I was discussing with a male friend the other day and he said something that stucked on me.

He said, "Girls have problem with guys because they don't know what guys want, how they want it. They would be able to handle us if only they could stop trying to force us to think and act like them. Girls need to study us hard".

It made real sense. Maybe we women are guilty of trying to force our guys to think and act the way we do and want. Maybe we need to study more and do our researches.

So now, I'm gonna be asking guys on mingles,

"What do you guys want from the lady you love? how do you want her to treat you? how can she win your heart?"

I want to hear from the horses mouth. So guys over to you. Holler!

On this site, you are more likely to hear from the horse's as I was saying, it irks me when a woman expects me to read her mind.

At this moment in time, all I want is to find the other 2 gauntlet cars in GTA V, so I can do the gold bullion job!

I'm just looking for a woman that knows how to make a really good sandwich. And how to clean up after. And how to keep the fridge stocked with beer.

And that knows that yes, hockey and football are that important.

I was saying, it irks me when a woman expects me to read her mind.



Hmmmmh.

And they want we women to be caring and loving. Well, I sure get what you think

heheheheh!

Then you need a househelper and not a lover. Don't complain when your wish comes true

Confidence within herself... staying healthy and fit.. and just the best head...

Its very simple what guys want from their ladies: The man's heart lies through his stomach. If you want to make them happy just make delicious food and that's it.

A woman that can make her mind up and won't mess me about or play stupid games would be nice for a change.

You like your women independent and fit. That's nice...

I guess you are speaking for yourself and not all guys. Seriously, I was beginning to think guys have abandoned this concept cos girls lose more guys when they cook and are housywifey...

Hmmmh, I'm learning something new...

And you think that makes sense? How bout men doing some of the work too? They can also make an effort to understand women. It's not a one way street.
It is interesting to ask men their view, but don't take everything on board they answer, cos it is bound to be very one-sided.
Just read the replies so far --> Childish, narrow-minded or obsolete views.

There's this Christian Carter who does a lot in this field, explaining what makes a man tick and what "mistakes" women make blabla.
Quite interesting, although I find some things very one-sided.
http://www.catchhimandkeephim.com/

No, honestly, that's it. It isn't childish, narrow minded, one sided or obsolete. That's basically all I want (apart from boobs of course) and don't think that it's much to ask for really.

And exactly the reason why you are still single and probs will be for a long time to come

Just read the replies so far --> Childish, narrow-minded or obsolete views.

There's this Christian Carter who does a lot in this field, explaining what makes a man tick and what "mistakes" women make blabla.
Quite interesting, although I find some things very one-sided.
http://www.catchhimandkeephim.com/



I'm sifting the shaft from the wind. I just thought it would be nice asking the average guy, want he wants from his woman, since It's common to hear talks and read books on what a woman wants but few deal with the guys issue. I'd check out the link CrystalFairy... Thanks a million...

That is a two way street. Men are notorious for not communicating and I am not a mind reader so rather than speaking up at the time I have done something wrong; he throws his little hissy fit. Also to what the op says; again its a two way street. Men also try to force women to act the way they deem acceptable. For instance; it's not acceptable for a woman to do things for herself, to be independent, or to actually have a brain. Men constantly try to control the situation rather than work as an equal with a woman but again this is lack of communication. Not all of us women need a controlling man in our lives.