I think it would be a sad world indeed if men, and women, did not occasionally think about "booty calls" because come on that little nudge kind of boosts us out of our cozy little ruts and makes us get into the dating dance to meet our future mates.

And I would be soooooooooooooh disappointed if someone who was interested in the whole person I am did not see the part of me that loves lusty roll over and over in the hay grab the ears yippe sex and look forward to that part of a potential committed relationship.

To me any guy who is so controlled or overly willing to self sacrifice to an eternally non-sexual relationship is just sad. Guys who want well rounded relationships generally politely or maybe in more masculine mode directly see if the chemistry exists with a little "muscle flex" moment flirt (that should NOT be insulting) seems NORMAL to me.

To me the adult person who does a little dancing and takes the time to see if the person is MORE than a one demention player is valuing themselves and others and is the real catch.

Do men, by and large, use good judgment and treat women with respect, consideration, and eventually love? YES. YES. YES.

Had Crystal maybe been blessed with one? I sure hope so. I trust her to make a good choice.

^^ Steamy stuff ((( J )))...This belongs on my Steamy thread ...And I totally agree :-)...My mom is pushing 90 and still loves to flirt ..She can still get the old fellows heated up too ...Can't take her anywhere ...They say the apple doesn't fall far from the tree...When it comes to the art of flirting, I have to agree...Innocent, fun, exciting....and sometimes more

LOL Hugs ((((Ms L.)))

Yea shocks me sometimes that some think that saying no to some doesn't mean yes to someone special.

Always surprises me when people think that just because some women/men don't just throw themselves at the opposite sex that when they do "Get Behind Closed Doors" that things rock.

I am selective about dating but don't kid yourself I have my "Victoria Secrets" and if the combination of Irish/Native blood doesn't make a fella's teeth sweat well he's just dead from the ears down. hahahahahahahaha

Marriage gets such a bad rap when the very first party after the reception which none to rarely do the Bride and groom leave early to is about major intimacy.

Ten four sister!...

Hahaha, I definitely got people's hormones going here, LOL.
Friend of mine had a look, her reaction: "WOW, he's HOT!"
I have bloody good taste when it comes to flirts, I seem to go wrong when it's a (potential) partner

Tawt, I didn't start any flirting at all, he did. And as far as I'm concerned he kinda pushed the borders of 'acceptable' flirting, so it gets somewhat confusing.

But at least we all got some excitement out of it,
And really love you all for being so nice

The guy sounds like fun. I just read the original post, haven't read the replies, except the part where it sounds like he has a girl on FB. Oh well, if so, harmless flirting isn't bad, as long as both people know the boundaries.

CyrstalFairy This guy is hot for you no doubt. When he offered to fix your car for a warm meal he stepped outside the work lines and offered a social situation.Don't be discouraged by his facebook pictures it could be his sister or maybe a old flame. Men are not usually as fast as women to eliminate old pictures.For the love of god don't go up there wearing the black outfit from your mingle pic's the poor guy will slam the hood on his whole hand this time. LOL and good luck

You are putting ideas in my head now... Would be really interesting to see reactions, lol.

Yeah, sometimes it's just difficult to tell with some people if they really mean anything buy it, or if they are just joking about.

There's a girl that flirts with me sometimes and she has given me the impression that she could be genuinely interested in me but she's got over six hundred friends on Facebook and a lot of them are guys. She posted a photo not long back where she was with some guy and people commented, saying how they looked like a lovely couple. There are other posts on her Facebook where she talks about cooking a meal for some guy and it's quite flirty.

I've talked to people about her and they say that she just flirts with everybody but even if that's the case, I like to flatter myself that it's how I respond to it that matters and that if I take her flirting seriously she might think that I'm really interested in her and that I could get a date with her.

Sometimes when people flirt they are testing the waters, so to speak. Just because someone likes to flirt, it doesn't mean that they aren't a bit insecure and worried about rejection themselves. That's the thing with flirting; it's not really being direct and you aren't sure how seriously to take it.

There was this girl that I went to school with and she used to flirt with me a bit but at the time I didn't really take her seriously. Years later I heard from a mutual aquaintance that she had said that she had tried to be friendly to me but that she thought that I didn't seem to like her.

{{{John}}} Interesting interesting jonny
see, I say how 'bout SEX I'll pick you up for
SEX but a don't fully enunciate the word but
clear enough,depending on her response; the subject
is on the table now,or I will say no I said SIX
Pick you up for 6:00...if her respond was completely incompatible. then something could
suddenly come up

that was a Seinfeld episode with the deaf tennis
player and she read his lips wrong..lol
the genius writing of Larry David *bows down*
I had a buddy that moved from the
Island to Van.and said they're is a certain culture of woman he dated and said, "if you asked them to meet me here tomorrow they wouldn't show.
Instead telling them was in fact the difference".

Pony, My uncle... my countryman.

It's ok to be direct and to the point, right? kinda?...
I think your chances of success just dropped to 1/8th of TwatS 50/50 chance