Topic: How do you break this wall down?
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Sat 06/22/13 06:37 PM
Be Careful.

If it weas me and I had said that you where a great friend thats exactly what I would mean, I would feel really bad if someone who was my friend tried to hit on me.
I would probably laugh it off and act like i thought it was a joke . But it would make me uncomfortable..

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Sat 06/22/13 06:38 PM

I dunno dude, sounds like she has already made the call.


I agree

it also sounds like waaay too much drama (and they accuse US of being the drama queens lol)

seriously there could be a couple things going on

either she has been in some bad spots so has a hard time integrating "friend" into boyfriend and is afraid if she crosses that line with you she will lose you (go slow in this case)

or

she's just not that into u pardner

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Sat 06/22/13 06:40 PM
I guess Im going to have to be a pioneer in breaking through the vast open void 'friend wasteland' lol.

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Sat 06/22/13 06:40 PM
You don't ring her bell. You don't turn her one. She does not want to jump your bones. It's about sex and chemistry.

Find a girl that really wants you.


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Sat 06/22/13 06:41 PM

Be Careful.

If it weas me and I had said that you where a great friend thats exactly what I would mean, I would feel really bad if someone who was my friend tried to hit on me.
I would probably laugh it off and act like i thought it was a joke . But it would make me uncomfortable..
:thumbsup:

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Sat 06/22/13 06:42 PM
Edited by Journeyman236 on Sat 06/22/13 06:43 PM
I believe in putting all the cards on the table, life is too short to have to wonder what if I said this or did that!

*whispers..did you hear that?

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Sat 06/22/13 06:44 PM
Edited by sweetestgirl11 on Sat 06/22/13 06:45 PM

I guess Im going to have to be a pioneer in breaking through the vast open void 'friend wasteland' lol.


why do u want all the drama? why do u want someone who has already burned you once (or is playing drama games to keep your interest)? Why do you want someone who less than enthusiastic?

if it's because of the challenge? you are enableing her game playing

I agree w/ jeanne find a mature adult who is really into u

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Sat 06/22/13 06:45 PM

Be Careful.

If it weas me and I had said that you where a great friend thats exactly what I would mean, I would feel really bad if someone who was my friend tried to hit on me.
I would probably laugh it off and act like i thought it was a joke . But it would make me uncomfortable..


We used to be lovers but I screwed it up. We do have a very close relationship already. I think I need to build trust and wait for the right moment.

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Sat 06/22/13 06:46 PM


I guess Im going to have to be a pioneer in breaking through the vast open void 'friend wasteland' lol.


why so u want all the drama? why do u want someone who has already burned you once (or is playing drama games to keep your interest)? Why do you want someone who less than enthusiastic?

if it's because of the challenge? you are enableing her game playing

I agree w/ jeanne find a mature adult who is really into u


Yep let her know what a great friend she is and tellher how hard it is to find a woman who will treat you nice and love you for you, the nice bloke that you are.

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Sat 06/22/13 06:47 PM
Edited by teadipper on Sat 06/22/13 06:57 PM

I guess Im going to have to be a pioneer in breaking through the vast open void 'friend wasteland' lol.


Ask yourself why you want a chick who does NOT consider you to be the sexiest stud muffin in the universe? I think every guy should be with a woman who sees him that way. Someone who asks you to check the air in the tires just so she can see your firm apple like butt as you kneel down with the pressure gauge. Come on, don't you think you are worth that???

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Sat 06/22/13 06:48 PM


Be Careful.

If it weas me and I had said that you where a great friend thats exactly what I would mean, I would feel really bad if someone who was my friend tried to hit on me.
I would probably laugh it off and act like i thought it was a joke . But it would make me uncomfortable..


We used to be lovers but I screwed it up. We do have a very close relationship already. I think I need to build trust and wait for the right moment.


maybe it just wasn't meant to be....I'm not saying don't try .... but it is possible (keep in the back of your mind) that it was not meant to be

I give u credit for trying tho

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Sat 06/22/13 06:57 PM
Well this is the good one that got away so I have to try at least once.

