Topic: flirting
MoonsDragonLionWolf's photo
Wed 08/07/13 06:58 AM

He told me he had a very long day and was tired. There were no customers in the restaurant and that he had so much to do before he had to close and yet he kept talking to me and my kids. My kids would go up to the counter and ask for free food and he would give it to them after he had already given me a bigger frosty because he said that I deserved to have more than my kids.


Perhaps he was just lazy and decided to talk to you in order to avoid doing his duties.
Even if it meant giving away free food.

think

Jesusprincessmt's photo
Wed 08/07/13 07:02 AM


He told me he had a very long day and was tired. There were no customers in the restaurant and that he had so much to do before he had to close and yet he kept talking to me and my kids. My kids would go up to the counter and ask for free food and he would give it to them after he had already given me a bigger frosty because he said that I deserved to have more than my kids.


Perhaps he was just lazy and decided to talk to you in order to avoid doing his duties.
Even if it meant giving away free food.

think


Perhaps, but when other customers came in after me, they did not get any where near the attention we got. When they left he was still giving us free food.

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Wed 08/07/13 07:06 AM
Edited by 2KidsMom on Wed 08/07/13 07:07 AM

Maybe he was already in a relationship and simply enjoys flirting.



most likelyohwell drinker ...but I still think,he liked her:heart:

oldsage's photo
Wed 08/07/13 07:06 AM
After reading all your comments. I suggest he might have not wanted to give you his number, in case you might report him to his boss. What he did was def. not approved business practice.

Suggest if you do have an interest, go back, same time, w/o kids & see what happens. If interest is still there, give him your card & a "BUSINESS" explanation of the benefits of your field. Puts ball totally in his court, for further contact. See what happens.

GOOD LUCK


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Wed 08/07/13 07:09 AM

After reading all your comments. I suggest he might have not wanted to give you his number, in case you might report him to his boss. What he did was def. not approved business practice.

Suggest if you do have an interest, go back, same time, w/o kids & see what happens. If interest is still there, give him your card & a "BUSINESS" explanation of the benefits of your field. Puts ball totally in his court, for further contact. See what happens.

GOOD LUCK






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Jesusprincessmt's photo
Wed 08/07/13 07:12 AM

After reading all your comments. I suggest he might have not wanted to give you his number, in case you might report him to his boss. What he did was def. not approved business practice.

Suggest if you do have an interest, go back, same time, w/o kids & see what happens. If interest is still there, give him your card & a "BUSINESS" explanation of the benefits of your field. Puts ball totally in his court, for further contact. See what happens.

GOOD LUCK




Any one can use my business. That is why I thought about giving him my card. With him being a store manager, I am pretty sure he does not give away food like that very often. He told me that this was his third store he had to fix. He had just been moved there.

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Wed 08/07/13 07:13 AM
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EdwardCB's photo
Wed 08/07/13 07:14 AM
Sorry
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Wed 08/07/13 07:16 AM


After reading all your comments. I suggest he might have not wanted to give you his number, in case you might report him to his boss. What he did was def. not approved business practice.

Suggest if you do have an interest, go back, same time, w/o kids & see what happens. If interest is still there, give him your card & a "BUSINESS" explanation of the benefits of your field. Puts ball totally in his court, for further contact. See what happens.

GOOD LUCK




Any one can use my business. That is why I thought about giving him my card. With him being a store manager, I am pretty sure he does not give away food like that very often. He told me that this was his third store he had to fix. He had just been moved there.

JP go back there and work ur magic girl and get him hooked. Your a very nice gal and anybody would be lucky to have you :smile:

Jesusprincessmt's photo
Wed 08/07/13 07:26 AM
Regardless of this incident, I am still curious about the cues after flirting. When do you give away your phone number or ask for a phone number? I know people used to do it when they first met someone they were interested in and did not know if they would see them again. I met a single dad at the park and we talked and flirted with each other. I told my friend and he asked if I got his number. I said no. Does this happen often? I am kind of old fashioned. I would rather the guy ask me. Is that a bad thing?

EdwardCB's photo
Wed 08/07/13 07:28 AM
If he told u he was single.

janetdav's photo
Wed 08/07/13 07:29 AM
Edited by janetdav on Wed 08/07/13 07:33 AM
lets say that was actually because you could summon courage to do the little you did,most ladies always give an "i aint got time for s-h-i-t"look on their face....smile ladies wink sometimes it doesn't kill...trust me,i tried it

oldsage's photo
Wed 08/07/13 07:40 AM

Regardless of this incident, I am still curious about the cues after flirting. When do you give away your phone number or ask for a phone number? I know people used to do it when they first met someone they were interested in and did not know if they would see them again. I met a single dad at the park and we talked and flirted with each other. I told my friend and he asked if I got his number. I said no. Does this happen often? I am kind of old fashioned. I would rather the guy ask me. Is that a bad thing?


