Topic: Finding "sober" guys to date
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Fri 06/21/13 04:22 AM
confession......:)i m occational drinker...only business meet

ryemck's photo
Fri 06/21/13 04:34 AM
Alcohol is part of our culture, what's wrong with people drinking it? I can understand if you don't want an alcoholic but someone who has a few beers a week I can't.

Drugs obviously, everyone needs to stay away from them.

Smokers, well some people started to fit in (like me) and they regret it, should they be denied the possibility of the woman of their dreams because they got into the wrong crowd when they were younger?

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Fri 06/21/13 04:35 AM





What's wrong with smoking weed? I wouldn't think it would be a problem if they aren't indulging around you to make sure it doesn't irritate you...I mean, let's face it, that's grabbing straws there.


The problem is that we get pulled over in the car and they have it on them, somebody is going to jail. Sorry, it's STILL illegal.

And as far as a secular saint, who says? He can down load everything illegally in the universe, swear like a drunken sailor on shore leave, drive like an azzhole, etc, etc, Many things are tolerated that do not qualify for saintly.


In California? Right...Whenever someone throws the "Still illegal" I take it as a copout for generally not knowing much about the substance and how it is actually dealt with legally.

In California no one would go to jail, most that would happen is he would be ticketed...And that isn't even likely, saddest part about this is that I haven't lived in California since before they pushed through legislation and even I know the laws.
Just don't let the Feds get a hold of you!laugh


BS. You have not been caught. I have FRIENDS who have done JAIL TIME for getting caught with with weed.


Sure, years ago...But not anymore. I've been caught with weed in California and all the cop did was throw it down the gutter and tell me to be on my way. I was charged in Utah for possession, it amounted to a misdemeanor fine and some probation time, never went to jail...Was also caught with a sack in Illinois, again, the cop tossed it in the drain and told me to be on my way.

Don't BS me with this s*, I've been there, lived there, been in that position for more years of my life than I've lived legitimately. I know the ins and outs of the law with marijuana, so until you know the same knowledge I do, concede your position...Because there is no arguing this point with me, I simply know vastly more than you on the subject.

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Fri 06/21/13 04:38 AM






What's wrong with smoking weed? I wouldn't think it would be a problem if they aren't indulging around you to make sure it doesn't irritate you...I mean, let's face it, that's grabbing straws there.


The problem is that we get pulled over in the car and they have it on them, somebody is going to jail. Sorry, it's STILL illegal.

And as far as a secular saint, who says? He can down load everything illegally in the universe, swear like a drunken sailor on shore leave, drive like an azzhole, etc, etc, Many things are tolerated that do not qualify for saintly.


In California? Right...Whenever someone throws the "Still illegal" I take it as a copout for generally not knowing much about the substance and how it is actually dealt with legally.

In California no one would go to jail, most that would happen is he would be ticketed...And that isn't even likely, saddest part about this is that I haven't lived in California since before they pushed through legislation and even I know the laws.
Just don't let the Feds get a hold of you!laugh


BS. You have not been caught. I have FRIENDS who have done JAIL TIME for getting caught with with weed.


Sure, years ago...But not anymore. I've been caught with weed in California and all the cop did was throw it down the gutter and tell me to be on my way. I was charged in Utah for possession, it amounted to a misdemeanor fine and some probation time, never went to jail...Was also caught with a sack in Illinois, again, the cop tossed it in the drain and told me to be on my way.

Don't BS me with this s*, I've been there, lived there, been in that position for more years of my life than I've lived legitimately. I know the ins and outs of the law with marijuana, so until you know the same knowledge I do, concede your position...Because there is no arguing this point with me, I simply know vastly more than you on the subject.


That's all they do here, take it away from us and throw it down a drain lol (England)

yellowrose10's photo
Fri 06/21/13 04:39 AM
could be worse. I seem to attract guys with rap sheets. Thinking of going to the local jail this weekend to window shop laugh

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Fri 06/21/13 05:53 AM
Edited by lionsbrew on Fri 06/21/13 05:54 AM
How do you find someone with the qualities you described?

