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Topic: SEX: Isn't over-rated?
rahool69 Joined Mon 07/01/13 Posts: 1	Mon 07/01/13 10:10 AM
men r hungry for sex as long as they dont get it but women r hungry for sex when they hav it once,, its a personal xperience

Shy_Emo_chick Joined Fri 04/01/11 Posts: 4393	Mon 07/01/13 10:17 AM
I think if some women just throw themselves at men, then no wonder those men disrespect them. I can also say the same for men who throw themselves at women. I think anyone can choose to wear what they want, but it can give off the wrong kind of message. Some will see what you wear as an open invitation to get into your bed. But as long as you're wearing what you're comfortable with, then okay. And I don't want an arguement :P ;)

whattheheywastaken Joined Wed 11/30/11 Posts: 1058	Mon 07/01/13 10:19 AM
Usually the ones who say sex is overrated are the ones not having sex. Yeah, sex is overrated.

sanjeev009 Joined Fri 01/18/08 Posts: 2115	Mon 07/01/13 10:21 AM
wow

KiK2me Joined Sun 01/06/13 Posts: 8732	Mon 07/01/13 10:29 AM
I like sex and if the lady i want to be with has no interest ...Than i am not interested in her ! lol JMHO... SEX is evil SEX is sin SINS are forgiven So SEX is in ! \\ ....\/.... MINGLE2 ROCKS THE PLANET ...Because of folks like YOU !

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Mon 07/01/13 11:00 AM
This thread is sketchy. Didn't like the initial responses? Was the dog pissing on the hydrant to spite the fire? Sex is relatively useless to me since I view it differently than most, I'm asexual for one; second part of it is that I view sex as a reproductive course of action, an action I'll take no part of in this world.

2KidsMom Joined Tue 09/30/08 Posts: 58206	Mon 07/01/13 11:41 AM
,,,,with u "ladies" and gents? .... aw, how sweet.

SperenzaSutton Joined Mon 05/27/13 Posts: 199	Mon 07/01/13 10:24 PM Edited by SperenzaSutton on Mon 07/01/13 10:25 PM
I'm female, I demand respect, and I also want a healthy sex life. Sometimes I'm even the one who gets the ball rolling in that direction, if you know what I mean. Double-standards are so last century. I'm open about what I want when I'm dating someone, and about what my boundaries are. In my experience, most men DO respect women who use that approach. Which brings us back to my original topic, What was it again? R the women who throw themselves on men contributing to the lack of respect men have for women now? Before we can address that question, I think you'll need to define what you mean by "throwing themselves on men". There are some who think a woman should never bring up or show interest in sex at all, and if they do, they're "throwing themselves" at a guy. I don't think that's what you mean but I would like to know what your definition actually is. "throwing themselves on men" As in, The women taking on the role as the sexual predator, and instead of containing herself in a ladylike fashion, She pursues him like she drank "Spanish fly".

SperenzaSutton Joined Mon 05/27/13 Posts: 199	Mon 07/01/13 10:30 PM
I think if some women just throw themselves at men, then no wonder those men disrespect them. I can also say the same for men who throw themselves at women. I think anyone can choose to wear what they want, but it can give off the wrong kind of message. Some will see what you wear as an open invitation to get into your bed. But as long as you're wearing what you're comfortable with, then okay. And I don't want an arguement :P ;) It's not what u wear. It's how u wear it. Wow! What year is this?

ViaMusica Joined Sat 03/09/13 Posts: 3341	Mon 07/01/13 10:46 PM
I'm female, I demand respect, and I also want a healthy sex life. Sometimes I'm even the one who gets the ball rolling in that direction, if you know what I mean. Double-standards are so last century. I'm open about what I want when I'm dating someone, and about what my boundaries are. In my experience, most men DO respect women who use that approach. Which brings us back to my original topic, What was it again? R the women who throw themselves on men contributing to the lack of respect men have for women now? Before we can address that question, I think you'll need to define what you mean by "throwing themselves on men". There are some who think a woman should never bring up or show interest in sex at all, and if they do, they're "throwing themselves" at a guy. I don't think that's what you mean but I would like to know what your definition actually is. "throwing themselves on men" As in, The women taking on the role as the sexual predator, and instead of containing herself in a ladylike fashion, She pursues him like she drank "Spanish fly". Okay, I'm still not clear on this, as I don't consider sex to necessarily be a "predatory" thing. If I meet a guy, start dating him, decide I want a sexual relationship with him and I take the lead in making that happen, I don't think that makes me a predator. Are you suggesting it does, or am I not reading you correctly here?

