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 I get it. You want to date a grownup.  ;) exactly |
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Work hard, make money, buy a nice car then if the ones that turned you down before come round that said you weren't good anoth, then you can turn round to them and say the same back to them if they try! With love of corse No need to be rude even if they where!! x ? What |
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Struggling is tough, everyone agrees that they don't want to be struggling at 50, but when you are and you have worked as hard as anyone else you shouldn't be penalized for your situation and be denied love.
If someone ties love to money, they don't realy have a concept of love. You, I anyone can loose it at the drop of the hat. Does this mean you would leave me because it was all of a sudden gone? |
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back in the day it was simple.. love came first.. questions of where you worked or how much you earned weren't that important.. these days where you work, how much you have and what car you drive can score you a date..Ab4D..APPLY B4 DATE. lol why why why??? Welcome to reality. There are greedy soabs out there. Don't give a damn thing to any of them. I don't care what they promise you in return. You tell them to go and get a job and work hard. 
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Edited by
Toodygirl5
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Mon 06/10/13 09:22 AM
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back in the day it was simple.. love came first.. questions of where you worked or how much you earned weren't that important.. these days where you work, how much you have and what car you drive can score you a date..Ab4D..APPLY B4 DATE. lol why why why??? It was the same for me, when I was Younger. I want to know all of that, where he works, what is his job etc etc... of course I look for more than just dates..I am seeking LTR and this information is important. |
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Edited by
Rawrr_Girl
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Mon 06/10/13 10:09 AM
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Edited by
Rawrr_Girl
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Mon 06/10/13 10:07 AM
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Money has never brought me and men together, mind connection has. If he doesn't have a job, but is trying hard, that's good enough for ME. How can I not admire a hard worker? At the end of the day, how me and him get along will far outweigh any amount of money we have. I'd rather have a big heart, than a big bank account. If he ended up getting ill, again, no big deal, because I'd be with him and support him through his illness till death. I'm in it for the long haul, whenever I have a new boyfriend. What if you meet the most friendliest, warmest, sweetest person? Would you still let him go all because he doesn't earn a lot of money? I just couldn't let a true sweetheart pass me by.
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Money has never brought me and men together, mind connection has. If he doesn't have a job, but is trying hard, that's good enough for ME. How can I not admire a hard worker? At the end of the day, how me and him get along will far outweigh any amount of money we have. I'd rather have a big heart, than a big bank account. If he ended up getting ill, again, no big deal, because I'd be with him and support him through his illness till death. I'm in it for the long haul, whenever I have a new boyfriend. What if you meet the most friendliest, warmest, sweetest person? Would you still let him go all because he doesn't earn a lot of money? I just couldn't let a true sweetheart pass me by. You are a wonderful woman my sweet friend! A man will be honored by your love. |
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back in the day it was simple.. love came first.. questions of where you worked or how much you earned weren't that important.. these days where you work, how much you have and what car you drive can score you a date..Ab4D..APPLY B4 DATE. lol why why why??? I believe some women are groomed/circumstance to think that money is KEY! This day and age the world Promotes it heavily. How do you win her affection???? Especial on any holiday Christmas, Valentines day ...Kay Jewelers and every other commercial hows~a~what~it is telling men that's what women want( brainwashing)! Yah it's nice but Not real! Not real love to me. I found it easier to learn about the person...never ask question like what do you do,what kind of car do you drive esssh and so on... because it's placing material value on someone...if he chooses to say what he does fine if not cool too time & trust needs to be built&vise versa! I think it's simple today...just finding the right person that values you and life more than material things can make it difficult! We live in a fast food mentality world...The gimme gimme girl is who you have to avoid! Women have to be cautious about men too in the same regard! |
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back in the day it was simple.. love came first.. questions of where you worked or how much you earned weren't that important.. these days where you work, how much you have and what car you drive can score you a date..Ab4D..APPLY B4 DATE. lol why why why??? I believe some women are groomed/circumstance to think that money is KEY! This day and age the world Promotes it heavily. How do you win her affection???? Especial on any holiday Christmas, Valentines day ...Kay Jewelers and every other commercial hows~a~what~it is telling men that's what women want( brainwashing)! Yah it's nice but Not real! Not real love to me. I found it easier to learn about the person...never ask question like what do you do,what kind of car do you drive esssh and so on... because it's placing material value on someone...if he chooses to say what he does fine if not cool too time & trust needs to be built&vise versa! I think it's simple today...just finding the right person that values you and life more than material things can make it difficult! We live in a fast food mentality world...The gimme gimme girl is who you have to avoid! Women have to be cautious about men too in the same regard! Another great response! |
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I think men who are financially savey are super hot...but Dave Ramsey is already taken.
