This is why I'm in Spain alone.

Sometimes these questions come up and it makes me realize how far outside of the "norm" my life must be. I find them interesting (I'm not making fun of either)but so far out of my thinking.

Honestly my relationships have been like little playgrounds of excitement and adventure and I don't think these kinds of things were ever thought about. If there was going to be a question in this area I wouldn't really have called it love. Well maybe love but not in-love. When I have been in-love I'm pretty blind I would think.

I'm I wrong here?

No,you are completely right,I don't give these past
relationships much thought anymore,I am one that
has always glorified the good times in the past
and therefore that has made it difficult to terminate these undesirable unions.
I seem to have always been good at identifying these
inconsistencies,but now I'm not denying them.
I just have a hard time with the question as my
attitude and answers is different than it would
have been for many year. Its like a living president, history (time) will judge them.
So the hard part for me is saying it to someone,
as its just one step admitting it to yourself...
then sweeping it under the rug.
Yes your are right, if you are questioning it,then
you probably didn't have what you thought.

I had one gfs sister say to me: "whatever you thought you had with her...you didn't. ..but
she did want to have a baby with you ? so I guess
it was a step up from what she had with any other
guy but still not loyally committed.

I also agree with Crystal as some gfs may say they
fully love you and we didn't...typical.

Its like the couple that goes to seek help in their marriage and are asked: "what seems to be the problem"? We just got married and cant agree on
one thing. "Well how long have you been married?
Man: "7 weeks" ...woman: " eight"

{{{Spain mg}}}
Ah... mg its not really like that,if I had a nickel
for everytime someone said someone had stole something then found it later and just this week
alone navygirl saying "I don't need a man"...
I'd be rich.
Write it off as a bad week.

{{{ much love navygirl }}} like mummy said, I'm
just not happy unless I get everybody 'going'.lol
I'm mischievous. ..by nature...lol
stay out of my tar pit trap or I'll throw in
the yellow feathers for free.

I doubt a cutie like you would be alone for very long MG.

3)Didn't helsboys & others say the exact
same thing to you aprox. 10 days ago and torgo and another
had commented...saying... " THATS JUST RUDE"

4) It just shows I'm a thrall & committed
person and I will be around when your long
gone and burnt out in Amsterdam.
5) lay off those Amsterdam salads,the THC level
exceeds you Intelligence Quotient

Your right, I'm not really alone. I keep my action figure toys near by.

Hope your keeping that hot tub warm :)

Exactly, so I made it my case to winge at ppl who winged at me. Esp as it's not fair cos my postings make sense and yours never do.


You're clearly not well informed. If you'd read my postings, you would know THC levels are nowhere near as high as my IQ, even though THC levels in Dutch grass and hash are very high.
Also, I live in the Netherlands, not Amsterdam. You probably don't know it, but Amsterdam is not a country.
If you want to get your facts right, at least mention clogs, windmills and tulips, as we all wear them, live in one and grow them.
Get a book on the Netherlands, you might enjoy it.

It seems like you want to take the 9 yrs old mentallity, with statements like "its not fair"
Well I'm simply not going there.
The bottom line,we are all free to address the content of someone's post or choose not to read it.
but its,not anyone business as to how well they spell or the length of it.
journalling is healthy,whether it would be,
digging up your past or random writing, people have
their own reasons.It is you that don't have you
facts straight if you think I addressed you or anyone person on the length of there post,
but if you want to show your true colours
and do on to others,that was done on to you,be
my guest,but keep me out of it.
So kindly pass over my posts in future if you
can't understand it or don't get the humor or
terminology,not every one will,and sometimes its
meant that way.(its not meant for a reply)

So you say sum it up in 1-2 sentences,then you
say write more facts about you country?
your impossible

OK I will but I like to educate and tell stories through; way of poem...

I hope you got a sense of humor

coming right up folks...sit back and smoke you
Dutch treat..

I suspect that most here are single, but will nevertheless recall being in a relationship and perhaps wondering 'Does she / he love me as much as I love her / him?' In some relationships we regularly witness one partner abusing the other and maybe wonder 'Is the abuser taking advantage of the other's deeper caring?' I regularly witnessed such within my parents' relationship.

Has anyone been so very deeply in love, and discovered that possibly rare thing namely a partner who loves just as deeply?

Possibly it happens a lot, and I have been unlucky? One can't help but wonder what the 'norm' is in the romance stakes.

I have only once loved someone who came close to loving me back,,,,