what if your planning to marry a love of your life but your parents disagree... They hate so much the guy/girl for you... They told you if you continue your plan they will not accept you as there child anymore..!!
what will you gonna do?

My parents wouldn't do that.

You put all of them in a cage match to fight to the death & whoever comes out alive wins! No, seriously... I would find out what their issue was with her & make everyone explain themselves. I would want my family to understand how I felt about this person & would want her to know why they had a problem with her. If you put it all out there & communicate issues & differences, problems get solved much quicker!

I don't have any parents so I won't have this problem.

Aw man, that sucks... Put your friends in that place then. I've had good friends of mine dislike a girlfriend before.

I'd say "Oh to hell with this. The lot of you", and then I'd walk out and drive off. Actually, I'd ask the parent's why, then I'd tell them I am the only one out of them who knows him more, and that despite them not liking something about him, I'm not a child anymore, and I'm grown up. Therefore, it's my choice. They do not get a choice in who I be with ;)

I would tell my parents thank you for their concern but that I'm in control of my life and willing to accept all consequences from my choices.

My parents would never disown me, nor have I ever dated someone they hated. So, this is not a situation I'm worried about.

If my parents ever pulled s* like that they wouldn't have to worry about disowning me because I'd disown them.

absolutely. I have never tried to choose my son's friends (much less their girl friends). Through the years they've had a couple friends I've kept a close eye on tho...lol lol

seriously though - my way of staying out of those choices has kept us friends and that's the most important thing to me. I am lucky that the boys have always made good choices. of course they had a lot of expereince making the choices & completing the sorting process on their own...as it should be IMO!

good going RAWR. good answer!

I don't get how I could not also love someone my own child loves...just not a planet I'm on....

I agree with this ^^^^

That is a tough one.

Marriage has a 50-50 chance of success and many end in divorce.

Family is forever.

Why have I had all these similar experiences! Maybee I had certain girlfriends,just to piss then off.
I lost a relationship with my only living grandparent at the time ,over one no good baby momma
I didn't even no she died to 7 years after, never talked to the parents about her since the day she pissed me off.
My parents hated the fact a got back with my wife. I said you have to except her, or exept that she's
with me, you dont have to like her but you bo have to exept her.

my parents wouldnt do that either,,,not accept me

although they may still disapprove of my decisions


with regard to marrying though, I am fairly close to my parents and trusting of their desires for me to have the best so their opinion would count pretty heavily and I would lean towards someone that they could have a mutually loving/respectful relationship with

nice ... I like your thought .. Your a good thinker and advicer

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Which one, the Cage Match or the talking?