Topic: Is there a reason why you are single? | |
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ha ha same hea bro aint did any wrong yet single,, sick of being single bro
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I spent the last 25 or so years raising/stabilizing my kids. I now have a lady friend, who is so much more. |
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From reading the first 4 pages of this topic, I highly appreciate women who spend their life raising/stabilizing their kids. If I were near them I'll look for a mother to marry because such marriage has a huge of humanity to please God.
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From reading the first 4 pages of this topic, I highly appreciate women who spend their life raising/stabilizing their kids. If I were near them I'll look for a mother to marry because such marriage has a huge of humanity to please God. Really? I don't find men very interested whether or not you have raised your children well or not. That's been my experience here. As long as you're talking sex or posting indecent pictures and flaunting yourself, what moral character you have is of little interest to most! JMHO! Men are continually drawn to the sexual aspects of women, and character is of little importance to them...this is true or some males, but certainly not all on this site. |
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im single because I think I just don't understand anything that isn't direct.
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i Havent been Totally Single Till Recently
Now I Want To Find A nice Guy |
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I always have that feeling that I need to better myself before being involved with someone.
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i like boobs too much i guess
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Really? I don't find men very interested whether or not you have raised your children well or not. That's been my experience here. As long as you're talking sex or posting indecent pictures and flaunting yourself, what moral character you have is of little interest to most! JMHO! Men are continually drawn to the sexual aspects of women, and character is of little importance to them...this is true or some males, but certainly not all on this site. The issue of women in Islam, like Christianity is topic of great misunderstanding and distortion due partly to a lack of understanding, but also partly due to misbehavior of some people which has been taken to represent the teachings of God. God teaches us to respect women as mothers not only as the source of sex. The Quran said, "I command you to be kind to women." The Prophet said, "When one of you sees a beautiful woman, he should go to his wife. Because what is with her [i.e., wife] is same as what is with the other one." And said "Paradise is at the feet of mothers." He said too, "It is only the generous in character who is good to women, and only the evil one who insults them." |
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Edited by
NoMindGamesPlease
on
Wed 07/30/14 02:01 AM
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4Deeds wrote:"I haven't been single for very long. However, for a huge part of my 22 year relationship with my ex-husband I felt alone and like a single mom. Now, I've been on my own for just 5 months, and everything about it is hard. I've got a lot of learning about my self to do. Maybe people end up being on their. Own for long periods of time or short periods of time because there is more to learn. I like to believe that there's is someone for everyone. If you haven't found them yet, it. Is because God's is still working on them before they can be presented to you. When the time is right it will happen. In the mean time, the wait is hard!"
____________________________________________________________________ I have become a widow after more than 20 years of marriage. We didn't have children, so I am single with no kids. Just like you I am in a learning process too. :- ) Once things change we have to adjust to a new situation and learn from an experience. I have learned that I am stronger than I thought. I can live on my own and do not need anyone to take care of me. Help is always appreciated, but I am not used to asking for it unless I previously tried everything I could do to make things work on my own. It may take me more time and effort to get things done that way, but it is rewarding to know that I could do it and DID IT. It doesn't make a difference if it is about fixing something or solving some issue. As the matter of fact, I was the one caring for others all my life. It wasnn't always easy, especially after my late husband's cancer surgery. Life has drastically changed and put me to a test. It was not the first time that I faced cancer in my family, but experience didn't make it any easier. Well, that's behind me now. I hope that at least s bit less turbulent time is ahead, but, again, it's beyond me. What is meant to be is meant to be. I am still in a learning process, but back on my feet and ready to move on. I like using both my hands and my "little gray cells". It took some of my friends a long time to accept that. I actually enjoy painting and light renovating on my own and really do not need any help, but it is nice to work together because one always learns something new. I also enjoy fixing things using my own tool. Some of my friends wanted to see it to believe it. Than they asked to borrow some tools! Well, that's something I learned not to do. It is the same as borrowing the books. Most people forget to return them, so one loses both a book and a friend. That is too bad. So, I'd rather buy a book or give it away than borrow it. Thanks God for books in .pdf and other formats! They are easy to share and there is no need to worry about getting them back. With tools it is completely different. I will bring them along and help with a project. This turned out to be a long post. LOL In conclusion: A whole life is a learning process and it ends with a last breath. Living alone was not easy in the beginning, but I am used to it now. I would rather be alone than with just about anyone. I have met many people who are together only because of a mortgage and kids and felt sorry for them. It is better to be alone than lonely next to the person you are living with. If a soul-mate is out there somewhere perhaps our paths shall cross. Meanwhile I will live, learn and laugh because life is a miracle ours to discover. |
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having bad times on past relationshp,thats y i decided to remain single..
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having bad times on past relationshp,thats y i decided to remain single.. In general terms it's encouraged for people to marry (whether single, divorced or widowed) and to aim to have children. You are too young to make such decision to remain single. |
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is there a reason why you are single..
Hmmm.. because I'm shy.. |
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The reason I'm single......it's easy......no one will ask me out.......
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Bowing at the waist and taking your hand.... Will you go out with me Pinky?...
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Yup there's a reason........just can't quite think of what it is right now.
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Reason I'm single? hmm I've never thought about this, I'd have to say it's because I'm really shy when it comes to talking to people in person and some women I've found don't want a guy who's nice.
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Bowing at the waist and taking your hand.... Will you go out with me Pinky?... Awwww zippy.... ....where do you want to go? |
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is there a reason why you are single.. Hmmm.. because I'm shy.. Shy?........you?.......seriously?...... |
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Simple I cant find the right man who treated me like a queen and I treated him like my king:-)
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