please don't think that I am the 'know it all' kind of guy because of this post. its just a humble reminder to the single ladies it may concern. most women have been deeply involved and carried away by life's activities that they don't remember that the most attractive and sexiest part of a women is her BEHAVIOUR! your physical beauty or independence or money cannot get you anything near as what your behaviour will. take this from me. the true beauty of a woman lies in her behaviour! if you look as pretty and hot as an angel but lack good manners or good behaviour you will never get a good man. have heard of stories of relationships that starts up perfect and sweet but ends in a very miserable way, only because the woman wont stop trying to take control of everything! or always showing equality. the truth is, a woman needs to be humble, patient and strong! I promise you that if you can be all this no man will come into your life and then leave you again. even the most promiscuous man will be bound by your humility, patience and strength. too much words already? am sure there re lots intelligent wise women here and for them a word is enough for the wise. behaviour is the true beauty of a woman. not big bums or boobs.

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ok. Thanks for the lecture.

pmpl

Nice. I agree but we all have different characteristics. I think we must know to accept things and knows when to bend and blend if possible.

pfft am not changing for no man.the first post sounds like woman should be seen and not heard.no chance!!!!

Everybody's got their opinions. If they don't agree with mine, they're wrong!!!

That is so right!...Very good write..INDEED!!

Oh my!

In my opinion, everyone should be in control of their lives.

By the way, everyone IS equal.

And finally, women are not the "only" ones that try to take control. Just saying.

seriously..

I'm offended!! I don't appreciate being told how to be a woman.. esPECIALLY from a guy.. walk a few miles in my shoes FIRST.. then we'll talk

but everyone has their opinions.. and you're entitled to yours..
this however, in MY opinion, is CRAP..

face it.. you have NO control over what other people say or do.. so if they do/say something you don't like.. tell 'em.. if they do it again.. warn 'em.. if they do it aGAIN? walk away and have pity on them..
the ONLY one you CAN control OR change is yourself..

it takes time to find someone you CAN appreciate..

in the meantime.. I am WHO I am.. and I'm not changing for ANYone..
I LIKE me.. and if nobody else does.. well then.. that's their loss

I don't think anything is wrong with the ladies here (or anywhere for that matter) and I certainly am not about to change someone who hypnotized me by the way she already was...

A relationship should be equal, 50/50, working together!

I couldn't agree MORE

Double DITTO~~~~~

Sounds like to me someone is looking for a rug to stand on or control....

Women/Men should have respect for others, kindness and a open heart but never let anyone walk over them..

We are all individuals and each of us is different from the other that is what makes us.. Never let anyone else tell you who or what you should act like...

As long as one treats others as they wish to be treated in life with kindness and respect then one can not ask more then that..

Winlie can u sent me yo Facebook profile ,u r probably the most fun to chat n mingle w here!??

In addition to my earlier post, couples must also agree on who is going to do what & who is capable of what. I am perfectly capable of doing my own dishes & laundry, but I would not expect my girlfriend or wife to be dragging an extension ladder out to get on the roof to clean out the woodstove pipe. (unless she could) It also reminds me of when I was tooled up with a female electrician, I did all the bull work because she was petite, but when it came to tie ins or terminations she was much faster than me. She was also able to get into areas I was not able to. We worked very well together!

I wish more men would think like that J-man.. the guys I meet seem somewhat intimidated by the amount of things I know how to do.. (my dad I think wanted another boy ) one guy even told me, the reason he didn't feel comfortable dating me was because I had MORE tools than HE did.. jealous much

anywho.. like Txs said..



well said my dear

I agree!

I think all he is saying is that a kind gentle woman with manners and a little kindness is a lot more sexy than a self righteous, entitled loud mouth opinionated b.i.t.c.h.

Manners are sexy for both sexes.