keep the other guy on a string and fool around with you ex... Have some good loving the way you are used to having it... and if you are lucky, you will fall back in love with your ex and things will be better than before because you 2 have certainly learned a few valuable lessons... UNTIL... you go back to taking each other for granted and then getting all screwed up again.. WHY.. because both of you know each other all too well and nothing new ever happens within your comfort zone... but hey, why not be honest with this nice guy though... maybe you will find out that even us nice guys have that a$$hole side of us that will keep you guessing... play games and games get played...