Sorry, but i'm being honest, i honestly think people confuse the 'in love' with attraction. I hate to say that sometimes people men are always looking for the bigger, better deal. And honestly if they have someone in their sites, who they think they have a shot with they will use this line 'love you, not 'in love' with you'. But you can honestly combat that, 1st he was attracted to you enough initially to have sex with you initially. I have a question, when it first became a romance did you look different? Did you act different? Did he meet you out at a club and now you never want to go and just stay home? Were you thinner? Sometimes people don't even realize they change themselves into something that is now less attractive to their partner. For example, you meet a girl out playing volleyball. later you start a relationship maybe even as far as moving in together....she still plays volleyball sometimes...but stops playing eventually and you ask her to go...not happening. Guess what...the fact that she was sporty is what initially attracted him....if she becomes a couch potato and her idea of having fun is real housewives.....they should start to expect the "i love you, but not in love you with you speech" If I love a color a on a car, tell the dealship that I like the car because of it's color, and I come back the next day to discovered he painted it....guess what i'm getting a different car. Same thing applies to relationships...at least in my opinion

I have only been in love once, but loved several. Huge, big difference. No way to describe it but just a feeling you have. I think a lot of people confuse being in love with infatuation. You meet someone and if your really attracted to them you feel like in your love.......generally it's just the hormones kicking. True Love only comes once in a lifetime, unless your super lucky & it comes twice.

I guess that justy happened to me,wow life

When you hear this statement when dating you know the relationship is not going to go any further, and if you are looking for marriage you will need to look elsewhere in my opinion.

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