Hi everyone why is it that Men, NEED US LADYS TO MAKE THE FIRST MOVES to get the ball rolling. Any Advise will help thanks.

advice >>> make the first move...

Or don't make the first move.

Your move.

Or just skip the "moves" and resort to actual intellectually engaging conversation and see where it goes?

(Says the girl that hasn't had an intelligent adult conversation in over 2 years.)

I like to let the woman make the first move because I don't want her to feel uncomfortable with unwanted advances on my part.Oh and I love the tiger picture on tour profile very nice, my favorite animal by far.

Hi everyone above me. I didn't think that I would get some good Advise some think to think about today. thank you ladys an gentlemen.

You know, it really doesn't matter who makes the first move. If you're into him, then go for it. As my mum used to say "The worst he can do is say no". Providing you're not overly-sensitive, and that the "No" won't hurt you emotionally. It honestly shouldn't matter ;)

Mmm ok, as for myself, I have no idea if I'm attractive to the ladies. If you consider me good looking. I've hardly had any comments about my profile, good or bad. I've messaged a good many women, with no response. I haven't a clue as to why. I'm reasonably convinced that I'm not alone in this.
After a while, I've wondered if my messages are even glanced at.Or if they're even getting to where I've sent them to. So, I just don't bother. Why should I waste my time? Oh every so often, I'll try again. In the meantime, I do the forums.

Now, anytime a lady that has messaged me, I've answered. I think it's only polite to do so. And I'm very up front with anyone. If I like what I see in you profile I'll say so. Should I see a conflict in interests, or distance issues that make it not feesable, I'll say that too.

I've been told that women recieve more messages than is humanly possible to answer. I'll accept that, but what really is in the back of my mind is that some of you are just plain rude. If that's the case, then I wouldn't want to fool with you to begin with.

A friend of mine told me something I'll always remember-

What would you say to someone you don't like? Nothing.

What's wrong with making the "first move"?

If ya want it, tell him.

hmmm good points an lol I like your mum lol an nah i'm not overly-sensitive, but why should a male be the one to give out the "NO" WHEN THE LADYS ARE THE ONE'S WHO'S MADE THE FIRST MOVE. why is hard for some males to take point or grow up..

I don't make moves. I make friends. If something happens, much much later, from friends, then it happens. Moves makes me feel like a chess game.Friends everybody comes out a winner.

Cause it's sexy when she makes the move.

because men are always accused of being players - if he makes the first move you might think he is 'only out for one thing' and end the relationship. He needs a signal that you are wanting him to make a move. Some guys don't read signals very good , you may have to shout.

tHANK YOU FOR YOUR ADVISE IT'S good to no why some males need us to move first. thanks

hi i'm sorry that you came a cross a lot of rude ladys but please don't take it to heart you are a attractive man an straight to the point. for myself I am very weary who I chat too. an who I would like to get to no, because our hearts have been shattered one to many time's. IF YOUR HAPPY TO HAVE A FRIEND I AM HERE.
An thank you.

I'm not usually a first move person myself. If men are expecting me to make the move, that sure makes me feel a lot better about the low number of offers I get these days.

lazy

oops excuse me ladies
hehehe

lol KiK got no come back for that.lol