Topic: How to start dating again after a long Relationship
LadyNeNe69's photo
Fri 07/26/13 06:26 PM
It's been so long since I went out on a date. Where to start its so hard

JH_George's photo
Fri 07/26/13 06:43 PM
You already did the first step with looking for someone to date. The rest will come :)
Never stop looking

runningshoes2000's photo
Fri 07/26/13 06:45 PM
Yes it is hard to start oner. The rules have changed you have changedand it is anew ballgame.The main thing is don't profile one way than act totally diff. When you meet someone. All we know is what we read and always meetin apublic place.Your safety is more important.

kc0003's photo
Fri 07/26/13 06:52 PM
well, when you get asked, say yes, then go. pretty simple really.

joss148's photo
Fri 07/26/13 07:16 PM
try it out start from the bottom.not kenya the pick.

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Fri 07/26/13 07:19 PM
Mingle :)

ArtGurl's photo
Fri 07/26/13 08:18 PM
Something I see over and over with the clients I coach is that if they have been in a long-term relationship, their inclination it to get back into one and it is the biggest mistake they can make.

It is important to mingle and have fun. Keep it light. Get used to being single. Plan to make friends without any expectations. When you find a connection with someone you are attracted to by all means date and enjoy.

All the while, getting back to your centered position of power within yourself. That space where you are confident, know what you want and have dealt with the emotions of a relationship ending. Unless you do that ... you are most likely to settle for less that you really desire and deserve.

Relax ... it's not rocket science. There are amazing men out there (and some real dip-wads too but don't let them put you off)...hold out for the great ones - there are many!

Good luck! :smile:

1Cynderella's photo
Fri 07/26/13 08:49 PM
Edited by 1Cynderella on Fri 07/26/13 08:50 PM
I have always taken long periods for myself between relationships.

In the past I've never had to actively look, it has always seemed that when I was ready, it just happened.

What that says to me is that when you're ready, the right vibes will just naturally flow from you.



Shy_Emo_chick's photo
Sat 07/27/13 12:12 AM
Edited by Shy_Emo_chick on Sat 07/27/13 12:15 AM
I understand. I always felt scared, when jumping back into the dating pool. Saying that, it's not like I've dated a LOT of men. The few I had, were all long term relationship's. It's best to date again when you truly feel ready. Don't let your friend's and family pressure you into it. I know some do. You know your own mind and body, so just go with what feels natural to you. There's no time limit :)

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Sat 07/27/13 01:18 AM
show the natural feelinghappy love