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Edited by
navygirl
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Mon 10/07/13 09:11 AM
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Crystal; I can be brutally honest at times but I always do try to be tactful when I am honest. For example; when a man asks me if I need him; I am honest and say "no I don't need you but I like being with you." Men don't want to hear this so I will always remain single and I accept this. Men don't want to hear; "I can do this myself" either but I am being honest but if he insists on helping; I will accept it as the job gets done faster. Sure, but I was getting at stuff like "would you get involved in a threesome?" And my answer "Depends on the parameters" Ppl reading this, will probably think I have no standards, sleep around and so on, while in actual fact I'm very very picky, don't sleep around at all, never have, that's just not me. I do, however, prefer to have an open mind (about mostly everything in life). Life ain't black & white. And if the setting is right, I might go for it. Mind you, MIGHT, I'm not sure. You can't be sure till you've tried it. So I answered honestly, which will very likely give ppl the wrong impression about me. I think no matter which way you answer some questions; people will get the wrong impression of you. Some will think you have no standards where as others will think you are a prude of close-minded. Why worry about what others think of you? You have your own mind and everyone will perceive your answer differently. People are judgmental which is a human's biggest weakness as far as I am concerned but you can't let that rule your life. Me; I stopped caring what others think of me and just live my life the way I want to. One of my favourite lines from a song, "you can't please everyone so you gotta please yourself. |
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