IF I EVER GET MARRIED AGAIN, I BETTER HAVE SEX OR I AM OUT OF THERE!

No doubt.....

I can't even have a boyfriend that long if he ain't producing.

Sorry about my post for your post. This couple is in their 48 and 50.Both of them are healthy. Kids are adults.

Gran used to say, "whoever talks of it sure ain't having it."

I can't help you there, I love it and will have it for many years to come...but hormones do cause a lot of the issues.

Yea! Buddy!

LOL...

good grief! there are other ways to be 'intimate' without sex

sex carries with it risks and requires certain physical capabilities that change in people over time

we really don't 'have to have it' to be fulfilled physically or emotionally, despite the constant misgivings of our culture and medical community,,,,


kissing, hugging, fondling, and all other types of physical intimacy can be fulfilling wihout the full on sex being there, especially if the rest of the relationship is built upon something real and of substance,,,

as someone else stated,, simply put, people who place sex as that high of a priority should be mature enough to communicate that with their partner to find if they feel the same way, before going down that road together,,,

Sex is good. In fact I've been referred to as insatiable,
but sports gave me a unique insight into what should be a healthy
Sexual habit. The more consistently I have sex, the less the intensity
of my preparatory training is. Whereas when I'm able to avoid sex for at least two weeks, I feel so good performing. I rubbed mind with my coach, team mates
and I discovered the phenomenon isn't peculiar to me. So if a couple must live under a sex less arrangement, it'll be nice if you don't inconvenience your partner.

Gran was wrong....well maybe in her day. But now we are much more open about it...

LOL.

That's how everyone viewed the ex-wife and me. Wonderful couple with no problems. For the last 10 years of our marriage she never asked or hinted any desire. Times we'd go 6 months and she "appeared" happy as a clam. I'd try to talk about it and the only person talking was me.

Originally I thought her career as a nurse put me in the back seat. Now she tells my daughter she wanted a wilder lifestyle than I was willing to be involved in (sex had nothing to do with it). Recently she said she wishes she would have divorced me 20 years earlier.

Sometimes the appearance and the way people talk is deceptive.

At the expense of sounding negative: if a man says and/or does this call him a jerk and accuse him of having no commitment.