Topic: What advice to give???
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Wed 09/18/13 11:41 AM
My friend have started an affair with a married women [he is 27 she is above 30]and she has a husband and a kind. now he is asking me for advice to keep the relation [of course i asked him to stop it] and move forward. the problem is i never even had a girlfriend n don't know what to say other than stop!!! If i keep on saying to stop it he will just go mental!!! so what should i do??

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Wed 09/18/13 01:47 PM
He does not need advice, he needs a reality check.

Honestly, who cares if he goes mental? If you really disprove of his actions, tell him so and be done with him. You can't control what he wants to do with his life and any advice you try to offer would only be humoring him after you have given your original opinion.


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Thu 09/19/13 07:59 AM
I know that... U see he used to be this shy, timid, geek kind of guy!! but after this relation, the change in his personality is just unbelievable!! His confidence level is high, he seems to be more focused of life [well mostly getting in her pants but then again!].... The change in him is just awesome...

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Thu 09/19/13 02:24 PM

He does not need advice, he needs a reality check.

Honestly, who cares if he goes mental? If you really disprove of his actions, tell him so and be done with him. You can't control what he wants to do with his life and any advice you try to offer would only be humoring him after you have given your original opinion.




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Thu 09/19/13 04:27 PM
Tell him this relationship will NOT end well.

And tell him not to come crying to you when it does.

Then leave him alone. He's an adult. He can make his own mistakes.

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Thu 09/19/13 06:35 PM

He does not need advice, he needs a reality check.

Honestly, who cares if he goes mental? If you really disprove of his actions, tell him so and be done with him. You can't control what he wants to do with his life and any advice you try to offer would only be humoring him after you have given your original opinion.





Exactly! Because if she's Willing to cheat on her husband with him, she'll do the same if not worse to your friend, and obviously isn't someone worth persuing. This alone says a lot about her morals as a woman, and that she has no self respect....

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Fri 09/20/13 02:52 PM
I'd tell him I can't help him with advice concerning his situation, and that he has to make his own choices.

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Fri 09/20/13 06:22 PM
Tell him nothing m8! You tried to tell him but hes pussywhipped just now and can't see the wood for the trees! When it goes pearshaped which it most definately will do, he'll only have himself to blame!