I had been talking to this girl (Leigh) online for a while and we were syncing up pretty well. I had gotten her profile on a JSH, her Myspace friendship, and her Multiple messenger adresses. We were getting kinda close it seemed and I talked about someday coming to see her, which she said she felt bad about because I'd be spending so much money just to see her.

A couple months ago she dropped her account on the JSH, no problem she was still talking to me and I thought nothing of it. Then about a month ago she hasn't online to talk to me in messengers, or so I thought till I checked out her myspace for updates to find I am no longer friends with her, her status saying she is now in a relationship and my comments on her page were deleted.

I respect that apparently she found someone, but why didn't she tell me? I would've respected it. Also, what's with the underhanded acts like deleting comments and stuff, what's that about?

Why does EVERYONE I get close to have to lie to me? What's with all the sneaking around?

Hugs sorry that happened to you joshyfox.
Sometimes people just don't know how to tell those things.
Sometimes people are just rude & crude.
Sometimes people just don't want to hurt others.
Sometimes we just don't know.

Don't use names on here dear...

Yes she should of told you.
As for deleting comments- maybe there is someone she didi'nt
want to see them. Sounds like major games to me.

We have to get through the bad apples to get to the good fruit...

Hey Joshy, I feel the same way about some of these guys. I start liking someone, we talk for a while, and then I find things out about them, I just don't understand why PEOPLE feel they need to lie about stuff. Keep it real, that's what I always say. Well, we just have to keep hanging in there I guess.

Sorry you to go through that. It happens alot and not just from the girls...But the bright side, you just weeded out another and open to find better...Good luck.

{{{Joshy}}}

Just keep swimming. Lots and lots of girls out there. Don't you worry yourself too much.

M

It is sad Joshy that people can't be honest with others when I find out someone has lied to me it kinda takes that trust you were so willing to give go down the drain but they are out there and it is a sad world at times just got to keep on moving on guy cant believe all that some tell ya.

EVERYONE LiES ABOUT SOMETHiNG iN LiFE AND NO ONE iS PERFECT.. BUT i THiNK PEOPLE SHOULD AT LEAST BE HONEST WHEN DEALiNG WiTH SOMEONE ELSE'S FEELiNGS.. MAYBE SHE JUST DiDN'T KNOW WHAT TO SAY OR THAT YOU WOULD RESPECT HER DECiSiON. iT DOESN'T REALLY EXCUSE iT.. BUT REGARDLESS.. SORRY TO HEAR YOU'RE HURT..

sorry you were hurt Joshy

Sorry to hear another person has donethis again. Just rotten, and no matter what her belief was about how you might react, no fail pool.

Sorry joshy

I mean't not fair pool

Happened to me too, IT SUX.

she must have been a WEREWOLF

Nah, I asked... we both liked the idea of being werewolves together (Since the "Curse" can be spread)... so I don't think that was it.

I let every girl I talk to know upfront. I don;t stalk & I dont chase! If you can just say hi, then you can just say by. If you lie then I call the ball game real quick. That's it strike three your outa here!!!!!!!!!

I am sorry to hear about your adventure with the girl but...unfortunately, this is often how it goes online.

We don't really know a person when we see them in person and have opportunities to analyze their behavior, imagine when texting or messaging alone...lots of room for fantasy world to take over and lots of opportunities to be mislead. Some people are married for 10-15-20 years and their husband or wife drop them like old crap. We never really truly know a person.

It has happened to me more then once.It's very easy to become bitter and think that everyone online is the same. The truth is that there are some good people left out there. She was not the ONE. Like someone said earlier...good ridance, you weeded out a bad weed. It's positive, not negative.

Look at this experience as a learning opportunity. Next time, what will you do differently?

I won't start believing they are the one too soon... THAT'S my lesson out of this.

Honesty is such a lonely word ...

Some do not know the meaning of it

And lucky us we encounter someone

Like that... it has happened to me

But i know that not everyone's the same

Keep your chin up bro ... better times

Will come

So she has lost you. So what!? Her loss.
Headache to some guy maybe?
Thank God you were not spending money in pubs dinner, high fulutin restuarants, her rent etc.

Count U blessings