William8 Joined Tue 09/25/12 Posts: 224	Mon 07/01/13 10:57 PM
I think sex is overated. The first time I was like, is that what everyone is raving about? I think women make sex more difficult then it could be. Masturbation is actually more satisfying because a person can press their own buttons. Having sex you actually have to listen to the women because she is trying to give you instructions on hitting the right spot. Personally the only thing I ever enjoy is a blowjob, for want of a better word. It feels way better then normal sex and after my very first one, I could never really enjoy normal sex. Oral sex is not overated but some women can be weird about that. Proper sex is only good when you take very long breaks inbetween. Why wouldn't men thirst for sex? I just think that sex would be better if women thought like men. Sex would be better if women had better attitudes and were better at it.

lionsbrew Joined Tue 08/22/06 Posts: 14232	Mon 07/01/13 11:17 PM
Sex is another one of those things that is a matter of personal taste. Personally I enjoy it. As for thirsting for it. I dunno about that. Wanting to share my complete self with another is one way to look at it. While you can still bring up animalistic instinct both are valid and apply. At least they do for me and even then it depends on the people involved.

SperenzaSutton Joined Mon 05/27/13 Posts: 199	Mon 07/01/13 11:21 PM
I think sex is overated. The first time I was like, is that what everyone is raving about? I think women make sex more difficult then it could be. Masturbation is actually more satisfying because a person can press their own buttons. Having sex you actually have to listen to the women because she is trying to give you instructions on hitting the right spot. Personally the only thing I ever enjoy is a blowjob, for want of a better word. It feels way better then normal sex and after my very first one, I could never really enjoy normal sex. Oral sex is not overated but some women can be weird about that. Proper sex is only good when you take very long breaks inbetween. Why wouldn't men thirst for sex? I just think that sex would be better if women thought like men. Sex would be better if women had better attitudes and were better at it. Hmmmm Ever thought of trying it with a man? Seeing women clearly don't satisfy u?

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Mon 07/01/13 11:35 PM
Like a cat against the wall hissing and all pissed off clawing back at the air...

dec1dedlyme Joined Mon 07/01/13 Posts: 7	Mon 07/01/13 11:39 PM Edited by dec1dedlyme on Mon 07/01/13 11:43 PM
Deleted and replaced below.

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Mon 07/01/13 11:41 PM
Moi?

dec1dedlyme Joined Mon 07/01/13 Posts: 7	Mon 07/01/13 11:42 PM
Because life is tough. We need to blow off some steam from time to time. Sex is a temporary euphoria that lifts our spirits. Sorry - new here and still learning the system. The post above is what I was replying to earlier with this...... And you're ok with 'using' women to blow off a bit of steam? Don't you dare say 'women do it too'. Any real woman has a far higher regard for herself than that and can be honest about it. Be honest enough about what you're looking for to go and pay for it if all you need is a steam outlet - you'll probably get far better bang for your buck than taking a lady out for dinner...........

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Mon 07/01/13 11:44 PM
No problem...Easy gig here, shouldn't take too much to pick up. Welcome to the madness.

ViaMusica Joined Sat 03/09/13 Posts: 3341	Mon 07/01/13 11:46 PM Edited by ViaMusica on Mon 07/01/13 11:48 PM
Because life is tough. We need to blow off some steam from time to time. Sex is a temporary euphoria that lifts our spirits. Sorry - new here and still learning the system. The post above is what I was replying to earlier with this...... And you're ok with 'using' women to blow off a bit of steam? Don't you dare say 'women do it too'. Any real woman has a far higher regard for herself than that and can be honest about it. Be honest enough about what you're looking for to go and pay for it if all you need is a steam outlet - you'll probably get far better bang for your buck than taking a lady out for dinner........... I dunno about that. I'm a real woman, and sex is an outlet sometimes for me too; no "using" of anyone involved. No, I'm not into doing it with random strangers, but that doesn't mean I need a wedding or engagement ring on my finger first, either. (And even within a marriage, it's still sometimes a matter of capturing that moment of euphoria in the middle of a difficult day or week, etc.) If he and I both wind up happier, how is that "using" anyone? Real women often DO enjoy sex, you know.

dec1dedlyme Joined Mon 07/01/13 Posts: 7	Mon 07/01/13 11:53 PM
I know, ViaMusica - and I'm one of them. But, I want to meet men who are at least as interested in who I am as a person as they are in how far I'll go on a first date.