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Sat 06/22/13 07:01 PM


I guess Im going to have to be a pioneer in breaking through the vast open void 'friend wasteland' lol.


Ask yourself why you want a chick who does NOT consider you to be the sexiest stud muffin in the universe? I think every guy should be with a woman who sees him that way. Someone who asks you to check the air in the tires just so she can see your firm apple like butt as you kneel down with the pressure gauge. Come on, don't you think you are worth that???

You have to be careful if someone idolizes you too much, you'll eventually let them down and they may turn out to be a very unstable person.

I have girls half my age want to go out with me, I don't want that I want to spenmy best friend to spend tou rest of

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Sat 06/22/13 07:02 PM


I guess Im going to have to be a pioneer in breaking through the vast open void 'friend wasteland' lol.


Ask yourself why you want a chick who does NOT consider you to be the sexiest stud muffin in the universe? I think every guy should be with a woman who sees him that way. Someone who asks you to check the air in the tires just so she can see your firm apple like butt as you kneel down with the pressure gauge. Come on, don't you think you are worth that???

You have to be careful if someone idolizes you too much, you'll eventually let them down and they may turn out to be a very unstable person.

I have girls half my age want to go out with me, I don't want that I want to spend my days with my best friend.

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Sat 06/22/13 07:03 PM

Well this is the good one that got away so I have to try at least once.


bless ur heart

I can think of a couple guys who I wish had the heart to get in touch and try again (daggone puzzies)

hope she realizes how speshal you are - most guys would just walk awayflowerforyou

good luck

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Sat 06/22/13 07:19 PM

I dunno dude, sounds like she has already made the call.


I'm not even going to read what people wrote, this quote is what I had in mine right away
and at a glance down the page I see another sort sweet one.

You can tell a woman but you can't tell her much..lol.no seriously if you were able to baffle her with
Bull Sh* it would be short lived your not her chose or preference.
don't ya know man! womam pick.
I herd you talkin about Vancouver island? I'm guessing your weren't raised there.
Peace out

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Sat 06/22/13 07:19 PM
Edited by ridewytepony on Sat 06/22/13 07:25 PM
And that is going to do just wonders for you self-esteem if you keep hanging out
so do yourself a big fav & loose her # for a few more years or 20 if thats what it takes you.
Very best

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Sat 06/22/13 07:21 PM


Well this is the good one that got away so I have to try at least once.


bless ur heart

I can think of a couple guys who I wish had the heart to get in touch and try again (daggone puzzies)

hope she realizes how speshal you are - most guys would just walk awayflowerforyou

good luck

Awe thanks that's encouraging. I've only been in contact with her a short time and we hit it off very well. I know I'm going to do something. Make it or break it. I'm just bouncing it off you guys to make sure I have a good perspective on things. I probably only have one shot so I want to make it a good one. Then if she doesn't accept I can move on. I don't think I can move on always wondering what if.

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Sat 06/22/13 07:25 PM
Why would anyone would to be with someone who mind fecked them that way? Dude, you need to think more highly of yourself and get a girl who thinks more highly of you.

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Sat 06/22/13 07:27 PM


I dunno dude, sounds like she has already made the call.


I'm not even going to read what people wrote, this quote is what I had in mine right away
and at a glance down the page I see another sort sweet one.

You can tell a woman but you can't tell her much..lol.no seriously if you were able to baffle her with
Bull Sh* it would be short lived your not her chose or preference.
don't ya know man! womam pick.
I herd you talkin about Vancouver island? I'm guessing your weren't raised there.
Peace out

Women don't always pick, some guys have lots of women to pick from and same the other way. Women love to be pursued, properly that is, even if she says no it still feels good to have the option. As long as its not creepy.

Why do you guess I wasn't raised on the island?