Simple answer:
Well I wold say just to continue to make yourself clear on what you want out of a relationship and a partner.

Long winded explanation:
There really isn't any real other way when you think about it. There is no special place to go except maybe moving to one of those unspeakable "Dry" towns and even they have their speak easy's for those who are in the know. In the end it comes down to being yourself and getting what you want or being yourself lowering your standards and settling.

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Fri 06/21/13 06:32 AM



I don't drink, smoke, use those popular prescription drugs. No caffeine either since it is a drug. All that stuff costs money. Ice Cream is the way to go.


do they make beer flavored ice cream?drool


waving

IDK, but a friend of mine loves Guiness floats!!!


drool I want details!!

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Fri 06/21/13 06:38 AM

could be worse. I seem to attract guys with rap sheets. Thinking of going to the local jail this weekend to window shop laugh


rofl rofl

do you also sing "how much is that doggy in the window" ???

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Fri 06/21/13 06:54 AM






What's wrong with smoking weed? I wouldn't think it would be a problem if they aren't indulging around you to make sure it doesn't irritate you...I mean, let's face it, that's grabbing straws there.


The problem is that we get pulled over in the car and they have it on them, somebody is going to jail. Sorry, it's STILL illegal.

And as far as a secular saint, who says? He can down load everything illegally in the universe, swear like a drunken sailor on shore leave, drive like an azzhole, etc, etc, Many things are tolerated that do not qualify for saintly.


In California? Right...Whenever someone throws the "Still illegal" I take it as a copout for generally not knowing much about the substance and how it is actually dealt with legally.

In California no one would go to jail, most that would happen is he would be ticketed...And that isn't even likely, saddest part about this is that I haven't lived in California since before they pushed through legislation and even I know the laws.
Just don't let the Feds get a hold of you!laugh


BS. You have not been caught. I have FRIENDS who have done JAIL TIME for getting caught with with weed.


Sure, years ago...But not anymore. I've been caught with weed in California and all the cop did was throw it down the gutter and tell me to be on my way. I was charged in Utah for possession, it amounted to a misdemeanor fine and some probation time, never went to jail...Was also caught with a sack in Illinois, again, the cop tossed it in the drain and told me to be on my way.

Don't BS me with this s*, I've been there, lived there, been in that position for more years of my life than I've lived legitimately. I know the ins and outs of the law with marijuana, so until you know the same knowledge I do, concede your position...Because there is no arguing this point with me, I simply know vastly more than you on the subject.



geeezy

I wouldn't be so worried about the weed but cripes fear, you must be a lousy driver. should we all chip in and get you a cabbie of your very own?

I mean how does someone get pulled over that often and in so many places???????

If I didn't know any better I'd think you were kerouac

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Fri 06/21/13 07:01 AM
Edited by Conrad_73 on Fri 06/21/13 07:05 AM






What's wrong with smoking weed? I wouldn't think it would be a problem if they aren't indulging around you to make sure it doesn't irritate you...I mean, let's face it, that's grabbing straws there.


The problem is that we get pulled over in the car and they have it on them, somebody is going to jail. Sorry, it's STILL illegal.

And as far as a secular saint, who says? He can down load everything illegally in the universe, swear like a drunken sailor on shore leave, drive like an azzhole, etc, etc, Many things are tolerated that do not qualify for saintly.


In California? Right...Whenever someone throws the "Still illegal" I take it as a copout for generally not knowing much about the substance and how it is actually dealt with legally.

In California no one would go to jail, most that would happen is he would be ticketed...And that isn't even likely, saddest part about this is that I haven't lived in California since before they pushed through legislation and even I know the laws.
Just don't let the Feds get a hold of you!laugh


BS. You have not been caught. I have FRIENDS who have done JAIL TIME for getting caught with with weed.


Sure, years ago...But not anymore. I've been caught with weed in California and all the cop did was throw it down the gutter and tell me to be on my way. I was charged in Utah for possession, it amounted to a misdemeanor fine and some probation time, never went to jail...Was also caught with a sack in Illinois, again, the cop tossed it in the drain and told me to be on my way.

