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He was probably married, has kids, and is a guy who likes to flirt. Why do I say that? I am going by what you wrote and he seemed to want to impress your kids by giving them all the free stuff. Men who are Dad's will do that to make an impression or they will do it because they are a father and they like to spoil kids. He probably did find you very attractive and was probably thinking how he would love to date a woman like you (if he weren't already with someone). Anyways....... I only give out my number after I have asked her out. I mean, if I ask a woman out then that means I have a high interest in her. Now, I will say I get more numbers handed to me than me handing out my number. I have no clue why that is and it's not like I get 10 numbers a week or something.   The girl who cut my hair a couple weeks ago gave me her number. I wasn't flirting with her....she and I had great convo while she cut my hair. She handed me her business card and then put her cell number on it. When I asked why I needed her cell she just smiled and said. "Just in case....ya know". Lol. Gotta admire her forward ness. Did I forget to tell you all that we got the whole marriage and kids thing out of the way when we were talking? He told me he was not married and he does not have kids. He even said he was single. |
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What is even more funny is that my kids were saying (very loudly), "mom you should date him, he would make a good husband." Any time a guy flirts with me, they think I need to date them.Lol. What cues do you look for when you flirt and the other person flirts back to get a phone number? I almost gave him my business card to "advertise my services" but I believe the guy should take the first step. But this guy did make the first step. He was perhaps hesitant because you were with your kids? And no, the idea guys always have to make the first step is a little outdated I think. Nope. It's not outdated. |
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Sounds like you got an option.
Good for you. AND he has a job....that may be the reason he didn't throw his number at you.....obviously free food ain't exactly proffessional....but giving your number out at work ain't professional either. If the guy is anything like most guys I know ...he probably just panicked on the success of a conversation with a real woman and brain farted the phone # thing.....kicking himself later about it. Anyhoo ...obviously ...the guy is single, employed, interested and got no problem with kids. He has done his part....if you are interested...ain't no reason you can't pop in and ask him out....this ain't the '50's. The worst that can happen is him saying no. |
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He was probably married, has kids, and is a guy who likes to flirt. Why do I say that? I am going by what you wrote and he seemed to want to impress your kids by giving them all the free stuff. Men who are Dad's will do that to make an impression or they will do it because they are a father and they like to spoil kids. He probably did find you very attractive and was probably thinking how he would love to date a woman like you (if he weren't already with someone). Anyways....... I only give out my number after I have asked her out. I mean, if I ask a woman out then that means I have a high interest in her. Now, I will say I get more numbers handed to me than me handing out my number. I have no clue why that is and it's not like I get 10 numbers a week or something. The girl who cut my hair a couple weeks ago gave me her number. I wasn't flirting with her....she and I had great convo while she cut my hair. She handed me her business card and then put her cell number on it. When I asked why I needed her cell she just smiled and said. "Just in case....ya know". Lol. Gotta admire her forward ness. Did I forget to tell you all that we got the whole marriage and kids thing out of the way when we were talking? He told me he was not married and he does not have kids. He even said he was single. Alrighty then....he was macking. 
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JP pretty big hint if he told you that he wasn't married, no kids and he was single
 Plus all the free food doesn't mean much as it was almost closing time and he would have just thrown it away but still was a nice thought to spoil ur kids abit which is effort. Sounds like he made a pretty big effort but maybe just didn't want u to reject him if he asked for ur number. I agree with what old Mage said go back give him ur buisness card and let him call you. Go do it right now if u were interested in him lol |
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My take on this was that he was flirting. He was trying
to get your kids to like him so you would, that is a way to a mom's heart is through her kids. IF you liked him, go in there and give him your number. Or go back in there and see if he remembers you and get your nerve up and say HEY..HERE IS MY NUMBER, CALL ME SOMETIME IF YOU WANT!!! |
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(((Krupa))) I get ya..know what you mean Give your woman a Bite~ for me Thankies :-) 
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Princess - go back alone and see how he is!
It's a great opportunity to give him your card. No risk, no benefit! Go for it, girl! We're all rooting for you! |
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(((Krupa))) I get ya..know what you mean Give your woman a Bite~ for me Thankies :-)  
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Edited by
sweetestgirl11
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Wed 08/07/13 08:03 PM
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Haha can only speak for myself but I wouldn't just go around handing out my number like I'm some hotline. Isn't the guy meant to ask for the girls number and if she's interested she will give him her number? And maybe the thought of rejection is so overwhelming and embarrassing that we don't do it? or else he was married ^ I didn't see her next comment, but he could also still have someone I have had the same thing happen...guy seems totally interested but he doesn't ask for my number or give me his..I'm like....what???? If they're waiting for a red carpet invite just to get my phone #....????.....well I just figured they were married or in a relationship but just wanting to flirt especially since it's usually much younger guys that does this |
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Sounds like you got an option. Good for you. AND he has a job....that may be the reason he didn't throw his number at you.....obviously free food ain't exactly proffessional....but giving your number out at work ain't professional either. If the guy is anything like most guys I know ...he probably just panicked on the success of a conversation with a real woman and brain farted the phone # thing.....kicking himself later about it. Anyhoo ...obviously ...the guy is single, employed, interested and got no problem with kids. He has done his part....if you are interested...ain't no reason you can't pop in and ask him out....this ain't the '50's. The worst that can happen is him saying no. right could be there is a rule against dating customers |
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Edited by
eyemaflirt247
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Thu 08/08/13 11:42 AM
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He obviously had some reservations. If you're interested: order that apple chicken pecan salad, ask to use his phone, call your number & tell him thanks.
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