Both my wives cheated on me. The first because she wanted to be a swinger and try other men, and the second to do drugs. So don't lay all the blame on guys, women do it too...in my experience. Although I do have the opinion guys will stray quicker.



I actually prefer to date single moms, because they won't be asking me for children!!

i wonder how men plan to have babies when they know their relation is temporary ... having kids and throwing them behind someone's back is not a joke , even marriage ! if you know that you may end it someday , why to have kids in the first place ?!

That is a very good question.
After all, if it were not for Men, women could Not have a child.

As Jeremy Kyle says, you can be a crap boyfriend or husband but that doesn't mean that you can't be a good father. Some relationships just don't work, however good your intentions were at the start. Better to seperate and spare putting the children through it as well if your relationship is messed up and that's just the way that it is these days.

spending first couple years of marriage without having kids may solve a major part of the problem , as u can then discover easily if that marriage or relation can survive or not .

I disagree. I was married four years before we had Children and had a great marriage. So, often time that does not work either in the long term.

i said it may solve a major part , nothing can cancel the issue once and for ever , that is impossible , but we can at least do our best not to result in a mother left alone with couple of kids to rise on behalf of both parents

i am a single mom and proud of it.why carry a headache from husband throughout your life? be single and mingle,stay happy and beautiful.

so... Are you trying to say men are meant to domesticate the woman? Sir I need to hear more.

I like your way of thinking and insight. It takes a mature man to be willing and able to own up about things he's done and to simply be realistic about the facts of life, like the statistics, without feeling the need to point fingers. And without taking these statistics and facts as a personal attack, cos it isn't. Facts are facts.
I've noticed it's usually insecure men or men with major hang-ups that feel the need to twist and turn things around.

Everybody has their own opinion on this and I respect that cuz my wife left a year ago but luckily she didn't take my son with her. Yeah it sucked when she bailed. She obviously didn't care about our son by leaving and to this day I'm still loving and caring 4 my lil' man. I just think it can happen 2 anybody and when there's children involved u gotta stay strong 4 them and urself.

Was going to say the exact thing,it's actually a little higher in North America for the woman to
step out, just going on memory,from some years
back, some cultures like Africa would be very one
sided the other way.

I like single moms cause they understand I'm a single dad its something in common and we both know that the kids come first in our lives so there is never that underlying competition between them for attention.

Single moms or dads are not always single because they did anything wrong they may be the victim. And remember if you don't ask why they are,you have no reason to judge if you even have that rite. Closed mouths don't get feed. Try communicating with your dates and as a matter of fact are you a parent and single? If you are then shame on you for saying anything and if you are not then you have no clue about their circumstance.

I was raised by a single mother, and have dated many. I have not found one who was trying to push their children on anyone. Are they supposed to give up on life and true love because the father of her children and her romance fell apart? What about fathers of children of divorce should they also have to give up romance because they are paying child support. For myself I found women with children that I dated more mature and they were more fun because for a little while they can be themselves instead of mom. Most of the women I have dated don't want you to really meet their kids until the are sure you are sticking around or your romance is picking up. Your young so always remember If you meet a women with kids its a complete package your getting involved with. Life is complicated and you must be mature enough to deal with things. Do you think they should send their children to a orphanage if they split with the father of their children?