Who should propose first-a boy or girl?

Whomever is the drunkest of the two?

So...what are you drinking stud?

guess that depends on who loves whom

Just throw money at her.

I'm sure the answer will be 'yes'

Interesting question though. I still feel a man should propose. Nothing wrong with a woman proposing. But to me it does feel like the world inside out. I want a bloke to get on one knee and ask me. It's just one of them things in life you will remember till your dying day.

The other day at a party, I asked my friends if they had ever been proposed to. The answers were stunning, it's a good party question!
It turns out most had never been proposed to. Most couples had simply talked about getting married, discussed it, cos it was more convenient. So 9 out of 10 times, there's no romantic proposal at all.

I want the fairytale proposal and wedding

I've been thinking about this my entire life so I better get it!

Yeah, I know the feeling! But to me the romantic proposal is more important than the fairy-tale wedding.

I agree!

I can tell you how not to propose. On cleaning day, don't tell her not to miss the ring in the bathtub. She might turn the water on before she sees the RING. Then you'll be proposing in a bathroom with a soap scum covered diamond ring in one hand and a wrench in the other to a woman in a bandana and rubber gloves having very serious second thoughts about you.

Don't do it...And neither.

I agree with CrystalFairy. I'd feel weird proposing to a guy....

Why should it matter? If you both love each other, then go for it. Yeah, screw it. If I feel a guy really is for me, then I'd propose. Incase he went off with someone else.

If a guy might go off with someone else, I would absolutely not propose! You should get married because you truly love each other and intend to stay together the rest of your life.
You shouldn't do it cos you are concerned the other party might bugger off.

@ Cynderella, that indeed doesn't sound like the ideal proposal! But maybe you can laugh about it now or is it still sore?

I suppose I should have worded it better? I was thinking more along the lines of marking my terrority. lol. Say if the guy I'm really into, has me and another woman after him, I'd make sure I got there first, by asking him to marry me. Saying that, he still may like the other one more. You can't always tell, huh?

Lol. I think I know what you mean, but still, I would never ever propose to a guy if
A - I wasn't sure about it all
B - He had another woman after him and he didn't make clear he doesn't want that woman, as in telling her off and making an effort to convince me that he's only into me and me only.

You shouldn't try to hang on to a man out of fear of losing him. You shouldn't be the one to mark the territory, that's basically just a pissing contest (based on ego and fear), nothing to do with love and commitment.
If he's really into you, he'd make very clear he isn't interested in any other woman, but is committed to you.
I'd only consider proposing if we were both truly committed. If I'd have to be scared my guy buggers off with any woman that shows interest in him, he better pack up and leave. Then he ain't for me to begin with! I want a man who doesn't require me guarding him all the time and watching his every step. I wanna be able to trust the man I'm with. Meaning HE should choose to not stray.