Topic: What really drove you to online dating?
pheemzy's photo
Wed 07/24/13 08:33 PM
Yup its definately true its the best way of meeting people u never thought of meetin in ur life

pheemzy's photo
Wed 07/24/13 08:41 PM
Its realy good to have friend but one need to bcareful in choosen dem

Jayeshc's photo
Thu 07/25/13 01:36 PM
I am sick of being lonely..Edinburgh is a nice place to live if you have good company.

Trophy80's photo
Sat 07/27/13 03:10 AM
I use my leisure time to search for the love of my life because i figured out lately that, I need to love again. I want to love and be loved. I want to settle down again. I have been lonely ever since i got divorce with my wife I want to spend the rest of my life with a good woman and that was why i join the online service

searchingsearching's photo
Sun 07/28/13 11:50 AM
Offline dating just isn't working.
Honestly neither is online, but I like the community here.
Good people:thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup:
Minus the pervs....
although, I haven't run into any lady pervs, but the ladies always get sideswiped by the male pervs.
So watch out o.0

Sethgg's photo
Sun 07/28/13 02:00 PM
I can relate.I have more or less the same reasons

Sethgg's photo
Sun 07/28/13 02:06 PM
Lol yea they aren't enough lady pervs

searchingsearching's photo
Sun 07/28/13 02:19 PM

Lol yea they aren't enough lady pervs




Lol, amen to that brotherlaugh

no photo
Mon 07/29/13 12:42 AM
I'm online and I think it's pretty sad. But I live in a neighborhood with gorgeous women who think the north side of Chicago is Beverly Hills. They don't even say hello back or good morning when you're just walking along being friendly. I guess they're on tall black man alert.

birdy95's photo
Mon 07/29/13 04:26 AM
I don't have any "possibles" in my life ... so I am hoping to find someone on here.. perhaps

no photo
Tue 07/30/13 12:56 AM
your welcomeflowerforyou

Derek's photo
Tue 07/30/13 08:29 AM
I have poor social skills. all I do is work and hang with the same ppl since high school. and if I see a new cute girl im so slow to act 3 other guys are already talkin to her. my self esteem isnt very high so I just figure I dont have a chance anyways. I kno online is gonna be fairly similar for me, lots of fails, but at least I cant see all the other guys going for the same girl. so im not as discouraged to say hi. but not many ever respond to hi either. maybe im just on here to pass the time when fb gets stale...

navygirl's photo
Tue 07/30/13 05:11 PM
Initially came here out of desperation. laugh Seriously; I thought if I came here that it would be easier to meet someone here as people are actually serious about relationships rather than someone I met offline. Boy was I wrong. shocked

SimplicityAtItsBest's photo
Tue 07/30/13 06:33 PM

I honestly don't care if I find anyone on here. I was mostly curious as to what kind of people I would find on this site and if I would find any fakers/scammers as I usually seem to find them easily on these sites. It's like they're drawn to me. They look at my picture and think "He might be desperate enough to do something stupid." Then I play with them for a while and piss them off and hopefully get them removed.

It's all part of my evil plan to not take over the world. hahaha



Same here. Sometimes I forget that it's even a dating site. Lol.
I have too much going on in the real world to worry about whether or not I 'meet' anyone on here.

It's nice to chat with cool people from time to time.


TimotP's photo
Tue 07/30/13 08:42 PM
Not all the guys are like that maybe the ones who are not like that just cant sell themselves or write such interesting profiles. I find woman are drawn to bad boys and run from the nice guys

Lpdon's photo
Tue 07/30/13 08:51 PM

I wanted to try it because every guy I was meeting out was basically looking for a **** buddy and that's not my style but so far all the guys that have tried to talk to me on here are about the same thing. It's hard finding a guy in my age group that doesn't have that mind set and actually has his life together. So I'm debating just deleting and just not talking to anyone because I feel insulted when guys think it's cool to behave like that.


Not all of us are dogs lol.

no photo
Tue 07/30/13 09:12 PM
Because Santa once again failed to deposit my dream man wrapped up under the tree, and this is Bakersfield, CA, I am stuck in, not Santa Monica! So the pickins is slim, very very slim. I am too wise to scope for dudes in the bars and clubs, Churches have mostly families, elderly and youngish married couples. Oh, and last but not least...the seemingly perfect match Bulgarian man I met via another previous date site, turned out to be unable to not freakout when he started getting deeper in Love not able to focus or think about anything else whenever I was near him, and he said because of that falling behind on his work trying to start his own business while being in a committed, serious relationship..."overwhelmed" him.

izzyphoto1977's photo
Tue 07/30/13 10:23 PM
Wow. Sounds kind of nuts if you ask me. Maybe he needs therapy too.

navygirl's photo
Wed 07/31/13 01:39 PM

Not all the guys are like that maybe the ones who are not like that just cant sell themselves or write such interesting profiles. I find woman are drawn to bad boys and run from the nice guys


Not drawn to bad boys; we just like normal men. These so called nice guys are whining moma's boys who are manipulative as hell.

EdwardCB's photo
Wed 07/31/13 05:33 PM

I wanted to try it because every guy I was meeting out was basically looking for a **** buddy and that's not my style but so far all the guys that have tried to talk to me on here are about the same thing. It's hard finding a guy in my age group that doesn't have that mind set and actually has his life together. So I'm debating just deleting and just not talking to anyone because I feel insulted when guys think it's cool to behave like that.

Hun we are all not like that. You will find mr right one day I'm sure but don't let bad Experiences ruin your chances. I have for so long and it got me no where. Gotta pick urself up and try and try again. :)