Topic: SEX WITH OR WITHOUT LOVE
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Sun 05/26/13 01:26 PM

WHETHER HOMO OR HETERO I FIND MOST OF THE PEOPLE NOWADAYS ARE FINDING TO GET MAXIMUM ENJOYMENT WITH HAVING SEX WITHOUT LOVING ANY ONE AND THEY ARE LEFT UNSATISFIED FOR LIFE TIME AND WASTE THEIR VALUABLE TIME BY JUST HAVING SEX ONCE OR TWICE WITH ONE PERSON AND LEAVE HIM AND NEXT HUNT FOR ANOTHER. THEY DON'T KNOW THAT THEY CAN'T ENJOY AND SATISFY WITH SEX WITH ANY ONE BECAUSE DEEP LOVE IS THE ESSENTIAL FACTOR FOR SATISFACTION WHILE HAVING SEX WHICH IS THEIR MISSING FACTOR IN THEM. THE JUST SAY WORDS LIKE 'I LOVE U', OR I MISS U ETC. WITHOUY LITERALLY MEANING IT TO JUST EXCITE THEMSELVES. THAT IS THE WORST FACTOR ESPECIALLY IN HOMOSEX


Wow, what a way to make a first post.

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Mon 05/27/13 05:15 AM
With out love

Vinay_rao07's photo
Mon 05/27/13 05:33 AM
Absolutely ...... Bang on target !!! Very true what you said

Jorgearturo's photo
Mon 05/27/13 06:38 AM
Well everytime you have sex is because you love that person in some degree not as much as you want to but it takes love to get into bed with someone ,now trying to define love thats another whole post

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Mon 05/27/13 07:17 AM
Apparently sex most go along wit love cos only dat can give u pleasure but in some real sense of it avin sex can bring about u avin a passion dat can transform to love.

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Mon 05/27/13 07:17 AM




WHETHER HOMO OR HETERO I FIND MOST OF THE PEOPLE NOWADAYS ARE FINDING TO GET MAXIMUM ENJOYMENT WITH HAVING SEX WITHOUT LOVING ANY ONE AND THEY ARE LEFT UNSATISFIED FOR LIFE TIME AND WASTE THEIR VALUABLE TIME BY JUST HAVING SEX ONCE OR TWICE WITH ONE PERSON AND LEAVE HIM AND NEXT HUNT FOR ANOTHER. THEY DON'T KNOW THAT THEY CAN'T ENJOY AND SATISFY WITH SEX WITH ANY ONE BECAUSE DEEP LOVE IS THE ESSENTIAL FACTOR FOR SATISFACTION WHILE HAVING SEX WHICH IS THEIR MISSING FACTOR IN THEM. THE JUST SAY WORDS LIKE 'I LOVE U', OR I MISS U ETC. WITHOUY LITERALLY MEANING IT TO JUST EXCITE THEMSELVES. THAT IS THE WORST FACTOR ESPECIALLY IN HOMOSEX

Well that's your opinion. And you know what they say about people's opinions....

Obviously, the idea is to couple love and sex together, unless you wanna look like a man whore.


Lots of people have sex without love. Does that make them all man whores?


Yes, but I cannot. I have to know I would have feelings for my partner, and would want marriage...so call me old-fashioned in that.


I agree it does in fact make them man/woman whores when there is a stream of partners where no emotion is involved - that's definitive

but to make sure that no one is victimized in this it is very important for the players to be honest....and many are not

I think also sometimes good people who are not necessarily players do become sexually involved before they actually fall in love, but it's important to be careful abut this kind of thing if you want to avoid being labled a player or a whore or w/e. that type of label on a man means many decent women will not give him a chance.

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Mon 05/27/13 07:24 AM

If EVERY date (or majority of em) ends with two naked bodies in a bed, then you're obviously a sex addict. Man whore, whatever you wanna call em.


AND (I'm not yelling) lol......there had probably been some victimization via dishonesty as well

not many are going to find that many willing one night stands without lies to lure their date into bed

in my opinion at that point you have a possible rape or date rape scenario also so the consequences can become criminal as well as moral (where no good woman will go near the guy).

this goes for men and women both - important to be careful and respect others.

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Mon 05/27/13 10:08 AM

If EVERY date (or majority of em) ends with two naked bodies in a bed, then you're obviously a sex addict. Man whore, whatever you wanna call em.


:thumbsup: :thumbsup:

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Mon 05/27/13 01:11 PM
Man, people are awfully judgemental. How many of you ask your potential dates how many people they've had sec with? I'm betting some of you have a limit for your partner.

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Mon 05/27/13 04:18 PM

Man, people are awfully judgemental. How many of you ask your potential dates how many people they've had sec with? I'm betting some of you have a limit for your partner.


I don't care about that and all I'm interested in is how long since the last one and whether she's likely to commit to a relationship.

Never had a girlfriend that wouldn't have sex without already being in love and I think that if I had decided to wait for that I would be most likely dooming myself to die a virgin. I'll settle for her liking me, as a starting point anyway. Most relationships start off casual I think and I don't see a problem with that. Look at some of the guys that women claim to be in love with. They aren't that great.

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Mon 05/27/13 04:23 PM
I want sex and I want it rough. Is that too much to ask for

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Mon 05/27/13 04:35 PM

I want sex and I want it rough. Is that too much to ask for


if your partner is not willing than it is too much too ask for, yes

otherwise no, not if you have a willing, consensual partner

(no thanks BTW)lol

SweetlipsLC25's photo
Mon 05/27/13 04:59 PM
sex is overrated lol

msharmony's photo
Mon 05/27/13 06:02 PM

sex is overrated lol



I think great sex isnt overrated, however I do think sexlessness is underrated,,,,

just like a great piece of chocolate can be heaven, but many people live their own heavenly lives without chocolate,,,

its not necessary for satisfaction, or fulfillment,, its just one of many options,,,

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Mon 05/27/13 06:09 PM





HERE'S A LITTLE HINT FOR YOU

LOTS OF PEOPLE ARE GOING TO HAVE LOTS OF SEX WHETHER YOU LIKE IT OR NOT
IT'S THE NATURE OF THE WORLD.

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Mon 05/27/13 06:23 PM
Either works for me lol.... preferrably with but not neccessarily because without has its pluses too

jaded72's photo
Mon 05/27/13 08:51 PM
:wink:

Mirage4279's photo
Tue 05/28/13 10:46 AM

:wink:



Carefull Jaded watch those winks

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Tue 05/28/13 11:04 AM

I want sex and I want it rough. Is that too much to ask for


that's what I'm taking about!

So, at my age, if I know a guy for awhile, but don't want to commit, and have sex with him "I'm a whore"?

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Tue 05/28/13 11:31 AM


I want sex and I want it rough. Is that too much to ask for


that's what I'm taking about!

So, at my age, if I know a guy for awhile, but don't want to commit, and have sex with him "I'm a whore"?


You said it...lol didn't you no that, and the man has bragging rightslaugh
I just call it healthy