Seriously, someone who is smart with what they do have is more impressive to me than one who has more money than sense. |
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I will try this again.
If Thomas, my live in, lost his job, and was trying without luck..key word is TRYING, I am ok with that! I will carry the load... but (true story) Thomas and I live together in a nice house sharing the bills, then his daughters college loan doesn't go through, he has always paid her rent, but has to now pay her school. Fine.. we move into a smaller place.. I pay the rent/deposit. I pay the rent, food, gas, misc stuff.. so his daughter can continue her education. NOW... if Thomas can go to the movies, sit at the bar, drop $100 on dinner, not pay the storage, tell me to budget my money better... Should I still stay and love this man? |
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Edited by
KiK2me
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Mon 06/10/13 10:46 AM
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is money taking over love?? Pfffft ! Money rules the world so why not... lol
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Edited by
Momoiro_Usagi_7
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Mon 06/10/13 10:47 AM
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is money taking over love?? Pfffft ! Money rules the world so why not... lol That's a hawt mess 
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Sorry, with all my bad experiences in relationships.. I decided to break the circle.
If you ask me for $5.00 on our first date..your *** is gone. If you live with mom and dad for the past 43 years... see ya If you can't hold a job, because you are too lazy.. don't call me If you want to do nothing but sit on the couch.... good-bye If you start taking advantage of me, emotionally and financially.. I am moving on. You don't have to be a millionaire. Just make me laugh.. and have some goals, a good working ethic, and be supportive. |
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Money has never brought me and men together, mind connection has. If he doesn't have a job, but is trying hard, that's good enough for ME. How can I not admire a hard worker? At the end of the day, how me and him get along will far outweigh any amount of money we have. I'd rather have a big heart, than a big bank account. If he ended up getting ill, again, no big deal, because I'd be with him and support him through his illness till death. I'm in it for the long haul, whenever I have a new boyfriend. What if you meet the most friendliest, warmest, sweetest person? Would you still let him go all because he doesn't earn a lot of money? I just couldn't let a true sweetheart pass me by. WOW! your partner is lucky to have you. |
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Sorry, with all my bad experiences in relationships.. I decided to break the circle. If you ask me for $5.00 on our first date..your *** is gone. If you live with mom and dad for the past 43 years... see ya If you can't hold a job, because you are too lazy.. don't call me If you want to do nothing but sit on the couch.... good-bye If you start taking advantage of me, emotionally and financially.. I am moving on. You don't have to be a millionaire. Just make me laugh.. and have some goals, a good working ethic, and be supportive. So with that... done with losers! |
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Money has never brought me and men together, mind connection has. If he doesn't have a job, but is trying hard, that's good enough for ME. How can I not admire a hard worker? At the end of the day, how me and him get along will far outweigh any amount of money we have. I'd rather have a big heart, than a big bank account. If he ended up getting ill, again, no big deal, because I'd be with him and support him through his illness till death. I'm in it for the long haul, whenever I have a new boyfriend. What if you meet the most friendliest, warmest, sweetest person? Would you still let him go all because he doesn't earn a lot of money? I just couldn't let a true sweetheart pass me by. WOW! your partner is lucky to have you. |
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Sorry, with all my bad experiences in relationships.. I decided to break the circle. If you ask me for $5.00 on our first date..your *** is gone. If you live with mom and dad for the past 43 years... see ya If you can't hold a job, because you are too lazy.. don't call me If you want to do nothing but sit on the couch.... good-bye If you start taking advantage of me, emotionally and financially.. I am moving on. You don't have to be a millionaire. Just make me laugh.. and have some goals, a good working ethic, and be supportive. hehehe i was certainly not referring to you MS... Just giving my opinion on the question  Peace !  |
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