You have a perfect chance to see if the gentleman is interested in further contact, BUSINESS. IF you have an interest, give him a card. Speak in a casual way. The gentleman now has the chance to follow thru or not. I hand out cards, even in purely casual conversations. Never know where it mght lead & that is one of the first rules of business. Give everyone you meet a card.

OPINION of Old Sage

Jesusprincessmt's photo
Wed 08/07/13 08:06 AM



After reading all your comments. I suggest he might have not wanted to give you his number, in case you might report him to his boss. What he did was def. not approved business practice.

Suggest if you do have an interest, go back, same time, w/o kids & see what happens. If interest is still there, give him your card & a "BUSINESS" explanation of the benefits of your field. Puts ball totally in his court, for further contact. See what happens.

GOOD LUCK




Any one can use my business. That is why I thought about giving him my card. With him being a store manager, I am pretty sure he does not give away food like that very often. He told me that this was his third store he had to fix. He had just been moved there.

JP go back there and work ur magic girl and get him hooked. Your a very nice gal and anybody would be lucky to have you :smile:


Thank you. flowerforyoublushing

krupa's photo
Wed 08/07/13 10:22 AM
Just my take on it....

I flirt constantly ...and I am in a happy and healthy, loving relationship.

I flirt with every woman at work...pretty or ugly...single or not.

I do it cause I believe that everyone should get some positive reenforcment everyday.

Just because I flirt...doesn't mean I wanna bag em. I do it to make them feel good about themselves and get a smile out of them.

After all...don't all of us want to feel a little special everyday?

Jesusprincessmt's photo
Wed 08/07/13 11:41 AM

Just my take on it....

I flirt constantly ...and I am in a happy and healthy, loving relationship.

I flirt with every woman at work...pretty or ugly...single or not.

I do it cause I believe that everyone should get some positive reenforcment everyday.

Just because I flirt...doesn't mean I wanna bag em. I do it to make them feel good about themselves and get a smile out of them.

After all...don't all of us want to feel a little special everyday?


No. To me this just confuses the whole dating situation. frustrated

krupa's photo
Wed 08/07/13 11:59 AM
C'est le vie.

I do got a couple of people at work who refuse to engage in light hearted banter..."if we ain't dating...I don't wanna talk to them"...types.

I try a couple of times to make nice then, I just ignore them and leave them alone so they can take themselves way too seriously yet wonder why they are still alone.

But..different strokes for different folks.

As long as they are comfortable with themselves ...I got no right to judge. I just try to make the next one smile.

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Wed 08/07/13 12:00 PM

Just my take on it....

I flirt constantly ...and I am in a happy and healthy, loving relationship.

I flirt with every woman at work...pretty or ugly...single or not.

I do it cause I believe that everyone should get some positive reenforcment everyday.

Just because I flirt...doesn't mean I wanna bag em. I do it to make them feel good about themselves and get a smile out of them.

After all...don't all of us want to feel a little special everyday?



(((Krupa))) I get ya..know what you mean
Give your woman a Bite~ for me

krupa's photo
Wed 08/07/13 12:34 PM
Will do foxy 2.

:)

Goofball73's photo
Wed 08/07/13 02:41 PM
He was probably married, has kids, and is a guy who likes to flirt. Why do I say that? I am going by what you wrote and he seemed to want to impress your kids by giving them all the free stuff. Men who are Dad's will do that to make an impression or they will do it because they are a father and they like to spoil kids. He probably did find you very attractive and was probably thinking how he would love to date a woman like you (if he weren't already with someone). Anyways.......

I only give out my number after I have asked her out. I mean, if I ask a woman out then that means I have a high interest in her. Now, I will say I get more numbers handed to me than me handing out my number. I have no clue why that is and it's not like I get 10 numbers a week or something. noway laugh The girl who cut my hair a couple weeks ago gave me her number. I wasn't flirting with her....she and I had great convo while she cut my hair. She handed me her business card and then put her cell number on it. When I asked why I needed her cell she just smiled and said. "Just in case....ya know". Lol. Gotta admire her forward ness.