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Topic: Sugar Dad
jim4pleasure Joined Mon 04/22/13 Posts: 1	Mon 05/13/13 05:19 AM
Sounds like a good arrangement with mutual benefits - your thoughts?

lonelyladee Joined Wed 05/15/13 Posts: 1	Wed 05/15/13 07:56 PM
Can I get in this topic?

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Wed 05/15/13 08:02 PM
sex strictly for material/financial gain,, is prostitution aside from that, if the john is aware he is a john, it becomes between him and his arrangement I dont agree with being deceptive or misleading about intent,,,but many men are willing to put up material and money to have some trophy to walk beside,,,

graywolf55 Joined Wed 09/19/12 Posts: 1259	Thu 05/16/13 01:17 AM Edited by graywolf55 on Thu 05/16/13 01:27 AM
sex strictly for material/financial gain,, is prostitution aside from that, if the john is aware he is a john, it becomes between him and his arrangement I dont agree with being deceptive or misleading about intent,,,but many men are willing to put up material and money to have some trophy to walk beside,,, ~Thats BS not all of us need a Trophy,Just Honesty!! Someone to stay"through thick and thin"Look at intros.on a lot of women on here?Travel,boating,beaches,cruises,?The way i figured it is"if you want all that help me work and save for it!"What i have worked for and achieved in my life i've earned! Don't get me wrong,i'm not tight and don't mind sharing what i've achieved but show me you deserve it also after 1roll in the bed!!Even if you are pretty and sexy"We are all not that stupid"~~I can put out a worm and catch a fish,But women can put out a fish and catch a lot of worms fast!!!

oldsage Joined Thu 09/14/06 Posts: 18043	Thu 05/16/13 05:49 AM
Different strokes for different folks. All a matter personal integrity & choice.

jacktrades Joined Tue 09/11/12 Posts: 4395	Thu 05/16/13 09:52 AM
I'm not looking for a live in hooker.Love with sex is so much better. However Ms Harmony does have a point to a certain extent. You never see a actor, or sports player, millionaire,or most people associated with media jobs with just average women.They have women years younger than them, fake boobs,and other plastic surgery's. I'm not judging them but it does seem to be the norm.

destindream Joined Sat 03/23/13 Posts: 2	Sun 06/09/13 06:11 PM
I think the younger generation calls it "Friends with benefits". A person at work has that arrangement. She found out that she is getting emotionally involved. The way people talk, but then she lets everyone know about it. sex without love screws you up with your emotions. And people talk. If your looking for a good relationship, you will never find it with a friend with benefits.

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Sun 06/09/13 06:14 PM
see, to me, I consider the FWB thing different in that there is some type of personal consideration of the other person AS A PERSON friends still have basic respect for each other, still enjoy each others platonic company,, but FWB have an agreement to screw around whenever they are horny and in each others company to me, a Sugar Daddy, is not really a relationship,, it is an act I will act as if I enjoy you and want to be with you, so long as you pay my bills I will sleep with you, so long as you pay my bills Sugar Daddy is more of a ocnditional relationship than FWB,, I think though I wouldnt engage in either

graywolf55 Joined Wed 09/19/12 Posts: 1259	Mon 06/10/13 04:50 AM
see, to me, I consider the FWB thing different in that there is some type of personal consideration of the other person AS A PERSON friends still have basic respect for each other, still enjoy each others platonic company,, but FWB have an agreement to screw around whenever they are horny and in each others company to me, a Sugar Daddy, is not really a relationship,, it is an act I will act as if I enjoy you and want to be with you, so long as you pay my bills I will sleep with you, so long as you pay my bills Sugar Daddy is more of a ocnditional relationship than FWB,, I think though I wouldnt engage in either Wished more people had this in mind!!Sees like a man dating a woman at our age,"the Man is considered a supplementary income for the woman!!And she hopes he is impudent when it comes to sex!! And the same goes for a other of men when they get a woman that is financial secure,All they do is lay around drunk or on drugs while the Woman thinks she has to tolerate that to be in a relationship with that? What gives anyhow with this incoderation for your spouse?I agree opposites attract but that is so far off base!!"STUPIDITY COUNTS"?

northenlights1 Joined Sat 06/02/12 Posts: 66	Fri 07/12/13 10:46 AM
Bahahaa

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14518	Fri 07/12/13 11:47 AM Edited by Toodygirl5 on Fri 07/12/13 11:51 AM
Some older men with Money, don't mind being a sugar daddy. That is a man's choice if he wants to spend his Money on a Young woman. Many Old men don't have Money to spend, even on a date, with a Older woman his own age. I don't agree with it or women being a Cougar but with Young men and Older women, it is probably more about Sex.

