worng with her? is she lazy? is she capable of working? if she is not working is she doing something with her time or sitting on the sofa eating bon bons and wathing springer all day?

That would be Peggy Bundy. What's wrong with that? She was pretty da-rned sexy for a woman who sat on her @ss all day eating bonbons!

in real life she would be over 500 pounds, unable to get off the couch and have lost her feet due to sugar diabetes.

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Wed 11/27/13 03:30 PM
Yes if the bank account is right. No if credit and bank account is struggling.

Dodo_David's photo
Wed 11/27/13 04:55 PM

I buy myself a little something pretty, whenever I'm a good girl!


huh When are you ever a good girl? :tongue:

kissablekiss's photo
Wed 11/27/13 06:18 PM

If you asked guys would they date Kissablekiss whether or not she had a job, I think you would get a resounding "YES"!
without favors ? Don't think so ...gotta have my own :)

teebee79's photo
Wed 11/27/13 06:45 PM


I buy myself a little something pretty, whenever I'm a good girl!


huh When are you ever a good girl? :tongue:


Well.. Making the effort counts:wink:

PacificStar48's photo
Wed 11/27/13 07:36 PM
Would have a lot to do with the circumstances.

Saying that someone unemployed has to set life aside entirely in a rabid pursuit of employment seems like a reverse workaholism. Does the unemployed person have a disadvantage carrying their share in the reciprocal relationship of dating? Yes. But many people cope quite well.

Someone who is living off other's, in functional health, and too high and mighty to take a "regular" job no I would pass.

The caveat was I encouraged my kids (even when college age) to earn their date money as a line item expense because it gave balance to their lives.

The same goes for people with disabilities. I don't see that because they have budgetary assistance that they should not have the normalcy of dating and finding companionship/relationships.

Well the exception might be a full time student (which I consider work) and they are carrying their student debt or earned scholarships with an employment goal; no problem. An eternal student no.

If someone has a genuine disability that would be aggravated by work then they pass.

Or someone retired; on a pension they earned. Fine.

Or someone who has worked and earned enough assets that they can afford not to work. Great. If you save early, live modestly, buy property and or businesses, earn royalties on your own ideas/creativeness sure I don't care if someone does not have to work.

I find it kind of offensive if they lay around and don't do anything for others indefinitely; especially if they are living off inheritance but people who get an attitude about success kind of spits on the concept of capitalism and success.

I believe the People who have and abundance of resources and blessings should have some gratitude and share that in the world to some degree.

Not sure that works in a dating relationship where things hopefully are relatively reciprocal. Maybe not dollar for dollar but at least in time and effort. I have worked seasonal workers that were technically unemployed but I pretty much expected them to have put aside to tide them over and have a annual budget that allowed them to live with in their standard of living.

no photo
Wed 11/27/13 07:43 PM



Doesn't matter to me. Actually I think it's a good thing because the best place for a woman is at home, where they can cook and clean and look after the children.


WTF...seriouslynoway When Women take over the world, I will remember this and make you Group House Husband ... it will be your job to get all of the tampons, and Midol for the whole house!:angry:

Well, both ideas kinda appeal. Can't we just combine them?
It's healthier for kids if a parent is home with them and yes, have him buy tampons, great idea! I'm quite fussy about them and as he prolly won't know the first thing about tampons, he will have to ask in the shop.
I don't need Midol (had to look that one up).


Imagine if a guy was experimenting with tampons. "Now where do I put this?". Ouch

Duttoneer's photo
Fri 11/29/13 01:21 AM

Would You Date An Unemployed Man/woman? approx 75 Percent Of Women Would Not
-let me hear what you guys think .


It would be interesting to know the percentage of guys that would not date someone unemployed, my guess would be a lot less than 75%.

Women do seem to be careful with their money when dating, they like the guy to pay when out on a date in my opinion, even when they are employed.





kissablekiss's photo
Fri 11/29/13 05:57 AM


Would You Date An Unemployed Man/woman? approx 75 Percent Of Women Would Not
-let me hear what you guys think .


It would be interesting to know the percentage of guys that would not date someone unemployed, my guess would be a lot less than 75%.

Women do seem to be careful with their money when dating, they like the guy to pay when out on a date in my opinion, even when they are employed.





here is the thing ,if I invited you on a Date I should pay but if you invite me of course you going to pay ...

Duttoneer's photo
Fri 11/29/13 06:20 AM
Edited by Duttoneer on Fri 11/29/13 06:38 AM



Would You Date An Unemployed Man/woman? approx 75 Percent Of Women Would Not
-let me hear what you guys think .


It would be interesting to know the percentage of guys that would not date someone unemployed, my guess would be a lot less than 75%.

Women do seem to be careful with their money when dating, they like the guy to pay when out on a date in my opinion, even when they are employed.





here is the thing ,if I invited you on a Date I should pay but if you invite me of course you going to pay ...



Good excuse.
The next time a woman invites me on a date will be a first, I know I am no film star, but I don't believe there are many women whom invite men on dates. I keep hearing they do, mainly from women, they certainly should do and pay as well being the feminists most are, however, it does look as though at least 75% really don't want to pay when out on a date. This is just my opinion.

Kilingshak's photo
Fri 12/06/13 02:48 AM

Would have a lot to do with the circumstances.

Saying that someone unemployed has to set life aside entirely in a rabid
pursuit of employment seems like a reverse workaholism. Does the
unemployed person have a disadvantage carrying their share in the
reciprocal relationship of dating? Yes. But many people cope quite well.


Someone who is living off other's, in functional health, and too high
and mighty to take a "regular" job no I would pass.

The caveat was I encouraged my kids (even when college age) to earn
their date money as a line item expense because it gave balance to their
lives.

The same goes for people with disabilities. I don't see that because
they have budgetary assistance that they should not have the normalcy of
dating and finding companionship/relationships.

Well the exception might be a full time student (which I consider work)
and they are carrying their student debt or earned scholarships with an
employment goal; no problem. An eternal student no.

If someone has a genuine disability that would be aggravated by work
then they pass.

Or someone retired; on a pension they earned. Fine.

Or someone who has worked and earned enough assets that they can afford
not to work. Great. If you save early, live modestly, buy property and
or businesses, earn royalties on your own ideas/creativeness sure I
don't care if someone does not have to work.

I find it kind of offensive if they lay around and don't do anything for
others indefinitely; especially if they are living off inheritance but
people who get an attitude about success kind of spits on the concept of
capitalism and success.

I believe the People who have and abundance of resources and blessings
should have some gratitude and share that in the world to some degree.

Not sure that works in a dating relationship where things hopefully are
relatively reciprocal. Maybe not dollar for dollar but at least in time
and effort. I have worked seasonal workers that were technically
unemployed but I pretty much expected them to have put aside to tide
them over and have a annual budget that allowed them to live with in
their standard of living.