Don't BS me with this s*, I've been there, lived there, been in that position for more years of my life than I've lived legitimately. I know the ins and outs of the law with marijuana, so until you know the same knowledge I do, concede your position...Because there is no arguing this point with me, I simply know vastly more than you on the subject.
Just walk into a Federal Building and light up!
Ought to get you some attention!laugh

Conrad_73's photo
Fri 06/21/13 07:03 AM

Alcohol is part of our culture, what's wrong with people drinking it? I can understand if you don't want an alcoholic but someone who has a few beers a week I can't.

Drugs obviously, everyone needs to stay away from them.

Smokers, well some people started to fit in (like me) and they regret it, should they be denied the possibility of the woman of their dreams because they got into the wrong crowd when they were younger?
always depends how many a 'FEW' Beers are!laugh

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Fri 06/21/13 07:04 AM







What's wrong with smoking weed? I wouldn't think it would be a problem if they aren't indulging around you to make sure it doesn't irritate you...I mean, let's face it, that's grabbing straws there.


The problem is that we get pulled over in the car and they have it on them, somebody is going to jail. Sorry, it's STILL illegal.

And as far as a secular saint, who says? He can down load everything illegally in the universe, swear like a drunken sailor on shore leave, drive like an azzhole, etc, etc, Many things are tolerated that do not qualify for saintly.


In California? Right...Whenever someone throws the "Still illegal" I take it as a copout for generally not knowing much about the substance and how it is actually dealt with legally.

In California no one would go to jail, most that would happen is he would be ticketed...And that isn't even likely, saddest part about this is that I haven't lived in California since before they pushed through legislation and even I know the laws.
Just don't let the Feds get a hold of you!laugh


BS. You have not been caught. I have FRIENDS who have done JAIL TIME for getting caught with with weed.


Sure, years ago...But not anymore. I've been caught with weed in California and all the cop did was throw it down the gutter and tell me to be on my way. I was charged in Utah for possession, it amounted to a misdemeanor fine and some probation time, never went to jail...Was also caught with a sack in Illinois, again, the cop tossed it in the drain and told me to be on my way.

Don't BS me with this s*, I've been there, lived there, been in that position for more years of my life than I've lived legitimately. I know the ins and outs of the law with marijuana, so until you know the same knowledge I do, concede your position...Because there is no arguing this point with me, I simply know vastly more than you on the subject.



geeezy

I wouldn't be so worried about the weed but cripes fear, you must be a lousy driver. should we all chip in and get you a cabbie of your very own?

I mean how does someone get pulled over that often and in so many places???????

If I didn't know any better I'd think you were kerouac


I love it when a chick references Kerouac

metalwing's photo
Fri 06/21/13 07:12 AM

could be worse. I seem to attract guys with rap sheets. Thinking of going to the local jail this weekend to window shop laugh


You attract me!!love

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Fri 06/21/13 07:16 AM

Alcohol is part of our culture, what's wrong with people drinking it? I can understand if you don't want an alcoholic but someone who has a few beers a week I can't.

Drugs obviously, everyone needs to stay away from them.

Smokers, well some people started to fit in (like me) and they regret it, should they be denied the possibility of the woman of their dreams because they got into the wrong crowd when they were younger?
alcohol IS a drug, just like the drugs you say everybody should stay away from. the only difference is that it is legal.
don't blame the "wrong crowd" for your bad habits. if you want to "fit in" now, you should quit smoking. JMHO

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Fri 06/21/13 08:25 AM







What's wrong with smoking weed? I wouldn't think it would be a problem if they aren't indulging around you to make sure it doesn't irritate you...I mean, let's face it, that's grabbing straws there.


The problem is that we get pulled over in the car and they have it on them, somebody is going to jail. Sorry, it's STILL illegal.

