Topic: Is it possible to get back together with an exgirlfreind?
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Mon 08/12/13 08:37 PM
Is it possible to get back together with an exgirlfreind and is there any tips to get them back?

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Mon 08/12/13 08:59 PM
Did she make you and Ex or did you?

If it is here choice that you are and EX I think you are probably spinning your wheels for nothing trying.

Since and Ex is and Ex for a reason you might want to start there or face the facts and move on.

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Mon 08/12/13 09:12 PM
I always look at things this way, an ex is an ex for a reason and I won't give them another shot. I keep looking forward and never look back.
I guess it depends on who dumped who IF they give you another try?

Pelonxiio's photo
Mon 08/12/13 09:20 PM
You can but everytime that you have a fight... you will always remember why you both broke up.

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Mon 08/12/13 09:35 PM
Somehow making the same mistake twice by choosing an ex is self punishing. You might want to figure out why you want to give an Ex a second or more times to mess up your life. I doubt is all that much to do with the Ex as it is something else.

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Mon 08/12/13 09:37 PM

Is it possible to get back together with an exgirlfreind and is there any tips to get them back?

i wouldnt. i had a friend in grad school who broke up with his gf. they got back together a few years later and ended up getting married. 20 years later theyre still together with a kid so it is possible.

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Mon 08/12/13 09:40 PM
of course its possible

we grow/change a bit everyday,,, we can fall all over again for the person someone has become, even if we once weren't crazy about who they were,,,

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Tue 08/13/13 06:51 AM

Is it possible to get back together with an exgirlfreind and is there any tips to get them back?


if you are interested in getting abck together with her, you do not need "tips" it's not a contest with a prize, or a need to "trick" her. The only thing you really can do is ask her. I would recommend also having taken the time to resolve within your self or your behavior the reasons she broke up with you. if those are things you can;t or really do not want to change, then it's best to find someone who will accept you as you are.

Conversly if you broke up with her, you have to decide if you can accept her as she is.

examining the reasons for the break up is step one
deciding what can change or has changed so it will now work, is step two and that involves talking to her.

be careful tho not to breeze in like you already have everything solved.

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Tue 08/13/13 11:28 AM

Is it possible to get back together with an exgirlfreind and is there any tips to get them back?


Anything is possible, but at the end of the day you are the same people, ask yourself why should it work now when it didn't work before?

My tip would be to leave the past in the past and find someone new, there are lots of lovely ladies out there just waiting to be asked out.

Welcome to Mingle2 and good luck in your search.

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Tue 08/13/13 11:55 AM
If at first you don't succeed ...fail fail again.

Plenty of people are gluttons for punishment. If miserably unsuccessful relationships that leave you crying all alone repeatedly makes you happy...

I say "go for it! "

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Tue 08/13/13 12:27 PM

Is it possible to get back together with an exgirlfreind and is there any tips to get them back?


Some of the best relationship advice my mother ever gave me............"Never go back"....

Welcome WB!flowerforyou