so,, ladies turn,,,,

is it important a guy have some intelligence,or are you happy with strict eye candy?


I personally think attractiveness can be constantly worked on , created, improved upon,,, but a box of rocks is a box of rocks

so Im choosing the brains,,,,,


what say you?

Brains of course if up can get both more power to yah!

I want to be physically attracted to my guy, but I find I become more and more physically attracted to the man who captures my heart and mind.

If all he's captured is my eye...he ain't got a chance.

It is absolutely important for a guy to be intelligent. Looks are nice, but there has to be something behind those looks. I can't do dumb.

kinda seems pointless to ask about being dumb and ugly...

Hey! The man you just insulted is someone's witty prince. Don't knock him just because he doesn't share your interests, and could use a shave.

Geesh Moe, you can be such a snob!

if the guy is smart he will become your eye candy most smart men do work out and try to please there women

I have had both kinds. I think I would keep the eye candy because I do not like Unattractive men for LTR.

I have been with some good-looking guys in my time, dumb as posts.
All I did was roll my eyes.
So..one-note.
I like a symphony :-)

So i sent myself an email....
...Found out i had myself BLOCKED



{things that Steven Wright might say}



Is THAT a cellphone or are you trying to MACE me ?

A lady told me i was good looking the other day...
...So i took off her glasses and stepped on them

Another one said i was handsome...
...I politely answered "I'm standing BEHIND you"

The last lady MUST have been blind because when she told me i was poignant i had to admit...That's my dog licking your ear ?

MAN I'M PRETTY !

Thank you for your space !

KiK
..#
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I guess not, but thats still pretty funny, I'm sure you'd strangle him in under
a day

Brains, and personality

I think thin, muscly men, get a bit of a bad rap at times, as some women automatically think they'll be abusive. I may not go for eye candy, but if I happen to meet a guy that is, then it's basically a bonus for me. I mainly ask he have a warm personality. I think there's the men who look after themselves, and one's who go overboard with the gym. Anywho, they could be a great person. So I try to overlook the theories spouted by society.

If you human females would choose Melmacian males, then you would end up with both intelligence and eye-candy. For example . . .

Really! Now why does society think that about thin muscular men ? Because were high strung & hyper?
Or thought of as druggies ?

I don't have a clue *shrug*. When I used to be a member of other dating sites, I would see conversations in the forums about how women were fed up of being contacted by men showing their abs. I think they want to at least see the face, too. I couldn't just suddenly see a guy with a six-pack, and think "Ooooooh, I bet he's on drugs". You could also say that fat guys get accused of being lazy.


And I'm thin and frail

intelligence or some other innate talent is interesting, it has to be there. Even if it's his social intelligence that is strong. I can appreciate that too. I do not suffer a man who raises his voice or tries to order me around. so other personality traits like decency and honesty, and being soft soken are as important as intellectual talents

cute is good... I can go for cute

I don;t care if he's hyper or high strung as long as he doesn;t get nasty with it

This sounds like a trick to trap us because you are really shape-shifting brain-eating zombies or something