I havent noticed it, but it doesnt hurt for you to talk to anyone who you are interested in.

Not my style men hv always md d 1st move

well you dont have too make the first fisical move,if thats what you want,then hints,
little touches, or clear body language is most always going to prompt a guy, unless
he's "brain dead", gay, no interested or just so shy.

for me the need to get in her arms outweighs the rejection.

I tried this down on the Yukon River on june 21, 94
summer salsa the longest day of the year with two
woman my buddy & I just met.
Off to a great start as they wanted to go
and spend the longest day of the year on the river
with blankets wine and all the goodies.

I was used too working under the cover of the night
and that was our first night that far north and I didn't realize
it wasn't going to get dark, as my patience was running low ,
I eventually asked "when does it get dark here ayways"
they said this is as dark as it gets, thats not what I wanted to here.
so it was a"do or die" situation thinking I have to know, but playing it over
in my head as to how stupid its going to look as her friend & my friend are
all on the same blanket, plus I didn't drink thats year.
pressure! well I went in fast and low and she played defence.

WHAT WAS I THINKING! talk about a smooth operator.

I'd like a retake on that one, all that time to come up with that fine plan.

the point is, if you can do that under those circumstances, then regular situations are
a breeze.

The reason why I don't make the first moves is because I am scared of rejection.
Too many times I have been rejected. So. Now I am a bit gun shy.