Community > 50 and over

Topic: Sugar Dad
jagbird Joined Mon 07/15/13 Posts: 28720	Wed 07/17/13 02:39 PM
You don't know me... I can give many repeat performances, without help (i.e: viagra; etc..) I also don't drink and/or do drugs, so that probably helps a lot.. Eating right & getting sleep, also helps.. But.., I am only interested in a monogamous relationship.. and don't go out there having sex with just anyone.. And.., I still prefer to "make love" over "having sex".. Don't judge all men the same... If I told you that only three women in my life could keep up with me, would that tell you that ALL women have low sex drives..? There's being chauvinistic... and there is also being "female chauvinistic"..

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 15036	Wed 07/17/13 03:53 PM Edited by Toodygirl5 on Wed 07/17/13 04:04 PM
I do research. I am not talking about all older men but most and that age starts over 50 and some with health issues. I do not judge Men, I know there are always exceptions, those not the same. When I refer to Sex, it is Usually in General. I too am a monogamous person. Many do not know how to "make love" either.

gay97006 Joined Tue 07/16/13 Posts: 36	Wed 07/17/13 05:42 PM
I do research. I am not talking about all older men but most and that age starts over 50 and some with health issues. I do not judge Men, I know there are always exceptions, those not the same. When I refer to Sex, it is Usually in General. The "Low-T" thing does pop its ugly head as young as 35. Yes, most guys over 50, especially with health issues, have E.D. issues as well. I cringe when I read about 25-35 y/o shopping for viagra! Hats off to the gentleman who takes care of himself via diet, exercise, and vice control. A healthy guy provides a healthy sex life ...

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Tue 07/30/13 05:50 PM
Some older men with Money, don't mind being a sugar daddy. That is a man's choice if he wants to spend his Money on a Young woman. Many Old men don't have Money to spend, even on a date, with a Older woman his own age. I don't agree with it or women being a Cougar but with Young men and Older women, it is probably more about Sex. Once I was a passenger on public trans sitting across from 2 20 something young men. The conversation held was regarding 1 fellow's "suga momma" who buys him "treats" as long as he "supplies her with her treat on demand"! "I live rent free and get my (????), just fantasize I'm doing it with a hottie chick", and it was my stop off the bus. Guess it is truth in my statement, huh! Many Old men cann't have Good sex. Actually... That was a story about a "young man" who was doing the Sugar "mom" thing... If older men are smart they make love.., not have sex... I know what the story was about. A Older woman having sex with younger man. That proves the point I was trying to make, Older women like younger men for Sex. Younger women go with Old men for money and things they can provide for them. Most Old men are worn out and cann't have Good sex. They like to think so, but NOT. I have had great sex with a 60 year old man. He can't go on and on like a young man but what he lacks in quantity; he greatly made up in quality. To me quality far outweighs quantity.

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 15036	Tue 07/30/13 08:51 PM
I have had great sex with a 60 year old man. He can't go on and on like a young man but what he lacks in quantity; he greatly made up in quality. To me quality far outweighs quantity. There is always a few exceptions in Older men.

oldsage Joined Thu 09/14/06 Posts: 18043	Wed 07/31/13 06:18 AM
Exceptions in ladies also.

boogalou68 Joined Wed 07/03/13 Posts: 16	Wed 07/31/13 01:28 PM
< If taking a lady out for dinner or helping her out in some small way makes me a "sugar daddy", I'm in.

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Wed 07/31/13 01:40 PM
< If taking a lady out for dinner or helping her out in some small way makes me a "sugar daddy", I'm in. No; that makes you a decent guy and there are very few guys out there like. Usually if a guy helps me; he wants me to pay him in sex. Those guys disgust me so I stopped asking men to help.

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 15036	Wed 07/31/13 01:48 PM Edited by Toodygirl5 on Wed 07/31/13 01:50 PM
< If taking a lady out for dinner or helping her out in some small way makes me a "sugar daddy", I'm in. No, a "sugar daddy" usually does a lot more, for his Young women. He is all about giving her whatever she wants to keep her. You have to have money, to be a real "sugar daddy." Taking a lady out to dinner and helping her out is just being a real gentleman, and not too many are around still Single. I managed to date a few. in the last few years of dating.

boogalou68 Joined Wed 07/03/13 Posts: 16	Wed 07/31/13 02:42 PM
Please let me clarify. Sex is not complicated, if there is a mutual physical attraction go for it, it is as natural as breathing. I never have heard any discussion on any subject while participating in the act of making love. I personally do not believe men and women can be friends, so if your looking for a friend to take you to dinner and do somethings for you, find another woman.

kissablekiss Joined Mon 03/08/10 Posts: 8528	Wed 08/28/13 07:59 AM
I think I would hurt a 60 year old man .....I'm sorry

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Wed 08/28/13 08:02 AM
I think I would hurt a 60 year old man .....I'm sorry dang.

oldsage Joined Thu 09/14/06 Posts: 18043	Wed 08/28/13 08:13 AM
I think I would hurt a 60 year old man .....I'm sorry "Bite me, Beat me....MAKE me FEEL WANTED" "Sticks & Stones may break my bones BUT WHIPS & CHAINS....EXCITE ME"

kissablekiss Joined Mon 03/08/10 Posts: 8528	Wed 08/28/13 08:31 AM
Lol

jagbird Joined Mon 07/15/13 Posts: 28720	Wed 08/28/13 08:46 AM
I'll stick to my "pleasure, not pain" routine..

Ouizee Joined Sat 08/18/12 Posts: 4080	Wed 08/28/13 08:55 AM
I think I would hurt a 60 year old man .....I'm sorry

oldsage Joined Thu 09/14/06 Posts: 18043	Wed 08/28/13 08:55 AM
I'll stick to my "pleasure, not pain" routine.. What doesn't kill ya, makes you stronger No wonder I am so ONERY!!

kissablekiss Joined Mon 03/08/10 Posts: 8528	Wed 08/28/13 08:59 AM
I think I would hurt a 60 year old man .....I'm sorry

Ouizee Joined Sat 08/18/12 Posts: 4080	Wed 08/28/13 09:04 AM
That was too funny!!! Love your humor!!!

jagbird Joined Mon 07/15/13 Posts: 28720	Wed 08/28/13 09:18 AM
I'll stick to my "pleasure, not pain" routine.. What doesn't kill ya, makes you stronger No wonder I am so ONERY!! So that's what those extra set of jumper-cables are for..?