Why men live in sexless marriage or relationship??
Why women or men refuse sex when they get older.still in good shape and healthy.

There's more to life than just sex.

I dunno, ask them. Everyone has their own reasons for why they do anything.

SEX IS GOOD BUT IS NOT ALL THE TIME.A MAN CANNOT LIVE BY BREAD ALONE

There's a lot of factors for a sexless marriage. Could be stress, emotional (which could break down into further categories), could be the wrong moments when one craves it while the other does not and vice versa, genetics (many different factors here), hormones, attraction. I'm sure there's many other possibilities, but to me these are the most common ones I have heard of.

I agree with you. But why they don't want get help instead of argument annoying finding something hobby to stay away.

People who have no regard or need for sex in a marriage should only marry those who feel the same way and leave other people who like or love it, alone.

Sex is not all the Priority in a single person's life. However, in marriage sex should be very important. unless the man is disfunctional.

This.

I know of quite a few sexless marriages but the marriages continue. The couples got older and simply lost the desire to have sex but they still love each other very much.

I do not agree with this. They live together because of kids,afraid of divorce,being alone, afraid to the society, loosing half of property. I read a article about this if I could find it will post.

I have no idea why anyone would remain in a sexless relationship unless it had to do with an accident causing one or the other to become paralyzed from the waist/ or neck down. Personally if we are both healthy and there is no sex, then the relationship is over for me....

What the hell is up with all the "no sex, or less sex" questions? Is this some epidemic or something? I realize sex isn't everything when it comes to a relationship. But it sure as heck is important.

N2000,

There could be many reasons why men lose interest in sex, assuming they had it in the beginning.

My ex-girlfriend told me everything about her former marriage. Her ex-husband was 9 years older than she. He was never into sex. She has always loved sex. She is very sexual and has always been. She has had many sexual partners. She loves being naked around men. I think that if she could she'd never wear clothes. He had very few sexual partners. She thought that she would be able to teach him how to have good sex. But you cannot teach anyone who refuses to learn and one whose mind is closed to adventure.

She is still very good looking. She has a very hot and sexy body that she loves to reveal. She bough a very sheer and sexy negligee. She spent an entire day preparing to seduce her husband. After dinner she made sure their kids were asleep. She put on her sheer negligee and walked into his home-office where he was working. She has a gorgeous, dark bush that is an instant erection. She sat on his lap and began kissing him. HE PUSHED HER AWAY. She walked away devastated. About a half-hour later she tried it again. HE PUSHED HER AWAY AGAIN! He had no clue how badly he made her feel.

Later in their marriage he had to begin taking psychotropic medicine which all but destroyed what little sex life they had had. She said he was unable to achieve full erection and it took him forever to orgasm. By then their marriage was over except for formality. Trying to keep peace in a house with four kids, she'd sometimes have to have sex with him, but she hated it. He never knew how she liked sex, and he never asked her how she liked sex. He thought pulling off her shorts and crawling on top of her and doing her missionary was good sex. She loves lots of foreplay that includes lots of oral and then being bent over a bed and effed rough.

Finally it got to the point that when she was unable to rebuff him any longer she'd give him oral sex, which she didn't like to do because it took him a long time to orgasm and the medicine he was taking made him taste awful, or she'd pull down her pants, bend over a dresser, and pray he'd get it over.

That man had the world's sexiest woman and had no clue. If he had just listened to her, if he had allowed her to train him, he would have had sex like very few men know. And he'd probably still be married to her.

Thanks for this. My married man's story also same. His wife also like this lame husband. Even she does not want to see any therapy.The surprising thing is he still doesn't know what is the reason that she refusing sex.Married to 29 years.It is a secrete. But he decided to stay with her without sex, I think divorce is a big issue.

Having spent most of my life single, I've had about enough of sexless life already thanks.

I doubt they are staying because of kids as their kids are adults. LOL These couples are in their 60s, 70s, and 80s. My friend's parents are well in their 80s and still love each other very much but just don't have sex anymore. People lose their sex drive as they age but that doesn't mean they don't love each other. You can quote all the articles you want; but I know these people personally and I know they still love each other.

Nt sure, not in my relationship....

As long as I have one good hand, I'll have sex anytime I want!