And as far as a secular saint, who says? He can down load everything illegally in the universe, swear like a drunken sailor on shore leave, drive like an azzhole, etc, etc, Many things are tolerated that do not qualify for saintly.


In California? Right...Whenever someone throws the "Still illegal" I take it as a copout for generally not knowing much about the substance and how it is actually dealt with legally.

In California no one would go to jail, most that would happen is he would be ticketed...And that isn't even likely, saddest part about this is that I haven't lived in California since before they pushed through legislation and even I know the laws.
Just don't let the Feds get a hold of you!laugh


BS. You have not been caught. I have FRIENDS who have done JAIL TIME for getting caught with with weed.


Sure, years ago...But not anymore. I've been caught with weed in California and all the cop did was throw it down the gutter and tell me to be on my way. I was charged in Utah for possession, it amounted to a misdemeanor fine and some probation time, never went to jail...Was also caught with a sack in Illinois, again, the cop tossed it in the drain and told me to be on my way.

Don't BS me with this s*, I've been there, lived there, been in that position for more years of my life than I've lived legitimately. I know the ins and outs of the law with marijuana, so until you know the same knowledge I do, concede your position...Because there is no arguing this point with me, I simply know vastly more than you on the subject.



geeezy

I wouldn't be so worried about the weed but cripes fear, you must be a lousy driver. should we all chip in and get you a cabbie of your very own?

I mean how does someone get pulled over that often and in so many places???????

If I didn't know any better I'd think you were kerouac


I did "Things," such "Things" are not spoken of often anymore since I do not do them these days and experience has shown that most people receive the news quite poorly, regardless of past-tense.

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Fri 06/21/13 08:42 AM


Alcohol is part of our culture, what's wrong with people drinking it? I can understand if you don't want an alcoholic but someone who has a few beers a week I can't.

Drugs obviously, everyone needs to stay away from them.

Smokers, well some people started to fit in (like me) and they regret it, should they be denied the possibility of the woman of their dreams because they got into the wrong crowd when they were younger?
alcohol IS a drug, just like the drugs you say everybody should stay away from. the only difference is that it is legal.
don't blame the "wrong crowd" for your bad habits. if you want to "fit in" now, you should quit smoking. JMHO
Heck,now I need to kick the Coffee-Habit too!laugh

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Fri 06/21/13 09:13 AM
TO MY OWN THOUGH, A YOUNG GUY LIKE ME THAT HAS ALL THE POTENTIALS TO BE WITH LADIES OF SUCH ..SHOULD GO AHEAD AND DESIRE ME FOR SOME MORE COS I DISLIKE SUCH BEEN TALKED ABOUT IN HERE ..I LIVE A LIFE OF GOOD EXAMPLE TO THE SOCIETY ....LETS TULL AND SEE HOW WE BOTH CAN WORK IT OUT AND MINGLE TOGETHER ONCE AGAIN....

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Fri 06/21/13 09:48 AM



Alcohol is part of our culture, what's wrong with people drinking it? I can understand if you don't want an alcoholic but someone who has a few beers a week I can't.

Drugs obviously, everyone needs to stay away from them.

Smokers, well some people started to fit in (like me) and they regret it, should they be denied the possibility of the woman of their dreams because they got into the wrong crowd when they were younger?
alcohol IS a drug, just like the drugs you say everybody should stay away from. the only difference is that it is legal.
don't blame the "wrong crowd" for your bad habits. if you want to "fit in" now, you should quit smoking. JMHO
Heck,now I need to kick the Coffee-Habit too!laugh
oh I guess a little coffee is ok :tongue:

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Fri 06/21/13 09:52 AM

I am not a 12 stepper but I do not drink, smoke, or do drugs. I am not a good drinker, I have diminished lung capacity and can't breathe around smoke, and I never did do drugs.

I have the WORST time finding guys to date or even be friends with for that matter that do not drink, smoke or do drugs.

Any suggestions?? And please don't say church.


Stop dating

Next question

yellowrose10's photo
Fri 06/21/13 10:01 AM
Sweetest...think that would help? Music charms the savage beast ya know lol