kissablekiss Joined Mon 03/08/10 Posts: 8528	Sun 07/14/13 12:01 PM
Different strokes for different folks

jagbird Joined Mon 07/15/13 Posts: 28720	Tue 07/16/13 02:30 PM Edited by jagbird on Tue 07/16/13 02:32 PM
Excuse me.., but I'm new in here.. and I just have to ask.. ..Are you serious, guy..? (OP) You'll never find a healthy, long-lasting relationship, with an approach to dating like this (in my opinion)..

kissablekiss Joined Mon 03/08/10 Posts: 8528	Tue 07/16/13 04:43 PM
Excuse me.., but I'm new in here.. and I just have to ask.. ..Are you serious, guy..? (OP) You'll never find a healthy, long-lasting relationship, with an approach to dating like this (in my opinion).. agree with you

gay97006 Joined Tue 07/16/13 Posts: 36	Tue 07/16/13 06:01 PM
Some older men with Money, don't mind being a sugar daddy. That is a man's choice if he wants to spend his Money on a Young woman. Many Old men don't have Money to spend, even on a date, with a Older woman his own age. I don't agree with it or women being a Cougar but with Young men and Older women, it is probably more about Sex. Once I was a passenger on public trans sitting across from 2 20 something young men. The conversation held was regarding 1 fellow's "suga momma" who buys him "treats" as long as he "supplies her with her treat on demand"! "I live rent free and get my (????), just fantasize I'm doing it with a hottie chick", and it was my stop off the bus.

jagbird Joined Mon 07/15/13 Posts: 28720	Wed 07/17/13 10:48 AM
Excuse me.., but I'm new in here.. and I just have to ask.. ..Are you serious, guy..? (OP) You'll never find a healthy, long-lasting relationship, with an approach to dating like this (in my opinion).. agree with you Good... thanks... Could you lend me five bucks...?

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14518	Wed 07/17/13 01:10 PM
Some older men with Money, don't mind being a sugar daddy. That is a man's choice if he wants to spend his Money on a Young woman. Many Old men don't have Money to spend, even on a date, with a Older woman his own age. I don't agree with it or women being a Cougar but with Young men and Older women, it is probably more about Sex. Once I was a passenger on public trans sitting across from 2 20 something young men. The conversation held was regarding 1 fellow's "suga momma" who buys him "treats" as long as he "supplies her with her treat on demand"! "I live rent free and get my (????), just fantasize I'm doing it with a hottie chick", and it was my stop off the bus. Guess it is truth in my statement, huh! Many Old men cann't have Good sex.

jagbird Joined Mon 07/15/13 Posts: 28720	Wed 07/17/13 01:38 PM Edited by jagbird on Wed 07/17/13 01:38 PM
Some older men with Money, don't mind being a sugar daddy. That is a man's choice if he wants to spend his Money on a Young woman. Many Old men don't have Money to spend, even on a date, with a Older woman his own age. I don't agree with it or women being a Cougar but with Young men and Older women, it is probably more about Sex. Once I was a passenger on public trans sitting across from 2 20 something young men. The conversation held was regarding 1 fellow's "suga momma" who buys him "treats" as long as he "supplies her with her treat on demand"! "I live rent free and get my (????), just fantasize I'm doing it with a hottie chick", and it was my stop off the bus. Guess it is truth in my statement, huh! Many Old men cann't have Good sex. Actually... That was a story about a "young man" who was doing the Sugar "mom" thing... If older men are smart they make love.., not have sex...

sybariticguy Joined Thu 09/27/12 Posts: 1639	Wed 07/17/13 02:12 PM
you are obviously overlooking the intrinsic value of young nubile sexual behavior that is primary for males and only tertiary for women if that!!!

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14518	Wed 07/17/13 02:33 PM
Some older men with Money, don't mind being a sugar daddy. That is a man's choice if he wants to spend his Money on a Young woman. Many Old men don't have Money to spend, even on a date, with a Older woman his own age. I don't agree with it or women being a Cougar but with Young men and Older women, it is probably more about Sex. Once I was a passenger on public trans sitting across from 2 20 something young men. The conversation held was regarding 1 fellow's "suga momma" who buys him "treats" as long as he "supplies her with her treat on demand"! "I live rent free and get my (????), just fantasize I'm doing it with a hottie chick", and it was my stop off the bus. Guess it is truth in my statement, huh! Many Old men cann't have Good sex. Actually... That was a story about a "young man" who was doing the Sugar "mom" thing... If older men are smart they make love.., not have sex... I know what the story was about. A Older woman having sex with younger man. That proves the point I was trying to make, Older women like younger men for Sex. Younger women go with Old men for money and things they can provide for them. Most Old men are worn out and cann't have Good sex. They like to think so, but NOT.