Topic: Anyone else looking to recover from an addiction
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Thu 08/29/13 05:40 AM
Get the book, they also have one day at a time books. If you can't find a GA group try AA or NA your friends and family won't understand go to a group find someone there to talk to get a number for support

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Thu 08/29/13 05:55 AM
Edited by Leigh2154 on Thu 08/29/13 05:56 AM

I'm going to do that, however I just think it would be more useful if I had someone that I could actually relate to either online or in person, just because a book only goes so far in depth whilst you can choose with a conversation how in depth you want to go or not to go. I'm heading off to sleep now as I've got work n the morning but I shall reply when I wake up.


Morning Adamwaving ....Check out this link...It's Gamblers Anonymous official website...It might help you locate meetings and people in your area...AND, it has a phone support line!!happy


http://www.gamblersanonymous.org/ga/locations

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Thu 08/29/13 06:39 AM
Wow willing, You seem to know the Big Book and fundamentals of AA well.

Finding a group is definitely the way to begin. When I went through IOPT. I learned a lot about addiction and how the mind tries to rationalize. But AA is where I saw and felt a connection with people who had my experiences.

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Thu 08/29/13 11:23 AM
Hey Leigh,

Unfortuantly that site is for the us :( and in terms of golf ear do you mind me asking what where you addicted to? I wanna hear your story

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Thu 08/29/13 11:42 AM

Wow willing, You seem to know the Big Book and fundamentals of AA well.

Finding a group is definitely the way to begin. When I went through IOPT. I learned a lot about addiction and how the mind tries to rationalize. But AA is where I saw and felt a connection with people who had my experiences.
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Thu 08/29/13 11:46 AM

Hey Leigh,

Unfortuantly that site is for the us :( and in terms of golf ear do you mind me asking what where you addicted to? I wanna hear your story
Here is the GA-Site for the UK!

http://www.gamblersanonymous.org.uk/index.php/meetings

If you can't find any Meetings for GA,go to some Open Meetings of AA or NA,I am sure you will find some Fellowtravelers who also have a Gambling Addiction in addition to their Drug- Alcoholaddictions!

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Thu 08/29/13 11:49 AM
Edited by Conrad_73 on Thu 08/29/13 11:51 AM
We admitted we were Powerless over our Addiction,that our Lives had become Unmanageable!
That's where Recovery starts!

Adami619's photo
Thu 08/29/13 11:52 AM
Tell me about i

pkh's photo
Thu 08/29/13 11:57 AM

Tell me about i
i think we've all tried to give you the best advice we can. Now the choice is your and how you use it. Best wishes.

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Thu 08/29/13 11:58 AM
In the last 24 hours did you gamble?
If not, consider that your first 24 hours.

Congratulations and a big round if applause.

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Thu 08/29/13 11:58 AM
Advice is great, discussion is brilliant

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Thu 08/29/13 12:06 PM

Hey Leigh,

Unfortuantly that site is for the us :( and in terms of golf ear do you mind me asking what where you addicted to? I wanna hear your story


Not at all Adam:smile: ....When I was 20, I got hooked on speed (prescription form amphetamine)...My addiction only lasted about nine months, but the last three or four months were hell...At first, the drug was like a miracle cure for my self esteems and social anxiety issues...I could go anywhere and do anything without feeling self conscious or nervous...I had more energy than I knew what to do with, and I looked great, slim, trim, and toned....The drug gave me confidence, false confidence....It also robbed me of much needed sleep, killed my appetite, wreaked havoc on my nervous system, and turned me into someone I didn't know and didn't like... Sooooo,,,,, once I realized the drug was in control I made the decision to stop....For me, stopping was the easy part, understanding why I became addicted and learning new coping skills was hard and it took time, commitment, some pretty serious counseling (mostly about my family dynamics and how they were affecting my choices) and "a lot help from my friends"...

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Thu 08/29/13 12:13 PM
Oooooh, I get by with a little help from my friends.

Adami619's photo
Thu 08/29/13 12:16 PM
What made you start in the first place? Have you ever thought about going back into it?

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Thu 08/29/13 12:29 PM

What made you start in the first place? Have you ever thought about going back into it?


No, never...Never once in all these years...What made me start in the first place?...If you mean how I was introduced to speed, the guy I was dating at the time offered it and I accepted..Age old story!ohwell

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Thu 08/29/13 12:31 PM

Oooooh, I get by with a little help from my friends.


Gonna try with a little help from my friendsbigsmile ....Now that damn song will be in my head all day!grumble

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Thu 08/29/13 12:31 PM
So what made you wanna try it presides the act that your boyfriend was doing it at the time? Was it just that you was slightly curious?

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Thu 08/29/13 12:52 PM

So what made you wanna try it presides the act that your boyfriend was doing it at the time? Was it just that you was slightly curious?


No, not curious...I was miserable, with myself and my life...I wanted to feel better and he promised me I would....Nothing complicated about it, I was looking for a free lunch and I found out there is no free lunch ....It's all about taking responsibility for yourself Adam...It's all about making choices...

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Thu 08/29/13 12:57 PM
I think for me it all started when I was around 13-14 because I started playing a game that was called habbohotel and you could collect furniture and then create your own little casinos if you wanted to. In the end my account was hacked into and that was the end of that, but then one day my brother said oh if you create an account your get a free ten pound bet and if you bet for this guy to win I bet he will score and that's what happened and then it was a downhill spiral but then

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Thu 08/29/13 12:59 PM


Oooooh, I get by with a little help from my friends.


Gonna try with a little help from my friendsbigsmile ....Now that damn song will be in my head all day!grumble

Yer welcome very much! flowerforyou