Topic: Hot or not ? Lol
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Thu 09/26/13 10:14 PM
Jw if I'm hot or not...? Lol not having the best luck anymore

lov3purpl3's photo
Thu 09/26/13 11:12 PM
Curious question. There is a catch to that question, which could throw a wrench in the whole idea of asking the question in the first place.

To ask if your apoealing or not, is to ask if each individual on an individual basis, if they find you of interest visually. As the old saying goes, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

There is also something else to concider here. Quite often people do not pass judgement in this aspect because they do not know you on a personal basis. This is due to a decision on such a subject involving the person you are inside, which a picture does not show.

I get you though. As men, we need to feel acceptable if not also interesting to a woman. It is always good to be told, by a woman, that your attractive. Just dont be surprised if not many reply. Been down this road in the past.

dcastelmissy's photo
Fri 09/27/13 06:52 AM

Jw if I'm hot or not...? Lol not having the best luck anymore


I personally, judging from your picture only, would describe you as "hot". Maybe you're not having the best luck right now because women may be searching for someone who has deeper inner qualities that attract and are not strictly focused on JUST the outer package. :smile: If you feel you are attractive both inwardly and outwardly, then just be patient, the right one will come along, and you just may be going through a "dry spell". happy

Clemintyne's photo
Fri 09/27/13 07:57 AM
yeah...I get all the stuff that these nice folks have posted in their replies, all true and valid points, but the simple answer is yes HOT! Too young for me but you have my hotness vote:) the right one won't care tho, and you probably won't meet the "right" one here anyways lol just have fun and be yourself!

New777Start's photo
Fri 09/27/13 05:48 PM
I'm new to this site and am trying to use the hot or not vote thingy as effectively as possible. Yes, I kinda look at the pic to get a first impression. And sometimes that's enough to not look further cuz we all have our particulars. Then, I move to the brief description below. If it's one of those "tell ya later" profiles, I automatically say no. Sorry but no info, no answer, pics with the other woman, etc = time wasted. If there is info that I like, THEN I check the full profiles. Just be honest/upfront about who u are and THOROUGH OR UR WASTING TIME! Please guys? Pretty please? Yeah, don't tell me u like to fart (unless u can really spin it right cuz even I laugh at that kinda stuff while I'm running away) but u get it.

However, it's true that many are just looking at the pic alone. I almost think it was set up that way. Like i said, I'm new, but it shouldn't be, so don't feed into that shallow bs and, for the last, time TELL ME WHO U ARE :-) Anyway that's my input. God bless and happy hunting.

dcastelmissy's photo
Fri 09/27/13 06:05 PM

I'm new to this site and am trying to use the hot or not vote thingy as effectively as possible. Yes, I kinda look at the pic to get a first impression. And sometimes that's enough to not look further cuz we all have our particulars. Then, I move to the brief description below. If it's one of those "tell ya later" profiles, I automatically say no. Sorry but no info, no answer, pics with the other woman, etc = time wasted. If there is info that I like, THEN I check the full profiles. Just be honest/upfront about who u are and THOROUGH OR UR WASTING TIME! Please guys? Pretty please? Yeah, don't tell me u like to fart (unless u can really spin it right cuz even I laugh at that kinda stuff while I'm running away) but u get it.

However, it's true that many are just looking at the pic alone. I almost think it was set up that way. Like i said, I'm new, but it shouldn't be, so don't feed into that shallow bs and, for the last, time TELL ME WHO U ARE :-) Anyway that's my input. God bless and happy hunting.


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