Well i don't know why she has to Dump Mike.With Brock what you are feeling is nostalgia and you are experiencing selective memory.If it was so great with him,you would still be there.
I would date Mike,see where it goes.If you feel it will never be love then tell Mike .Brock is history and is only sniffing around because you are seeing someone else.
Good luck but either way know you are a good person who at least cares if they hurt someone.

keep the other guy on a string and fool around with you ex... Have some good loving the way you are used to having it... and if you are lucky, you will fall back in love with your ex and things will be better than before because you 2 have certainly learned a few valuable lessons... UNTIL... you go back to taking each other for granted and then getting all screwed up again.. WHY.. because both of you know each other all too well and nothing new ever happens within your comfort zone... but hey, why not be honest with this nice guy though... maybe you will find out that even us nice guys have that a$$hole side of us that will keep you guessing... play games and games get played...

just wanted to say thanks to those that have given me good advice ....if anyone has any other good suggestions keep em coming....i appreciate it! and if you are just going to freak out and assume you know everything about the situation and just want to judge me for being honest.... please dont bother responding!

haha this is crazy how some people are just psycho over this!!

I just think you need to figure out what you want!! Only you know how you feel and who you love. I say just look deep inside of yourself and really do some soul searching.
When I "thought" I was still IN love with someone, I would always write down the positive and the negatives about the person....which one out weighs the other one?? There was my answer!!
I think if you really dig deep you know what you should, listen to your heart and your head!! Good luck

Sounds like you have some unresolved feelings about your break up, and haven't worked through them. As some others have mentioned, consider what happened to cause the break up. Any breaches of honesty, integrity or fidelity should be big red warning flags. You didn't say how long you and your ex were together, but you have been with the new guy only a very short time. You do need to take time for yourself before getting involved with anyone else, though.

wow sound like dejavu all over again ..i had a somewhat similar situation..a good wrestling friend of mine who had wanted a relationship with me and whom i had a major crush on back in high school started talking to me again when i was dating this perfect guy..anyways i told the guy i was dating that we couldnt date anymore cause i had feelings for someone else..in the long run i lost both of them.. i kind of regret it :( so think about it ..hope everyhting works out for u :)

not over your ex

tell the other guy and set him free

Maybe your ex wants you back because your seeing someone else. Take sometime out for yourself and don't see or talk to either one of them for awhile to make sure of what your wants are. You sound pretty level headed and don't want to hurt either of them. You could find out that nether of them are what you need in your life right now.

Damn! Is this thread still going. Everyone has said basically the same things. Sighhhhhhhhh

haha...I wonder what she did???

What is wrong with this thread going on?
Is this not an important issue that reoccurs in lives in the past, present and will always in the future?
Is this not a subject to find good answers for; or at least SEE how people think? for what they THINK that they will do. And one will KNOW whether to RUN from them or run INTO them?

I hope she is STILL alive.
Anybody HEARD from her recently?????!!

im kinda surprised this is still going.....i havent made any decisions yet really...except that i cant be with anyone right now....too many things to figure out first and dragging someone else into my unresolved feelings isnt fair to anyone.....thanks for all the good comments everyone

Beebee!! Thank God you are alive.

I'm suprised they didn't have your ass for this one like they did me... I had a similar situation not too long ago. Trust me, just go with what feels right. Thats all you can really do. Someone is going to get hurt, but you have to let that go. I went with the 'one who returned' and I'm sooo glad I did. We are living together now... in fact he's sitting right next to me on his computer....lol. Good luck sweetie, if you need to talk feel free to add me on yahoo: Sweet_Thang72081. I've been there, its hard, but you gotta do what is right for you. The 'sweet great guy' is wonderful to have, but if he's not in your heart there's nothing you can do to change that.

If the blind lead the bling they both shall fall into the ditch.

Blind? How would that be? That she talk to someone who's been in that situation very recently themselves? Don't you think that might just make her feel less alone in this situation? When I made my post about this same delimma the posters had me for lunch, like I should've been wearing a scarlet letter. Don't worry, hun, I won't lead you to a ditch.

JaymeStephens84a0l. You have confessed to being a Witch in another thread.
What does the Witches Bible have to say about this situation and about the future or past of Word events?