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Edited by
SperenzaSutton
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Tue 07/09/13 05:47 PM
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Sex is over-rated. Lust is passion.
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I so agree with you.It seems almost the acceptable norm nowadays,this attitude...I've noticed it too.
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Sex is over-rated. Lust is passion. If you're not getting any, it is over-rated! 
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Sex is over-rated. Lust is passion. Good sex is so not overrated. |
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Sex is over-rated. Lust is passion. Good sex is so not overrated. Ditto...........A relationship without good sex is just a friendship...or a companionship....well unless ya don't really enjoy sex then it is idea... |
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Sex is over-rated. Lust is passion. Good sex is so not overrated. Ditto...........A relationship without good sex is just a friendship...or a companionship....well unless ya don't really enjoy sex then it is idea... And a relationship with bad sex is going to have problems. |
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gawd...all this sex~ talk...
 
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gawd...all this sex~ talk...
Makes me want to experiment but my lover is not here.... 
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Sex is not over-rated it is very important, in the Right relationship. Many people are not seeking committment just lusting after temporary pleasures. Fortunately, there are some people out there. who are serious about a "committed" relationship.
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Sex is also part of...afection n love to express how much n hard u can....its passion ...not overated
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I still think its over-rated because after all its all every-one seems to be talking about and its as old as the hills. I mean even the birds are doing it. Been doing it.
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If sex is over-rated than humans are over-rated for without sex there would be no more humans. Sex is not only just fun(with the right partner of course) but necessary.
You can call me what you want for the following...pig, horndog, jackass, or whatever fits. But I'll be the first to admit that in a relationship I place sex very high, yes there are other factors as well, however if the girl I am with stops having sex with me I will definitely end the relationship(unless of course it was an actual medical condition(and no I don't count "low-sex drive or a "have a headache" as an actual medical condition). Not only will I end the relationship I will seek to find someone new who does want to have sex with me(and if it's my fault she stopped..i.e. gained 450lbs and she's repulsed by me....then I'll seek to fix that...but still try to find someone else to have sex with me). Sex is a primal need, just like breathing, we can't control who we are attracted too,(maybe influence, but never fully control), just like we can't control our breathing(influence yes....but you can't control completely..i.e hold your breath forever). We need sex to survive as a species....that is hard-coded into every one of us. To fight our natural bodies we will lose the fight...try holding your bladder indefinitely...you will ultimately lose and wet your pants...just like sex to try to control/deny our bodies need for sex can only last so long, before it has an impact on our bodies. This primal need is just that a need. Case in point..."celibate" priests...they deny themselves our hard-coded need to procreate(because that is what it's for). I'm not surprised than that they end up in trouble with what is available to them(little boys)...yes it is disgusting...but honestly if they would stop fighting that need allow themselves to marry and get that need through met through a wife i'm willing to stake my paycheck that there would be less instances of priests doing horrible things to little boys. That's my view. Sex isn't over-rated...the same way breathing isn't over-rated....it is necessary, and a need. And honestly let's face it what is a relationship anyway? it is all about filling our needs, a need for companionship, a need for a friend, a need for a lover, a need for a provider, a need to share...but all of those needs can be met by someone other than a SO....so honestly what is the one difference between and SO and a friend? it's the sex...if an SO stops the sex, they then become no more than a friend....and if they are no more than a friend...guess what...i'm going to find another SO to have sex with. |
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It's not just guys who want sex. If you're a woman who can't own up to wanting it as much as a guy does then you're delusional. Guys are just more open about it. Personally I think sex is under-rated, it's such an amazing thing to share with someone. I don't understand why people act like it's not a big deal, it's what makes a relationship.
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Edited by
KiK2me
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Fri 07/12/13 12:31 PM
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Man i'm pretty...
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I still think its over-rated because after all its all every-one seems to be talking about and its as old as the hills. I mean even the birds are doing it. Been doing it. Sometimes all we can do is talk about it. There has to be a willing accomplice to do more than talk. |
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Man i'm pretty...
oohhhh soo pretty! I think it's the furry tail in your profile pic that does it for me rwwwaaaarrrr! |
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It's not just guys who want sex. If you're a woman who can't own up to wanting it as much as a guy does then you're delusional. Guys are just more open about it. Personally I think sex is under-rated, it's such an amazing thing to share with someone. I don't understand why people act like it's not a big deal, it's what makes a relationship. So ur saying relationships should be based on sex or ARE based on sex? |
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Good sex is one thing that holds people together. It should not be the only thing, but it can be an important component of a relationship.
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Edited by
sweetestgirl11
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Sat 07/13/13 07:30 AM
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If sex is over-rated than humans are over-rated for without sex there would be no more humans. Sex is not only just fun(with the right partner of course) but necessary. You can call me what you want for the following...pig, horndog, jackass, or whatever fits. But I'll be the first to admit that in a relationship I place sex very high, yes there are other factors as well, however if the girl I am with stops having sex with me I will definitely end the relationship(unless of course it was an actual medical condition(and no I don't count "low-sex drive or a "have a headache" as an actual medical condition). Not only will I end the relationship I will seek to find someone new who does want to have sex with me(and if it's my fault she stopped..i.e. gained 450lbs and she's repulsed by me....then I'll seek to fix that...but still try to find someone else to have sex with me). Sex is a primal need, just like breathing, we can't control who we are attracted too,(maybe influence, but never fully control), just like we can't control our breathing(influence yes....but you can't control completely..i.e hold your breath forever). We need sex to survive as a species....that is hard-coded into every one of us. To fight our natural bodies we will lose the fight...try holding your bladder indefinitely...you will ultimately lose and wet your pants...just like sex to try to control/deny our bodies need for sex can only last so long, before it has an impact on our bodies. This primal need is just that a need. Case in point..."celibate" priests...they deny themselves our hard-coded need to procreate(because that is what it's for). I'm not surprised than that they end up in trouble with what is available to them(little boys)...yes it is disgusting...but honestly if they would stop fighting that need allow themselves to marry and get that need through met through a wife i'm willing to stake my paycheck that there would be less instances of priests doing horrible things to little boys. That's my view. Sex isn't over-rated...the same way breathing isn't over-rated....it is necessary, and a need. And honestly let's face it what is a relationship anyway? it is all about filling our needs, a need for companionship, a need for a friend, a need for a lover, a need for a provider, a need to share...but all of those needs can be met by someone other than a SO....so honestly what is the one difference between and SO and a friend? it's the sex...if an SO stops the sex, they then become no more than a friend....and if they are no more than a friend...guess what...i'm going to find another SO to have sex with. I imagine that if u gain 450 lbs we all might have some difficulty finding wee willie....even when he is standing tall and upright! 
you definitely deserve a partner who desires you, and is even passionate in that desire. we all do! |
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Edited by
sweetestgirl11
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Sat 07/13/13 07:31 AM
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It's not just guys who want sex. If you're a woman who can't own up to wanting it as much as a guy does then you're delusional. Guys are just more open about it. Personally I think sex is under-rated, it's such an amazing thing to share with someone. I don't understand why people act like it's not a big deal, it's what makes a relationship. exactly, great post....I think women may be a little pickier about wiht WHOM they bump uglies and guys may somehow interpret that as not being as desirous....totally wrong. When we find the right guy he will have problems keeping his fly up am I right?  We ARE that good at being soooo bad :)
but I agree, it's just a part of life, an important one. To me, sex equates intimacy. I can't enjoy one w/out the other. Maybe guys don't emphasize the intimacy side of the equation. They might get lucky more often if they did,,jhmo
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