Topic: Two months no girl
mrmuhamadrizwan's photo
Sun 10/27/13 01:24 AM
I have spent two months online but could not find a nice girl. I contacted various girls but mostly don't reply. what should I do?flowerforyou

mrmuhamadrizwan's photo
Sun 10/27/13 01:26 AM
please help me I prefer a Caucasian girl.

larsson71's photo
Sun 10/27/13 01:46 AM
A change of tact in the way that you approach them and the way you put yourself across in you messages, as what you're doing just now, obviously isn't working? Look at the way that you're portraying yourself in your messages? Maybe you're trying too hard to impress, or maybe you sound like you're reading from a script? The trick is my friend to get yourself noticed? She might get 10 - 20 messages, in her inbox, you want your message to be the one that catches her attention and has her intrigued. If you do that, your chances of finding a woman, are greatly increased. I wish you all the best, ok? :smile:

Mortman's photo
Sun 10/27/13 01:56 AM
Hi larsson71,

It seems like a nice profile. Some good pictures, too. Don't be too discouraged if you're not meeting a lot of women after only a couple months. You need to be more proactive towards meeting new people. This website should only be one of many ways you go about meeting new people. Be prepared to meet ladies wherever you go, and make sure to get out some more, too. As people meet you more, they'll be more comfortable around you, and don't be afraid to start many new conversations.

That said, your profile could be cleaned up a bit. Some parts of your 'blurb' seem redundant. Your interests, too. Eating is an interest? Maybe you mean going out to eat, or eating a certain type of food, but everybody eats. How about including some information that makes you more interesting. Just a thought.

For the good photos, but subtracting for the text that could be so much better, I rate your profile 7/10.

Good luck!

larsson71's photo
Sun 10/27/13 02:23 AM

Hi larsson71,

It seems like a nice profile. Some good pictures, too. Don't be too discouraged if you're not meeting a lot of women after only a couple months. You need to be more proactive towards meeting new people. This website should only be one of many ways you go about meeting new people. Be prepared to meet ladies wherever you go, and make sure to get out some more, too. As people meet you more, they'll be more comfortable around you, and don't be afraid to start many new conversations.

That said, your profile could be cleaned up a bit. Some parts of your 'blurb' seem redundant. Your interests, too. Eating is an interest? Maybe you mean going out to eat, or eating a certain type of food, but everybody eats. How about including some information that makes you more interesting. Just a thought.

For the good photos, but subtracting for the text that could be so much better, I rate your profile 7/10.

Good luck!
Ha ha, sounds to me like that advice was aimed at me mort? Nah mate, I do ok, on the women front! :smile:

prettyrhea's photo
Sun 10/27/13 04:36 AM
Haha ! the problem is n0t in u .. u just have to accept that if they n0t replied means they are n0t interested take n0te : everyone has a choice , if they chose not to reply doesnt mean that they are not nice maybe they just not to reply 4 the own reasons :)

hellsboy's photo
Sun 10/27/13 04:38 AM

Haha ! the problem is n0t in u .. u just have to accept that if they n0t replied means they are n0t interested take n0te : everyone has a choice , if they chose not to reply doesnt mean that they are not nice maybe they just not to reply 4 the own reasons :)


Girl tokng intelligent things?? U really a girl??laugh laugh laugh

prettyrhea's photo
Sun 10/27/13 05:14 AM
Hmf . yup im a girl y?

PacificStar48's photo
Sun 10/27/13 07:27 AM
I am sorry you are not getting the response you want.

I read your profile and had to look twice at the age because it just doesn't jive with the tone of your text which would generally suggest someone older in most cultures especially across the USA.

I don't know if the beard is "required" for religious or cultural reasons but if it is a personal choice you may want to consider shaving because statistics show the majority of women rarely find it appealing.

prettyrhea's photo
Sun 10/27/13 07:52 AM
No nid to say sory poh ,, everyone is free to state their oppinion :)

But u cnt just kn0w a person by just seeking information about that person ..

no photo
Sun 10/27/13 10:52 PM
The surest path to success with people is not to try to hard. This means you need to be yourself. Be friendly and invite a response without being over powering. Do not demand anything, but request it. Sometime less is more. I like to talk in a friendly tone and discuss various topics. For example, I like to cook. So I mention that and also that I have many self-made recipes. But I do not want to sound bombastic so I also add that I am not ready for Iron Chef quite yet. I also love to barbecue. This leads into a picnic type date where I cook for her. Or, better yet both make something. Here I am using my interest in cooking to create a full day of fun with a new lady. Maybe you do not cook, but like a certain type of food. Here suggest a nice place to go and enjoy a great meal with great conversation. My final suggestion is do not be afraid to try something new. Life is an adventure. Let's be creative.